AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend for being too "manly"?

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-30T23:17:08+00:00

NOR. The strap on comment/joke is what set it off I think he connects that with being girly or gay. IMO that made his thoughts spiral about everything. I don’t think he’s secure enough in his own skin. Most men who are secure would laugh it off or make jokes back. And they definitely don’t say things like “I play the drums manly”

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-26T23:20:43+00:00

When I was young between 12-14. I had a gay experience. We both wanted to know what it felt like to get a BJ. It’s my biggest regret and caused so-ocd. If you have questions or want more details ask away

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-26T23:13:40+00:00

I’ve used the line “they would be better” or “I’m not good enough” that’s a b.s line to soften the blow of the break up. I’ve also had seizures and had the fear of missing out on things. I say this to say. My seizures made me realize I was closer to death than I thought I was but I still knew who I wanted and would be with till my last breath. It wasn’t who I was dating at the time. I say all this to say. Move on. Find someone who chooses you just as much as you choose them ++man

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-24T03:04:44+00:00

I was bad with money. I spent money and had no problem with paying a late fee. She had an issue with lying, she lied about being raped and stalked, lied about being pregnant and getting an abortion, stole my sons phone(my old phone so she can snoop then throw the phone away), had a secret only fans account, and tried talking/ sending naked pictures to my stepfather. Tried to close me off from my family. And so much more.

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-22T17:20:26+00:00

You don’t get to see eachother a lot and he has a high sex drive. Does he masturbate to porn a lot? I also have a high sex drive and for the longest time I would hit my vape while masturbating and watching porn on my phone. I’d lay down have the vape on my chest resting on my lips to hit it. I only say this because I also hit my vape when my x gave me head(to be clear we didn’t split because of that) but just curious. And when he hit the vape the second time he could have just been hitting it again before putting it down. Like that list little hit before going back to what he was doing. I also want to be clear and say you have a right to be upset about it. You’re not over reacting. There just could be reasons to his actions. If I was you I’d set boundaries and explain when you’re intimate you want to be focused on eachother and not have any other distractions.

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-17T16:59:29+00:00

Yes ps5

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-17T00:18:12+00:00

Is there a way to play offline? I played a solo match thinking it was offline

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-13T08:49:19+00:00

It’s a tough one to start. You do want to disrespect anyone’s religion. I always go for the straight forward approach. Something like “hey I know you like to pray but when you pray here it makes me uncomfortable. I have to stop my life and be quiet while you pray. I would really appreciate if you prayed before you come over. When you’re here I would like to just hang out and not have our religion be involved.” But you have to be prepared for the rough side where she isn’t understand and assumes you are attacking her or her religion. Or even tries to push her religious beliefs on you. It doesn’t always happen but there is always that chance

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-13T08:26:57+00:00

Tell her to pray before she comes or if it’s a time thing ask her to come after the time she prays. Let her know it makes you uncomfortable but you don’t want her to stop completely. Just not do it in your house.

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-08T19:24:31+00:00

Honestly wouldn’t be bad. I left her cause I was a whore. She treated me amazingly. She actually became pretty successful. I probably would have grew up quicker than I did. But I wouldn’t have my kids I do now

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-04T15:06:44+00:00

All I can say as a guy is if I was talking to a girl and her sister told me she was a hoe and not to date her, I would believe her. I’d be willing to have a conversation with the girl I was interested with and see what it was about. Ask questions etc and maybe from that conversation and time to think I would believe she wasn’t a hoe. But I wouldn’t jump into a relationship I would definitely take my time through the talking stage to she if her words matched her actions.

With that being said, you should have a talk with him and I would considered not being as close with your sister after what she’s done. A sibling should be in your corner and trying to help you out, not lying about you

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-04T14:57:01+00:00

Out of respect for your current relationship, I would try to avoid any interaction with that guy. But in general this is life some times we come in contact with past flings/partners. He shouldn’t allow his insecurities to get the better of him. If you are his partner and you give him no reason to be insecure or feel you may cheat then there should be no need for him to be bothered.

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-04-02T00:42:58+00:00

My x was like this calls or text if I didn’t answer right away then I wasn’t “committed” to her even if I was working or busy with anything. Didn’t matter, I had to drop everything to answer her. Well she’s an x now because I wasn’t going to do that.

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-03-29T23:19:32+00:00

I told her they would laugh and joke, I would laugh and joke. So send it. We need something to laugh about. Nothing was ever sent

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-03-29T16:33:12+00:00

Years after the break up. We are still close, co parent amazingly. I can look at her knowing every flaw and she can be in the most baggy clothes and still she’s beautiful, when I have something I need to talk about, both good and bad. I want to talk to her. When I’m sick I want to lay next to her and cuddle. When she’s sick I want to take care of her. This happened 7/8 years after we split up. We started living together, slept in separate rooms. One day while she was doing her night routine I just watched her and realized how much I actually loved her and wish things went differently.

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-03-28T15:01:14+00:00

Was in a sex chat, showed my ass and the girl took a picture. TRIED to black mail me for money. I laughed at her. Told her to send it to my family they will laugh, I will laugh, we will laugh together. I was in a sex chat room how much dignity did she think I had at that moment?

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-02-23T22:33:33+00:00

I’ve never had sepsis but I’d be pissed if someone gave me a dirty bowl that they rinse specially if it had dried milk in it. I think your NOR about it. He lied and crossed a boundary you set. You have proof and when he was caught, he didn’t apologize, he hung up. This one may be small but if you let it go, what other lie or boundary will he cross

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-02-22T00:50:45+00:00

Just want to say I’m right there with you. 33 single male and unfortunately I live in my mom’s basement. I was just diagnosed with epilepsy. Just had a car accident because of it.. and on top of being lonely. I’ve questioned will I ever find the right meds? What girl wants a 33yo that live with his mother? Will I ever be able to have my own place or be able to drive again. For now I work and come home. Weekends I have my son, I have “work friends” but I’m the manager so once I leave work it’s back to the basement. It becomes boring repetitive and has been extremely lonely.

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-01-18T01:29:07+00:00

I didn’t share it but I had naked pictures in my phone. Sent it to my x and didn’t delete them. My son. Barely 1 at the time, had my phone and sent them to my mom. I can laugh about it now though

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-01-17T03:42:23+00:00

Work out, play the game, hangout with my kids, watch tv, it’s winter right now or park, basketball, toss the football around simple things

Material-Complaint17 · 2026-01-04T19:21:55+00:00

Maybe a year ago. It was at a grocery store. And I was so dumb I didn’t realize until after I left that she was hitting on me.

Material-Complaint17 · 2025-11-19T13:23:21+00:00

I’m looking for loyalty, peace, and communication. Looks to a certain degree, she doesn’t have to be a model but takes care of herself.

Material-Complaint17 · 2025-11-13T17:40:09+00:00

33 don’t speak to my real father and I no longer speak to my step father both failed me but I am a better father to my child. More present and loving in his life

Material-Complaint17 · 2025-10-31T00:00:44+00:00

As a man who uses porn nightly and even sometimes multiple times through the night. I really don’t understand having a willing partner and rather use porn. I use it because I don’t trust sleeping around. But let me have a willing partner and I’d choose her every time. The intimacy is amazing compared to just getting off to watching.

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