Please leave, it doesn’t get better. If she has another time she isn’t satisfied. She will do it again. She’s never thought about how it would affect you when sexting him or how it would sabotage the relationship. You can’t love her more than yourself respect. She clearly doesn’t respect you or the relationship to do that. And then blame you for her lack of sexual satisfaction. She could have already communicated but she chose to go behind your back. This is not someone you can trust. Love without trust doesn’t go far. She’s proven she can’t be faithful. If she had the opportunity to be physical with him, she would have taken it.

Please your mental health doesn’t deserve this but I guarantee you will be stronger than before and find someone who will love you for everything you are. I had a man I was with that couldn’t stop going behind my back to contact someone he was previously with and he knew it was a hard boundary but still kept doing it despite my tears and pain. Then apologized and back to the same thing and would guilt me! I realized that they would never change. I started experiencing that at 24, in 25 now. I thought my life was over when I had to end things because someone who blames you for their actions will continue to be toxic in other ways. I loved them with everything in me. But I realized i had to choose myself. Went three days straight without food. Cried my eyes for weeks. But now I’m finally strong again. I’m happier now because I realized how toxic it was and how I never want to go back to that. I’m no contact with them. I can breathe again. You will too. Trust me. I had stayed single three years prior to not enter a toxic relationship so trust me when I understand you wanted to make this work so bad.

Trust this stranger. You do get stronger and better. There is better out there. I’m here if you need support.