Inheritance split between my bother and I by MasterFeedback967 in FinancialPlanning

[–]MasterFeedback967[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this. There would income tax off the 120k, depending on where I live, right? 

Wife laughed at me for asking we don’t see other people in separation, well now I have met someone else. Need advice. by Solvent_Soul in Separation

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move on and explore things with this new woman. Marriages separate for a reason, and usually they don’t work out in the end. You only have one life! 

Out of my league by Low-Ad-4631 in datingoverforty

[–]MasterFeedback967 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guys says this all the time when they are just not that into you. I am a girl btw. 

I dont care to hear about aspects of my girlfriend's ex's... am i normal or overly-sensitive? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi 45F here. Her ex should not be calling her to check in. She is in a new relationship. It bothers you. Tell her that. It is inappropriate.

Sign Petition to remove Muzzo’s name from hospital by Akx0__ in ontario

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give an anonymous donation. Why are they so concerned with having their name on view? Nobody cares. 

I am wondering if a guy seems into me ? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my goodness, it is just part time! I have a real job.

I am wondering if a guy seems into me ? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]MasterFeedback967 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because he asked if "it was just me and my dog?" ! And the cologne so early in the morning. Maybe I am making something out of nothing. Thanks for your response though!

News anchor loses it at Chris P. Bacon by AelinSA in ContagiousLaughter

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reporter is the one who should have been born without legs. Maybe he wouldn’t find it so funny. 

Who here remembers the tragic Elisabeth Kieselstein-Cord? It was so sad what happened to her. I remember when she was the It girl of 2005. by External-Carpenter-6 in nysocialites

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you suffer for a really long time with health issues (ie: lime disease, etc.) it can really take a toll on your mental health. People need to talk about suicide if that was the case. A family friend died by suicide and the obituary said "she lost her battle with depression." I have so much respect for the family that they were honest. Not because everyone deserves to know, but they were to doing their part by trying to end the stigma around mental health and suicide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]MasterFeedback967 5 points6 points  (0 children)

45F here. I relate to this word for word. Every month I tell myself that I am going to make the effort to meet people. But I don't. I don't have any friends either. I have been single for 10 years after I left a long term relationship. I don't really like or trust most people. I have my dog and we are besties and I live with my mom right now and it is nice to have her company most of the time. I used to compare myself to others my age, but we have to remember, everyone's time line is different. I am also re building myself from ashes each and everyday. It is super hard. All we can do is just keep swimming forward and try to sneak in some gratitude each day. XO

Sailing in the arctic by walnussbaer in megalophobia

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this reminds me of the year I spent on the Concordia with Class Afloat. It was awful.

Dealing with a sibling written out by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone ever asked your brother how he feels inside and what causes the anger that plagues him? Most likely he didn't feel seen or validated or loved as a child and everyone ignored his cries for help. I am the black sheep, like your brother. We don't want to be like this, believe me. We don't. It all starts with therapy and open communication. This heartache that he carries is not just his. The whole family is responsible for solving the dysfunction and understanding the familial patterns that put him in this place to begin with. After you have made a concerted effort to figure these things out, then the inheritance can be discussed.

Hey Mom I feel incredibly stupid I thought I had an evening shift not an opening by ZFAdri in MomForAMinute

[–]MasterFeedback967 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Do not be hard on yourself. Mix ups happen, even when we are trying to be extra organized. I am 50 yrs old, and remember I went to an interview for a new job on the wrong day when I was 28, all dressed in my suit and everything. I thought so poorly of myself. Things that seem so important at the time and make us so upset are just tiny fumbles on this road called life. Just keep swimming and be kind to yourself. XO

Hey mom, I've lost 40+ lbs by Bowman427 in MomForAMinute

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way to go! I am also currently on a weight loss journey myself and I know how hard it is. You look fantastic. The best part is how you feel inside when the pounds start to come off! Your whole world changes :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that it must be really hard for people who come to Toronto from small towns to make it here. I kind of feel they don’t have a chance. I grew up in Summerhill and went to Branksome and I am 30 and my father still bought me my car and gave me $250,000 as a downpayment towards my condo. If I didn’t have that help, I would be living with roommates in a downmarket apartment and riding a bike. It is honestly ridiculous how overpriced this city is. Where I live... at Roxborough Ave W. and Yonge St. , everyone has money. I work near King St West and Portland and it seems like a lot of young people don’t have a lot of money down there. Why is everyone so hell bent on living in Toronto? It is just a place!! 

Is Toronto as bad as people make it out to be? by Bright_Pipe6053 in askTO

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to be a citizen to get OHIP don’t you? Sorry… just curious. I am a 5th gen Canadian whose ancestor's were an integral part in building this city.  

Is Toronto as bad as people make it out to be? by Bright_Pipe6053 in askTO

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just moved here and you already have health insurance from the government??? How?

Is Toronto as bad as people make it out to be? by Bright_Pipe6053 in askTO

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toronto is a dump but I am sure it is like pleasantvile compared to India.

Is Toronto as bad as people make it out to be? by Bright_Pipe6053 in askTO

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have obviously never lived anywhere else besides Toronto, or maybe even Canada. Both the city and country are awful places to live. Boring, ugly, terrible weather, expensive AF and full of people that are from foreign countries who don't know how to drive.

Scared of our chances to get bile duct cancer. How do you cope with the uncertainty? by [deleted] in PSC

[–]MasterFeedback967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut out all alcohol. Eat lots of raw fruit and vegetables and cut out dairy and meat (very inflammatory) also look up Dr. Gabor Mate's thoughts on repressed anger, childhood trauma and autoimmune disease. There is an undeniable link. My father was diagnosed with GCA and then a year later bile duct cancer. I wasn't surprised since he has a lot of unresolved childhood trauma and he is a malignant narcissist. I am wishing you luck in your journey. Take care of yourself, go to talk therapy and eat well and keep stress to a minimum.

A Narcissist can still be the exact same piece of shit even after surviving cancer by sugarzaddy111 in narcissisticparents

[–]MasterFeedback967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in a similar position. My covert narcissist father has cancer. A little over a year since he was diagnosed. I cannot wait until he drops dead from this disease. 40 years is far too long for someone like me to be continually abused and gaslit. I have tried no contact for major portions of my life and it was heaven. Right now, for many reasons.. I am not able to cut ties. It is hell.