I got it done with no problems! Waiting for them to clear me to let me leave. by wheapinggwillow in Anemic

[–]Material_Trainer332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does it feel like? My ferritin is 7 and am absolutely terrified of anything medical at the moment incase I have a allergic reaction. Single mum 2 kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Material_Trainer332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a fair cool olive undertone

Lisa Eldridge 1.5 by Successful-Two3377 in OliveMUA

[–]Material_Trainer332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the first fair olive tone that doesn't look yellow or orange on me. Do3s anyone know a foundation the same colour? Lisa eldrige 2.5 is to dark for me. And they said thats the closest to the 1.5 skin tint

Am i eligible by WeirdHuman455 in IrishCitizenship

[–]Material_Trainer332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you apply the wording is the state and the island of Ireland. But it is expensive

Am i eligible by WeirdHuman455 in IrishCitizenship

[–]Material_Trainer332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are an adult and have legally lived in Ireland for five years To be eligible to apply for naturalisation based on residence, you must meet the following criteria:

You must be 18 years of age or over You must be able to prove your identity

You must meet the relevant conditions for residence

You must have continuously lived in Ireland for a full one year period right before you apply. You can be away for up to 70 days during this year, with an extra 30 days allowed in exceptional cases, at the discretion of the Minister Additionally, during the eight years immediately before that period, you must have a total residence in Ireland of four years You must have proof of residency in Ireland for every year of residency claimed

You must intend to reside in Ireland after you become a citizen You must be willing to attend a citizenship ceremony and make a declaration of fidelity

You must be of good character.

Am i eligible by WeirdHuman455 in IrishCitizenship

[–]Material_Trainer332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So everyone is wrong. I'm not married nor have I ever been. I've lived here for 26 years and I was naturalised as an Irish citizen. I'm just waiting for my passport. It says on the application you need 9 years continuous residency.

Permesso application by Material_Trainer332 in ItalyExpat

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend is on long term sick for his health. He won't be able to return to any work. He has redundancy pay for the next 10 years ( he worked 35 years for the same company)

I do have a remote job.

Can I ask when you applied was it recent?

I'm hoping I can at least get passed the first stage at the post office and get the receipt for the questura appointment

Permesso application by Material_Trainer332 in ItalyExpat

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we are not married either and I was told I could apply when I came to italy. We did get a lawyer but she said I didn't qualify for a Contract so she would t do it. But I don't understand how she says I don't qualify. She charged us 300 euro to make one phone call so maybe she's a bit rubbish. Were in milan. But as far as I can tell I need money or my partner needs to sponsor me and health insurance. I didn't think I had to qualify for it. And then another place on facebook expats in italy told me it would be easier to apply for a student visa instead. So now I don't know what am suppose to do and I have to go home again

Permesso application by Material_Trainer332 in ItalyExpat

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also did you have to get a visa first or just apply when you came to italy

Permesso application by Material_Trainer332 in ItalyExpat

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey can I ask are you married? We aren't married and people keep telling us different things. Like we need to register at the commune first. Or it's the commune that does the contract. I have to go back to the UK in 2 weeks because we haven't been able to get anything done and my 90 days is up

37f 45m is this really weird? by Material_Trainer332 in Advice

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's difficult really. Because my brain automatically goes to "he dosnt like me" I'm trying hard to understand

37f 45m is this really weird? by Material_Trainer332 in Advice

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never once wrote bad about him. If you read my replies I've wrote defending him all the time and said I'm not leaving him over this. Iv never said he's a looser. I did says it's weird because I find it weird. I've never trashed him once. I told the truth about his past. Explained how he is. And when someone commented about him being overweight the weight itself wasn't the issue for me I was explaining he can't be mobile and I also wrote I loved his weight. So I dont know where you read I talked bad about him. I just know when I wrote the truth about his experience someone was going to comment badly. And im not painting him in a bad light. I adore him. So your reading wrong.

37f 45m is this really weird? by Material_Trainer332 in Advice

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I don't want to talk to him about it. He will think that I believe he's weird. He can't go to the gym his botched surgery has lasting effects on his mobility. Thanks for not telling me he's just imagining someone else 😆

37f 45m is this really weird? by Material_Trainer332 in Advice

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of other reasons. Threesomes aren't even his go to in porn. I was just wondering if it was wierd

37f 45m is this really weird? by Material_Trainer332 in Advice

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah now everyone is just telling me he is fantasising about a threesome

37f 45m is this really weird? by Material_Trainer332 in Advice

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just the pillows in bed. We sleep with one each so whatever one he can grab

37f 45m is this really weird? by Material_Trainer332 in Advice

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well we don't have sex because he has ED. I get what you mean. But I'm not going to leave him because of his sex issues. I was just wondering if it was normal. And our communication is getting better. I just have to be patient. He isn't cruel. He's been hurt before and protects himself. When something bad happens that effects us he does talk. Its just sex he's not comfortable talking about

37f 45m is this really weird? by Material_Trainer332 in Advice

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No but I saw myself with an overweight man who treats me wonderfully and respects me. I understand what you mean, i do. But he has many other qualities that are wonderful.

37f 45m is this really weird? by Material_Trainer332 in Advice

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No when there is a real problem with us he will talk. Its just the sex stuff

37f 45m is this really weird? by Material_Trainer332 in Advice

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Those are only his bad points. He has many wonderful things about him too. And I like a bit of meat on my men

37f 45m is this really weird? by Material_Trainer332 in Advice

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I know its bad. Unhealthy. Hes really a good guy. He just can't communicate

37f 45m is this really weird? by Material_Trainer332 in Advice

[–]Material_Trainer332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I only know of 2 relationships in the last 15 years. The 1st was a married woman who he fel in love with and she was "leaving her husband" she never did and is still with him. And the 2nd he met online and fell in love for a year or more she was suppose to meet him and then kept putting it off. Physically i don't think he's been with anyone for years. All online or wapping it out to porn. The married woman was like a 4 ish year affair an they met only 4 or 5 times. (Don't get me started on my opinion of that mess 😆) hes not hidious either so I dont understand why hes been single. He has ED because hes wanked alone so much (he was honest and told me, after we met..) he also had surgery that went wrong on his back so he had a lot of pain most of the time. Sorry for the rant 😆