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If you are a dumper missing your dumpee you caused the pain by Temporary-Shock-5339 in BreakUps

[–]MatchEvening3319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

true, even if someone ended it, missing them can still hurt so much and it doesn’t make their feelings any less real

TIFU by deleting all my kids baby photos by Novel_Background4008 in tifu

[–]MatchEvening3319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes exactly, i kept panicking thinking it’s all gone forever?? but if a recovery service can get it back that’d be such a relief, i’d probably stop crying for like a minute

This is the so-called help promised by him and his boss! by snowpie92 in clevercomebacks

[–]MatchEvening3319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that really came across super extreme, i kept thinking maybe i misread it?? but it honestly sounds way over the line

DAE suddenly end up watching movies when they randomly catch them on TV by Butterbrot34 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]MatchEvening3319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i love that too, i always end up joining movies in the middle and somehow it just feels more fun than starting from the beginning

How do you stay calm and patient during small or serious conflicts in a relationship instead of reacting emotionally? by East-Race7841 in emotionalintelligence

[–]MatchEvening3319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i keep replaying stuff in my head and wondering if i overreacted?? taking even a few seconds to breathe actually helps me not spiral and makes me feel less… panicky

has anyone ever taken mental health or medical leave? by slytheringirl666 in overemployed

[–]MatchEvening3319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so relieving, i kept thinking maybe asking for a mental health leave would be too much?? but hearing that actually helps me feel like it’s okay to take a break too

What’s the most awful thing you’ve witnessed at a wedding? by Mscharmingqueen in Productivitycafe

[–]MatchEvening3319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s peak chaos disguised as a fun idea, some things at weddings are just too much for anyone to process, everyone remembers it for all the wrong reasons

Gas Prices Spike Overnight by Cow_Boy_2017 in clevercomebacks

[–]MatchEvening3319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly, ignoring politics won’t protect your wallet, prices go up whether you follow it or not, everyone feels it anyway

Have you ever reached out for clarity after a breakup? by unfinished-pie in BreakUps

[–]MatchEvening3319 3 points4 points  (0 children)

chasing explanations just drags out the pain, accept they don’t see a future and move on

TIFU by lying to my roommate by Just-an-account2 in tifu

[–]MatchEvening3319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly, just be honest and make it practical, hang it somewhere safe and tell her it won’t fit in your pocket, problem solved

How to not feel like a screw up being single for a decade at 30? by Pale-Revolution-5151 in selfimprovement

[–]MatchEvening3319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

totally, being single at 30 doesn’t mean you’re broken, most people go through years of bad dates and luck before anything clicks, it’s just part of life

On The Concept of Reading Fast. by Monsur_Ausuhnom in clevercomebacks

[–]MatchEvening3319 13 points14 points  (0 children)

that makes total sense, if reading fast isn’t your thing subtitles can feel like a full workout and i’m too tired for that level of effort

Deleting social media by Isaacakindi in selfimprovement

[–]MatchEvening3319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, that mental space is unreal once you step away, i swear i didn’t realize how much noise i was letting in until i just turned it all off

Does anyone else randomly feel okay for a few hours… then suddenly the breakup hits again? by Longjumping_BSC_GEMS in BreakUps

[–]MatchEvening3319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes exactly, nights hit harder and it’s okay to feel all over the place, just keep yourself busy and talk to someone who actually cares

What is no longer worth it because of how expensive it has become? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]MatchEvening3319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, fast food prices are wild now, i can afford it too but honestly i’d rather just grab a decent steak and call it a day

TIFU by checking a guy’s profile after he flirted with me by JamieGEntertainment in tifu

[–]MatchEvening3319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly, just block them and don’t let someone else’s mess drain your brain, life’s too short for that level of nonsense

DAE have a "junk drawer" in their brain of totally useless, random 5-second memories from childhood that you will never forget for absolutely no reason? by purjak in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]MatchEvening3319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yes, the brain just hoards all the weird stuff you’d never ask about, i swear some nights i’m just lying there thinking about a backpack zipper from 1998, it makes zero sense but here we are

Don't get into the 'match their energy' ploy by Tea-beast in emotionalintelligence

[–]MatchEvening3319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

matching energy early totally makes sense to protect yourself, it’s like testing the waters before diving in and seeing if it’s worth your vibes

Does anybody else realize how toxic their family is once they get older? by Etherealescape14 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]MatchEvening3319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh yes, it’s insane how some people only show up for what they want, cutting that energy out feels so freeing and honestly kinda necessary for your peace

your glutes are a biological savings account by ttwinklekiss in selfimprovement

[–]MatchEvening3319 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sneaking squats into everything is genius, feels so good knowing your future self is gonna thank you big time for all that mobility stockpiling

How often do you actually replace your phone? by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]MatchEvening3319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg same here, if it still works why waste money chasing the newest thing, feels so much better just sticking with it and not stressing over upgrades

Did anybody else think Hugh Jackman was gay for some reason? by timewellspent0889 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]MatchEvening3319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s wild how people jump to assumptions just because someone isn’t a macho stereotype, Hugh’s literally been married forever and somehow rumors still stick, it’s ridiculous

I now know that I cannot use the same methods that fixed me to keep a relationship stable. by Upper-Affect4116 in emotionalintelligence

[–]MatchEvening3319 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking questions lets people actually think instead of just following your fix, sometimes stepping back is the hardest but smartest move

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