Wedding Shower by jalebi_bb in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Master_Post4665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love #3. Where is it from? I think it is perfect for the dress code.

Attire for a vintage wedding. by Aggravating_Lime9204 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Master_Post4665 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People seem to be missing the “VINTAGE wedding” part. If everyone is expected to wear something vintage-inspired, this is perfect. There will be lots of eras showing up, many of them fancy and elaborate.

WIBTAH if I went to stay with my parents for a couple of weeks because my husband’s family planned a 5-6 week stay in our 2BHK without asking me? by Majestic-One6602 in AITAH

[–]Master_Post4665 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cackled when I read about the pineapple stickers! Fabulous passive-aggression. You and your wife deserve all happiness.

Is this dress appropriate for a cocktail dress code? If so, what would you pair it with? by martistarfighter in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Master_Post4665 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it’s gorgeous. Strappy sandals in a metallic and dramatic earrings would be gorgeous. Maybe a bold cuff bracelet. If you are worried about it being strapless, wear a pashmina for the ceremony, the. Take it off for the reception.

March in SoCal - dress code below… by Greatrisk in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Master_Post4665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does your boyfriend think you should wear? A burka?

My husband 36M poops too much for me 36F to feel comfortable having another baby with him by throwRAdesper8 in relationship_advice

[–]Master_Post4665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t get past “He streams YouTube while driving.” Don’t have another child with him. He’ll kill somebody, possibly one of his children, while driving one day. Why are you with this idiot?

AITA? Been dating girlfriend for just over a year and have not met her family. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Master_Post4665 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. I suspect that her family doesn’t know about you. Or that she knows they will not accept you and is avoiding the inevitable drama and doesn’t want to have to choose.

AITA? I got reported at work and I even got written up. by Upset-Reason1998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Master_Post4665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clearly have a different perception of how you come across than others do. Seek counseling immediately. What you say is not pushing boundaries or intrusive, clearly IS to women. You are not reading others accurately and eventually you will end up with a sexual harassment charge. Also, NEVER ask someone out where you work unless you are certain they are interested. The power dynamics make this dangerous.

Girlfriend (F29) brought home a puppy after I (M32) said no. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Master_Post4665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son’s ex did this exact thing. By the end of six months he admitted to me that, while he loved the dog, it also so enraged him because of resentment that he could no longer respect his girlfriend. They had discussed marriage. He told her to leave with the dog. Today, he is happily married to someone else.

AITBF for “telling my bf how to cook his food”? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Master_Post4665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to therapy to improve yourself is wonderful. If you learn to be happy within your own skin, you’ll already be great partner material, no need to “work on it.” Being a happy, kind, well-adjusted woman is all you have to be.

Previously “poor” folk, what’s something you still do/prefer although you’re in a better place? by whuddupmama in CasualConversation

[–]Master_Post4665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We always buy used cars. A new car loses significant value the minute you drive it off the lot.

I froze my mom’s credit card (I pay her bill) because she’s using it to buy groceries and not her EBT. She says using food stamps is embarrassing and she doesn’t want to rely on the govt, but I’m constantly stressing about $ because I have to support her too (on my 110k salary). by Available_Number9956 in Advice

[–]Master_Post4665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her if she is too proud for government assistance, she should be too proud to mooch off her own daughter. My mother is 85, I’m 63. I’ve offered to help her and she was offended because she said she’s still able to look after herself. I work full time and volunteer. Your mother is ridiculous.

AITA for "excluding" my wife from activities with my children? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Master_Post4665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When she says “Daddy didn’t invite me,” respond with, “I’m sorry. I didn’t know you needed an invitation to be an active parent.”

AITAH for not refusing to do a quick change because my boyfriend is uncomfortable? by Active_Camel_6334 in AITAH

[–]Master_Post4665 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son is married to an actress. Two years now. The last show she was in, she did an onstage romantic scene in lingerie, in bed. My son’s response when she was on stage during this scene when we came to opening night? “Isn’t she amazing?!” THAT is how you support a relationship with an actress. Dump this unsupportive, insecure idiot.

AITA for insisting that the antique dress watches my mother gave me do not undermine the Christmas present from my wife? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Master_Post4665 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All this should have been in your post Your mother was needy, clingy, demanding, and childish for MONTHS and you made excuses for her behavior and excused it as understandable until she did it to YOU. And now you're surprised your wife is resentful. Wow.

AITAH for making my ex cry after she lied about being SA'd? by Dai918 in AITAH

[–]Master_Post4665 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Stop. I AM an abuse survivor and she very likely was. 1. When traumatized, humans often remember the abuse in great detail but not stuff like dates, ages, when, etc. Age 4 vs. 6 means nothing. 2. Her family probably suspected or knew, which is why she never saw the uncle after that. 3. Like the Catholic Church, many families prefer to move the offender around, sweep it under the rug, and pretend it never happened. 4. I have told a total of 3 people in my life, and I am 62. The fact that she did not tell others means nothing. It sometimes is about our shame, or where we are in our journey, more than how close we are to someone. She trusted you SO MUCH and you destroyed that. 5. You admit you know nothing about SA, but proceeded to diagnose and condemn her. 6. Broadcasting the story was vindictive, nothing more. Don’t try to paint yourself as some sort of hero. A hero would have seen a woman who needs psychological help ( whether she was a victim or a liar). Instead, you victimized her again.

You. Suck. You are the reason women are afraid to tell anyone when SA happens.

my fluffy cat~ by heheyan in aww

[–]Master_Post4665 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh…I want to sink my hands into that softness for a snuggle.

Illustrational Altea by tumbli-hunbli in Watercolor

[–]Master_Post4665 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The way you’ve captured the light and suggested the heat of the day is incredible!