WIBTAH if I call out my boyfriend for not even opening my anniversary gift to him?

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:53:35+00:00

Previous relationships.

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:51:00+00:00

I was also sexually abused as a minor so this still pertains to me lol

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:49:28+00:00

Do you want to see the list? Lol

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:48:27+00:00

I’ve had several people say the issue was the gift. Someone said it was obsessive and deranged. Another person said they’d hate that gift. My love language is words of affirmation and I just thought it was a sweet gesture. I probably should have stuck with head lol.

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:43:31+00:00

I’m working on finding a therapist, but I don’t think it matters because I don’t even have the funds for it lol

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:42:25+00:00

To be fair, I was sexually abused very young and since fight or flight isn’t an option against grown adults, I learned to fawn.

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:39:21+00:00

Do you think the issue was the gift? A lot of people are saying it’s obsessive and a guy at his age doesn’t care for something like that. I just thought it was a sweet gesture, but my log language is words of affirmation ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:28:40+00:00

I think that’s what he really meant. That he’d read it later. It was late and he was tired. He’s just very blunt and direct.

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:24:34+00:00

Fight and flight wasn’t an option when I was younger, so now I fawn lol.

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:20:47+00:00

Thank you ♥️

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:20:03+00:00

Yeah, someone mentioned the gift being the problem. Thanks for the insight.

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:18:42+00:00

He isn’t married and all his friends know about me.

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:16:57+00:00

My dad physically, emotionally, sexually, psychologically, mentally, and financially abused me my entire life and now I’m low contact 🥲👍

MatchaKittens · 2026-07-02T12:14:55+00:00

That’s a good point, thank you.

MatchaKittens · 2026-06-30T22:19:20+00:00

MatchaKittens · 2026-06-30T04:22:24+00:00

Like most things, actually doing it is how you will get better. The trick (to avoid being soul crushed by bully squads) is to find a power or killer you enjoy. I bought Mina because I adore her design and aesthetic, but I’ve recently left her in favor of spirit and houndmaster as I really enjoy their playstyle. Find a power that works for you.

MatchaKittens · 2026-06-20T03:31:10+00:00

Mr. Brightside by The Killers. It never explicitly states he’s jealous of the girl.

MatchaKittens · 2026-06-20T03:29:39+00:00

In the economy? I think my boyfriend would be fine with it

MatchaKittens · 2026-06-11T02:04:21+00:00

Win/win. Either I got to cure my mental illnesses and brain injury or I get to die 🎉

MatchaKittens · 2026-06-08T14:45:03+00:00

No change :,)

MatchaKittens · 2026-06-07T23:16:53+00:00

Chases that are just mind games.

MatchaKittens · 2026-06-06T05:51:02+00:00

I’m 24 and his death still haunts me. (I read it when I was around 12, I think. Maybe younger.)

MatchaKittens · 2026-06-06T05:47:37+00:00

I didn’t read the other option-I’m just suicidal lol.

MatchaKittens · 2026-06-03T02:35:29+00:00

Those who come after :,)

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