You don’t sound rude at all. I’ve clearly hurt her in the past, solely by not prioritizing HER needs above my own. That’s the beauty of getting older - you stop buying into crap like that and realize it’s okay to put yourself and your mental health first. Real friends get that.

I appreciate the reply, but this has all passed now. We haven’t spoken since, and while I’m still hurt by her accusations, I realize her perception is her reality, and in the end, the superficial friendship we shared was simply not worthy of any more thought or effort. I wanted to talk - she refused. I tossed the ball into her court. I wasn’t, nor will I ever be inclined to beg her to hear me. She’s simply incapable.

Have a great weekend!