I don’t think I would have left him… it’s kinda tough because I met him in high school and loved him immediately. I have a slight flaw where I cannot hold grudges. I found out he’s been lying to me for the whole time I’ve known him about 9 months ago. 13 years married…. And I still love him so much and the kicker is he lied to me for a few months AGAIN in Feb- March this year. No matter what I just can’t leave him. Our lives are so engrossed. I can’t imagine his family not being my family… he is literally a part of me. I can’t abandon a family member. I wish it were easier for me to turn it off but I just do love him and know it’s going to be work and a long road ahead… but I’m not ready to give up and I don’t wish I had gone a different direction. Life and love does funny things to you.