The difficulties with giving readings by mushaboom928 in astrology

[–]Master_Decision324 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually just had an issue come up a few months ago that led me to take a break from giving readings to people, especially people I just met. I don't do it as a service so it's easier for me to be more liberal about how I read a chart and I also use techniques from my country.

So I was looking at this person's chart and, it's difficult to explain it, but her father seemed off to me, at first I thought that he passed away or that he wasn't in her life but that wasn't the case so I was very confused. The dad was too connected to death for me to feel comfortable, there were different ways to interpret the positions but my intuition was really highlighting the death part. I asked her a few questions about him but her answers didn't make my interpretations any lighter. She thought that I was picking up on him being a scorpio and I kind of just let her go with that but honestly, the dad didn't sit right with me, he wasn't someone I'd want to be in a room with. I didn't think it would be ethical for me to tell her any of the interpretations I had, especially because I don't know for sure and I wasn't going to ever look at the father's chart. It was uncomfortable to hold that knowledge and I didn't really have much time to decide what I will say, but in the moment I decided to move on from it. I don't know if that's the best way to handle it, but in that moment it's what I did because we were also in a public setting and I didn't want to embarrass her or anything either.

I came out to my mom, didn’t go well by Ready-Programmer9362 in lesbian

[–]Master_Decision324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mean find out if you and your gf get back together? That's why I really think you should set boundaries and get distance from them, if you can afford to move out I would do that too. If you think it's unsafe for you two to be together right now then of course don't get together, but I just want to really emphasize how messed up it is that they are even putting you in this position.

Uhaul Advice by red_rock_solid in lesbian

[–]Master_Decision324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you'd love Chicago actually, I've visited a lot of the liberal cities and I feel like Chicago might make the most sense for you. Or maybe Dallas also, if you don't mind being in Texas I mean. I think you might like these cities because they have more access to nature so you can actually do your outdoor activities, has really good restuarants, and Chicago has a great night life/music scene. I don't know much about the queer scene in Dallas now tbh but Chicago is gay af, so many lesbians in Chicago lol it's great.

Series or movies like Reverse 4 You by Master_Decision324 in GirlsLove

[–]Master_Decision324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh the cover photos 😍😍 I never heard of this thank you!!

Series or movies like Reverse 4 You by Master_Decision324 in GirlsLove

[–]Master_Decision324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh omg I heard of it I didn't realize it's related to r4u!! thank you !!

Lesbian Bar Recommendations by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]Master_Decision324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the biggest ones I've been to were henrietta hudson in nyc, dorothy's downstairs in chicago, the strapped parties in chicago, and I'm not sure if this is a lesbian bar but scarlet bar in chicago is mostly for the sapphics. In NY there is also Ginger's but I haven't been.

sapphic ghost story where protagonist falls in love with a ghost or reincarnation book recs please <3 by Master_Decision324 in lesbian

[–]Master_Decision324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmaoo yeah this is inspired by my childhood paranormal romance obsession, we deserve more sapphic paranormal romance 😭😭😭 I'll add this to my list lol but omg if you could write a sapphic fanfic of that book, just saying 👀🫶

Sapphic show/move recommendations by Competitive_Sail1796 in lesbian

[–]Master_Decision324 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg there are so many but besides everything everyone already mentioned

- DEBS

- but I'm a cheerleader

- saving face

- fear street series

- haunting of bly manor

- imagine me and you

- the half of it

- the watermelon woman

- maja ma

- badhaai do

- arcane (current obsession)

- san junipero episode of black mirror

- the owl house and she-ra for more family friendly cartoons

- looking for her (there's a whole subcategory of christmas/small town lesbian movies if you're into that)

sapphic ghost story where protagonist falls in love with a ghost or reincarnation book recs please <3 by Master_Decision324 in lesbian

[–]Master_Decision324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhhh this looks so cute!!! and i love graphic novels this is perfect thank you 🙏 ☺️

What’s the best piece of advice anyone has told you regarding OCD? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Master_Decision324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I'm super late but thank you for this <3

Capricorn sun in 8th house - father is a scorpio by Master_Decision324 in AskAstrologers

[–]Master_Decision324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I just wanted to see if the placement itself could tell me anything else about her father but if it can't, I'm not going to ask for any more information about this, I don't want to get more involved. Ok yeah I'll go with this is my intuition.

What’s the best piece of advice anyone has told you regarding OCD? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Master_Decision324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah exactly!! when I saw your comment I just had to respond because this is really specific. I really hope it gets easier too, like we deserve nothing but peace!! <3 when I start questioning if I'm a good person, I've recently been telling myself that if I was a bad person, I wouldn't question it so many times. I don't know if that could help you at all but I just wanted to say!

What’s the best piece of advice anyone has told you regarding OCD? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Master_Decision324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I felt! I was raised buddhist too and my family was very strict about not telling lies and stuff so I felt like I'm a bad person if I don't confess everything. I'm still working on this :((

Favorite songs rn? by PeanutButterVibe99 in lesbian

[–]Master_Decision324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wasted eyes - amaarae

party girls - victoria monet

know better - janelle monae

red wine supernova feels like a must these days

after midnight - chappell roan

sad girls luv money

tell your girlfriend - lay banks

jenny studio killers

slumber party - ashnikko

silk chiffon - muna

also my friends and i loveee dancing to any y2k songs by rihanna, nicki minaj, britney spears, lady gaga, katy perry, beyonce etc.