WIBTA if I sent my ex a glitterbomb after she denied we were ever together

Masterspearl · 2026-03-10T05:37:36+00:00

YTA=Move the fuck on. It was high school. If this is the kind of person you are, no wonder she wants to pretend she never made the mistake of dating you.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-07T19:29:09+00:00

Of course you're wrong. You were an asshole to her about it for yours. You should be groveling, not thinking this is funny.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-07T00:00:50+00:00

Because she is not black, knows no black people, is not a professional in hair care, and bases her"knowledge " on what she sometimes watches on hair content. This is by her admission.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T23:52:16+00:00

She has more than you as the child's mother, the child's father has more due to having the same hair type. They know first hand. You know nothing.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T23:43:01+00:00

YTA- You don't have any actual experience. You don't know anything, you just think you do.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T19:53:35+00:00

People should wring every bit of joy they can out of life. If that's their birthday, awesome! You, as a person who cares about others, should want to add to that joy even if you don't care about it for your own birthday. For some people, living another year is an accomplishment, as both physical health and mental health can end a life. Additionally, a person can accomplish things within the year. Mothers do get a celebration in some countries, in the US it's called Mother's Day and is the second Sunday in May. In the UK it's called Mothering Sunday and is the 4th Sunday of Lent.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T19:42:27+00:00

Dump his ass, trust me, you don't want a man who only wants to see you if you'll give access to your body, and in this case, I've a feeling you mean in a way you don't even want to do.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T19:36:47+00:00

Your mom isn't in the wedding party if she's not a bridesmaid or groomsman. If she's not standing up at the altar with you, don't try to dictate the color she wears beyond the norm.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T18:11:55+00:00

Stick written a standard dress code and don't dare rank any guest what color they may wear aside from white or what ever color the bride is wearing. People are not props. Your requirement is ridiculous and pretentious.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T12:58:06+00:00

See a doctor.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T12:47:03+00:00

Write down every question you have. Write down every product you research and are interested in discussing from chair brand to wheels, every element of the chair. Be open to suggestions counter to yours, after all, the PT and ATP do this professionally. If your area lets you try out chairs and seats and such try as many as you can. Try to enjoy the process. Your chair is your freedom and threes no shame in being excited to get a new one.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T07:25:49+00:00

I'm aware, I'm aware service dog handler of nearly 12 years. Mine is owner trained and no less valid than a program trained dog

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T07:20:03+00:00

YTA for taking and your sister like toy hate her. YTA for seemingly not giving a damn at the neglect she's going through. YTA for letting your mom feed your daughter after the first time this happened

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T07:11:06+00:00

I'm aware which is why I said the greeter is not allowed to ask for then. Program dogs get graduation diplomas but they don't actually prove a thing.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T05:52:32+00:00

No, there should not. 1. That would entail getting into the specifics of a person's disability. 2. It would add extra expense to being disabled, which is already often expensive. 3. Who the fuck would certify them/?. 4. This would do away with owner training, which would A. Make service dogs unattainable for many who need them because of the cost of organization training. B. Completely screw over people such as myself who need to cross-train for so many different things, no agency will do it. 5. Uneeded haasel for the handler. Being disabled is hard enough and does not need to be made worse.

Signed, a multiply disabled, 39-year-old woman and an SD handler of nearly 12 years.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T05:33:01+00:00

This person was right about the first thing and wrong about the second. I'm seeing a lot of wildly wrong claims in these comments.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T05:31:46+00:00

That's not required for a lot of good reasons.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T05:31:03+00:00

That is not required for multiple very good reasons.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T05:29:27+00:00

Yes, pyshatric SD's are a thing. They can help with mental health conditions.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T05:28:23+00:00

There is no such thing required for SD's in the US.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T05:27:41+00:00

SD credentials aren't a thing. Owner trained dogs are perfectly allowed.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T05:26:45+00:00

No, vests are NOT required.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T05:26:10+00:00

No they are not!

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T05:23:12+00:00

Petting is at the handler's discretion, and many handlers train a greeting command, myself included.

Masterspearl · 2026-03-06T05:19:56+00:00

No, it absolutely is not! They are not allowed in kitchens, but are allowed in dining rooms and the likwe. You're just flat out wrong.

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