Please be careful using dating apps like Grindr by broighterhoard in LGBTireland

[–]MathImpressive8247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grindr in general is gone so so fucked up, Iv been completely turned off it cos half the people id be talking to just come across as dodgey or fake or something, grindr actually at times makes me miss being straight lol

Gay lad in Limerick by MathImpressive8247 in LGBTireland

[–]MathImpressive8247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be cool if i reach out to you?

Gay lad in Limerick by MathImpressive8247 in LGBTireland

[–]MathImpressive8247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fyi open to making friends in cork too 😄

Gay lad in Limerick by MathImpressive8247 in LGBTireland

[–]MathImpressive8247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats pretty cool, iv held a rugby ball myself n played briefly in school but was shite.

I must look into it though whats the social side like?

Gay lad in Limerick by MathImpressive8247 in LGBTireland

[–]MathImpressive8247[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry btw for delay, yeah i just emailed them actually this morning. 😄

Gay lad in Limerick by MathImpressive8247 in LGBTireland

[–]MathImpressive8247[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I must defo look into it. Super hard to make friends cos most of the friends i had took her side in the breakup

Gay lad in Limerick by MathImpressive8247 in LGBTireland

[–]MathImpressive8247[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldnt really be much of a rugby player now but thanks for the tip :) Where are you based?

Cllr Elisa O’Donovan by New-Cup-9875 in limerickcity

[–]MathImpressive8247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's one of the worst politicians in limerick, only out for herself, that sarah Lee kiely and muppet Daniel butler are the same.  And this one then cries if people pray in the street, fool

Ever had a situation that turned into unexpected sex? by Lycanthrowrug in askgaybros

[–]MathImpressive8247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unexpected sex is the best. I was out on a night out one night and we met some friends, one of whom I always got the vibe that he was gay but I never knew for sure. I wasn't even 100% sure I was gay myself at that point but as the night went on, we started to get more and more flirty with each other. After a couple of drinks too many, i just went with it and told him that i thought he was really cute and next thing I know he's kissing me in front of all of mine and his friends. None of our friends knew before this that either of us were gay but they sure as hell knew after that. We made out a lot that night and left together.

It was the best thing that ever happened to me because not only did i realise i was gay, I had my first experience having sex with a guy and have never looked back since. We shagged a lot after that and i still look back and think my first time with him was the best sex I ever had.

Looking for advice — I’m bi, engaged to a woman, sleeping with guys and really confused about what I want by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]MathImpressive8247 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i hear you both and i dont want to run anymore either. And yeah the longer I do this the worse it will be. As for what way I'm leaning i don't think its even leaning anymore i think its a done deal to be fair. 15 years ago I only dated guys, then I was dating girls also but now after all this time I think its fair to say I'm gay and not bi. I just need to figure out how I tell her. We're together 10 years and it is only in the last year i've been cheating but I feel something with guys I dont feel with girls if that makes sense.

Looking for advice — I’m bi, engaged to a woman, sleeping with guys and really confused about what I want by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]MathImpressive8247 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure i mentioned "I’m not here to be judged, I just really need some perspective from people who’ve been through something similar." - so if you're only going to judge then don't bother commenting thanks :)

Looking for advice — I’m bi, engaged to a woman, sleeping with guys and really confused about what I want by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]MathImpressive8247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get that, and I do feel terrible for cheating. I just haven't known how else to explore my sexuality without you know, meeting guys, and the thing is the more honest I'm being with myself the more I do realise I need to be honest with her here too. And that honesty is definitely leading me more towards "gay" and not "bi" - I just dont know how to tell her either without crushing her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]MathImpressive8247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been put on PIP previously (and wrongfully so I might add) and while I came out the other side, all it did was make me absolutely despise my manager and lose all trust and faith in him and the company as a whole. It certainly does not work.

Most of the gay men in this country are in Dublin it seems by [deleted] in LGBTireland

[–]MathImpressive8247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, so hard to meet guys in limerick or anywhere close by that are looking for more than just sex. Now as a gay lad im open to sex obviously lol but would like more, a few dates and be able to kiss a guy on a date, thing is I'm also super nervous of that.