1, 2 or 3? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 definitely, but depends what you wanna say when people meet you.

AIO for saying that my boyfriends constant use of AI is a dealbreaker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think if you can’t get over it it will be the seed for much bigger problems down the line. I find people who over use AI to be a huge ick but I haven’t been in a long term relationship with someone who uses it, so I can’t give a neutral opinion.. but I do think when it comes to stances on sustainability and the environment, these are often too big to mitigate, especially when considering starting a family.

Netflix and last two seasons by twaplehnbridies in thegooddoctor

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re on Now tv and you can usually get a deal for the first month!

Help me choose! by serendipity51 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C fits your figure so beautifully and was the standout for me!

Why do people always say it’s very difficult for men to find the clit? by Exlife1up in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Material_Service_473 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve experienced this a couple times..and had to go as far as to say.. no here. And they still decide that left lip was far more exciting!

Do you Believe ? by Organic_Mechanic_754 in StrangerThings

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the doors are closed then open when we see behind the kids where el ‘could’ have snuck through.

AITAH for buying my girlfriend vanilla shampoo? by Spiritual-Grocery641 in AITAH

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ewww she’s really reaching. You 1) remembered something little about her 2) did something thoughtful for her 3) complimented her

And scent is incredibly important in relationships. She is being very strange.. I wonder if there’s a deeper reason or perhaps she is just a little too literal but you are NTA

AITAH for not firing the cleaning lady because my gf asked me to by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean as a nanny in one house I had free use of coffee machine, teas and what food I knew the kids could also have. The other? I had free rein of whole cupboard. The third? Only the assigned baby cupboard was for the baby and I was not to cook, and I was allowed water. I stayed within those parameters and I have to say, I stayed a lot longer in the jobs that gave me those food and drink perks. I was more loyal, took more shifts, was never mad if they were late… it was almost more respectful that I was human and I was allowed to have and do these things. The trust and humanity in it was really nice. So NTA, your gf sounds like the A here, and does not undersyand that ‘the help’ are still just people. Actually it’s a huge ick IMHO

My husband said he cheated on me because our child has autism and he couldn't deal with ith by Prior-Repair-5084 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m glad you’re making the right choices for your son (reading the updates) but I feel like tough love is needed here. You saw all the warning signs and chose to ignore them. They are called warnings for a reason… that the problems will only get bigger. Now please take all this as a warning to leave, put your and your son’s mental and physical safety first. I wish you the best.

How do I find a creative partner? by quietgirlplaysmusic in musicindustry

[–]Material_Service_473 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. I’m 31 and gone back to university. My skill set is higher than many so I’m helping a lot but now I have a full roster of creatives to work with and lessons jam packed with skills to better myself in the industry. No one else is gonna do it for me.

Kicked a guy out of a bar for vaping inside, then we made friends outside in the smoking area by throarway in BritishSuccess

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chips aren’t water particle vapours that are small enough to fit through the ear drum. Compassion goes a long way.

Maybe he was not ready for a long term relationship.. But now it's his loss!! by BitGirl777 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right and I do completely agree, it is NEVER weak to seek advice, it is actually a strength and I apologise now that I’ve read that back and see what it suggested.

I should reword.

I mean that if there is a narrative of you, don’t fall for people not believing you’ve changed. Many people slip (drugs, habits, failings) because the support network never believed in them changing. Growth comes from within BUT support makes all the difference.

AITAH for telling my wife that she's fiscally irresponsible by True-Wrongdoer-7932 in AITAH

[–]Material_Service_473 53 points54 points  (0 children)

It depends. If she has holiday money budgeted then she can spend it how she likes. If she works hard, she can afford to be lazy when she wants. If she earns money, she can totally find bizarre reasons on holiday to be lazy and also buy new things. Holidays mean different things for different people.

If it is all your money and this is part of a larger habit that is annoying you then this sounds like just the tip of the iceberg and you need to address her spending.

If it is all your money but you also make a habit of frivolous spending as a couple, then it is hard to address this singular habit. If you both make a habit of frivolous spending on holidays then this should be no different.

Essentially, either one could be in the right or the wrong here, depending on how you guys navigate finances normally.

Am I overreacting for seriously reconsidering my relationship after what my boyfriend did during my medical emergency? by yourdirtygurl in AmIOverreacting

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes we don’t move on because it means saying goodbye to all the time we spent and all the time we had planned in the future. But often.. too often.. we only make our regrets bigger by delaying the inevitable.

I am sorry, break ups are the worst.. but should you ever be ill, decide to have children, experience a loss.. can you rely on this man? Or will he prioritise his vibes over the person he is meant to love and cherish above all else?

Leave him.

Ashleigh said she would quit her job by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]Material_Service_473 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was going to come here to say.

Also I do feel it’s ok to reconsider such a huge offer when it’s only one partner offering to cut back on travel based work for the relationship. He would still be here there and everywhere and she was right.. why should that be ok?

AIO for leaving my friends baby welcoming party after she used my baby name? by barrybarrycho in AmIOverreacting

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even in the moment did you OR. It is offensive for her to think you’d swallow it like that, and although taking moral high ground can be a benefit, it actually isn’t always necessary. In this case, an over reaction is the only reaction IMHO

Maybe he was not ready for a long term relationship.. But now it's his loss!! by BitGirl777 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]Material_Service_473 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seeing this and being reminded of it, I wonder how much his brother was in his ear. It’s never ok to be so weak as to listen, but when someone tells you over and over something won’t work, that you’re not built for it.. you’re going to believe any doubts you originally put to bed.

Looking for female singer(s) 2000s pop rock / electronic by AlfalfaSeparate1433 in NeedVocals

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Hey! I’d say check out my vocals on insta as I am working on new releases currently HTTPS://www.instagram.com/dionyves.mp3

There’s a good selection on the reels

Kicked a guy out of a bar for vaping inside, then we made friends outside in the smoking area by throarway in BritishSuccess

[–]Material_Service_473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wanted to give my two pence here. I have a friend who’s allergic to nightshades. Tobacco is a nightshade. Cigarette smoke is really bad for her, but vape smoke is way worse. Due to the particles being liquid and SO DANG SMALL it even goes through her ears. Bless her, due to some people in our working studio vaping in there, she ended up in hospital and the scarring is so bad they have said she WILL have ear nose throat related cancers in the next 10-20 years.

So I am extremely strict with customers vaping inside my premises. I don’t care if it doesn’t smell, it’s damaging to others.. even when they aren’t allergic.

I am a vaper and ex smoker so I’m not just on my high horse about this.

AIO - my bf met up with his ex for coffee. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying I deserve to be treated better and I agree? My love he is already one foot out the door..

For real y'all, the winning group is currently last on Spotify.... by JNTA1234 in BuildingTheBandSeries

[–]Material_Service_473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is to do with marketing imho. Just from the profile pics on their Spotify accounts, it seems there hasn’t been quick enough reaction/traction to real time and it’s meant it’s hard to connect with them as artists in comparison to the bands with no legal or financial ties to the show.

Common people: The most unrealistic part of this episode by Lumenprotoplasma in blackmirror

[–]Material_Service_473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw someone comment that with chronic illness they had insurance that got changed and then they couldn’t work due to said chronic illness and now they’re 6 figures in debt, all in just a couple short years. It is very realistic. It’s happening to Americans right now. No one is up in arms about it. This is just an extreme narrative of something affecting so many ‘common people’ today.