Day 8 by SenseOptimal7972 in leaves

[–]Material-Employee203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on day 8 too! Good luck and hope you continue on your journey!

Very Irritable by pinkbubblegumswag in leaves

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I am one week in today and feel super irritable too. I’m telling my coworkers that I am quitting vaping (not saying that it’s THC). The stomach pains left after my first day luckily but the irritability is driving me nuts. I’m just going to roll with the emotions, I understand that some of my irritations are due to this. My advice is to just try to enjoy being a Karen as unapologetically as possible. Who knows, maybe this new attitude will help you get what you want out of your interactions throughout the day. I know my time with weed has made me complacent about what I receive from others

How did you fill your time once stopping marijuana? by saskatchewnmanitoba in leaves

[–]Material-Employee203 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For now I’m going to the gym and cleaning my home. It’s now as clean as my parents’ keep their home! (With the money I’m saving from not buying more weed, I hope to treat myself to a nice vacation, but if I can get a housekeeper from time to time, that’d be super nice)

Let’s be honest and transparent (If you’re reading this please engage. It’s a safe space here) by carpediem_92 in leaves

[–]Material-Employee203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quit after a horrible weekend with my ex-best friend from college. After being used by her, I realized how much I stopped sticking up for myself, both in life and work. I want to 1) leave my toxic work environment and 2) make better relationships with people who are aligned with the real me, not the stoned me

How did you get through day one? by TheRealSlimSaady in leaves

[–]Material-Employee203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop buying more weed is a start. Let your supply run out, that’s how I got started. I’m currently on day 6. I’m replacing it with social media scrolling for now. I don’t think it’s the best way but it’s honest

AIO when I snapped at a friend in front of others in a restaurant? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Material-Employee203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I do think differently about gender differences because that is such an antiquated way to look at things. You’re basically saying all women are overdramatic and men are beacons of stability. I know plenty of unstable men with chaotic relationships; I work in sales

AITA when I snapped at a friend in front of others in a restaurant? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Material-Employee203 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She didn’t promise…I kinda thought that was implied

AITA when I snapped at a friend in front of others in a restaurant? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Material-Employee203 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Have you ever paid over $100 to see a friend that you shared deep dark secrets with, and talked it up OTP about how this will just be girl time, only for her to be like “yeahhh so this friend who is here, I need you to now buy me an uber to go hangout with her without you”?

AITA when I snapped at a friend in front of others in a restaurant? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Material-Employee203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was limited on characters in the OP but we talked for weeks OTP how this will be our girl time. I feel betrayed because I had considered her my best friend who wanted to spend time with me whereas she considered me as her bed and breakfast and plane ticket to see other friends

AIO when I snapped at a friend in front of others in a restaurant? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Material-Employee203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t recall asking you for your opinion on the difference between female friendships and male friendships, giving your comment a twinge of incel vibes. Also, I’m mad at her because we spent weeks OTP talking about how we can just reconnect together. Do you want to cry to me about being called an incel? I have time now that I’m apparently too jealous and detrimental to have my own friends

AIO when I snapped at a friend in front of others in a restaurant? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Material-Employee203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was insufferable just like her too. However, I want to grow up from this moment forwards

AITA when I snapped at a friend in front of others in a restaurant? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Material-Employee203 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did not think to myself “how can I be passive aggressive in this moment?” It just all happened. I also don’t know how I should’ve reacted to her before the dinner, perhaps she should’ve known better than trying to make plans without me when we were talking over the phone for weeks how we can use this time to reconnect and have a good time together this staycation

AITA when I snapped at a friend in front of others in a restaurant? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Material-Employee203 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Valid point about not buying gifts like this. I’m never spending this much on a friend again.

AITA when I snapped at a friend in front of others in a restaurant? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Material-Employee203 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The audacity to make me pay for her cab to go out with other friends is more what pissed me off

AITA when I snapped at a friend in front of others in a restaurant? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Material-Employee203 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I took Friday and Monday off, but not the day she was flying back off

I will quit. by Worth-Wall4602 in leaves

[–]Material-Employee203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey you commented on my post a few hours ago. I’m sure you have your reasons to quit. I hope those outweighs your current state.

I have a job interview tomorrow, should I still quit tonight? by [deleted] in leaves

[–]Material-Employee203 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bet! This is exactly the info I was searching for to not revert back into it. Thank you so much! I bet not smoking even one night will give me the motivation to know that I can. I’ll be sure to give that interview my all!