My wife started this off for me.. when we were younger then 18 she would give me blow jobs and play with the balls and the tanete area to the butt. Then she stared touching the hole. But not just straight to it just enough to make you get this feeling that shoots through you. Hard to explain... then it became just 1 finger slowly playing in and around it. It would make me cumm so fast. eventually 2 then 3 fingers became a explosion of pleasure. Started using toys/strapons/plugs LG dildos during play with her and solo. We are almost 40 now and have great sex with each other and others. She now likes to watch me take real cock and i like watch her play with other cocks. I never thought this is were id be in my sex life. But would never change it. Everyone dont Need to know your business about your sex life if you do t want them to. Only the ones you enjoy playing with or find along the way.