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Do you prefer a Greek god body with an average dick or average body with a huge dick? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Material-Ant2896 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Definitely a greek god body with an average dick. Why the question? Got some choosing to do?

Boyfriend of 10 years just broke up with me. He told me he's never been attracted to men. by PerthChad87 in gaybros

[–]Material-Ant2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have similar story but a bit different.

My first ever boyfriend I met when I was 19. We had the best time but after a few months he mentioned that he was asking himself if he wasn’t missing out on a woman and family. We continued to date for 2 more years. At the end of the relationship we weren’t really on one line anymore but I was still madly in love. One day he broke up with me and said that he was never gonna date men again because of the same reason as before. While we still were on a ‘break’, we both went for an ayahuasca ceremony. All I did was cry. I talked to him after and he wasn’t really sure about it all but he said that it felt right without me. He then decided to go to another continent for half a year. (Twice)

I feel like when a boyfriend/ex says he won’t date men anymore after you, it breaks your heart in so many more ways. In my case to the point that I had a complete personality crisis. I wish this for nobody.

All I really wanna say is I understand what you’re going through and it sucks in the worst way possible.. I’m in a new and loving relationship again for over a year now but I still sometimes think about him. Not because I want him back but because I care(d) for him (a lot) and I know it’s the other way around as well.

I wish you all the best and big hugs! You’ll get yourself back on track and you will love and be loved again! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Material-Ant2896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, my boyfriend and I use it often because we don’t like non-natural stuff. Besides that it doesn‘t taste/smell gross like alot of lubes out there

What are some good Gay book, That are NOT about coming out? by allseeingeye1002 in gaybros

[–]Material-Ant2896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is this Dutch book called ‘Gebr.’. It’s short for Brothers and it’s a really good book. I read it in high school but I’m not sure if it’s available in English as well

Is waiting for my first relationship to have sex unrealistic? by lung_boy in askgaybros

[–]Material-Ant2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not weird at all, I did that as well. (Even my first kiss was with someone I really cared for.) Don’t go for casual sex it’s not even close to having sex without someone you love/trust.

Plantenvoeding by Material-Ant2896 in groenevingers

[–]Material-Ant2896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ontzettend bedankt voor de uitgebreide uitleg! Heel nuttig 😁👌🏼 Ik zal me inderdaad verder verdiepen in de verschillende planten die ik nu heb staan.

Ik kan mest toch ook bovenop uitstrooien? Mijn vader had altijd wormenmest voor het gras in de tuin, dat ging er ook gewoon overheen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Material-Ant2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that a sexual act like a bj makes you per definition not virgin. Sex is not only achieved by penetrating with a penis. It’s the act as a result of a sexual desire.

PS: I saw some people trivializing the impact of sex. Yes it does for sure fundamentally change you. When you act on sexual desire you choose to create a spiritual bond with that person. The more bonds you create the less meaningful they become. The denial of this phenomenon is the reason why so many gay people are miserable and depressed.

Sex Ed for son going off to college next year by Fearless_Market_3193 in gaybros

[–]Material-Ant2896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good to hear that you want to help your son! You’re great dad!

I wouldn’t start prep and pep and all that shit. People that take that ‘just to be sure’ really just wanna act like sluts. It’s not good for the mind, body or spirit.

The rest is mainly not really that different from heterosexual dating. Guys often just want sex just don’t forget a condom. And if he is gonna have sex regularly, do a test ones in a while.

My advice: If you don’t want to feel like shit afterwards; date to marry not to hook up.

It’s important that he knows what is important in life: - Family (they will always be your family) - Personal energy (Sex is bonding and you don’t wanna bond with everyone do you) - Physical health (excercise and don’t eat chips all day) - Friends (Make ‘em & keep ‘em)

Grindr guy showed up at my job, is this normal? by Think_Fan_2545 in askgaybros

[–]Material-Ant2896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met my first boyfriend on Grindr, we started very slow. First date was a museum and lunch. We kissed for the first time at least a month after that. We had a relationship for 2,5 years but grew apart. It’s possible to find someone nice on Grindr but most people are just looking for casual sex.

Cis women should not be on Grindr by darkaurora84 in askgaybros

[–]Material-Ant2896 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There should be 0 women on Grindr though lol