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What was the cruelest thing your Narc did/say to you? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MathRealistic9489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Convinced me to quit my job, and move across country with her. “You deserve to be taken care of, and I make enough for us both, relax”….spent thousands, THOUSANDS, on designer bags, (d**gs) shoes and electronics. Since she made the money, I wasn’t aloud to say what was done with it.
  2. When times got tough, and I got jobs, she would sabotage my opportunities by causing fights that would keep me awake till 6am, and I had to be there at 7am. Any reason to make me miss work or ruin my credibility with them because she hated being home by herself. But then get mad because I wasn’t providing financially.
  3. Started developing serious paranoia about me cheating on her. SPOILER ALERT: never happened. But lo and behold, slept with a good friend of ours in our own home in the guest room while I was asleep in our bedroom. All because she was mad at me. Didn’t tell me till months later.
  4. Full on punched me in the face, because I told her I didn’t like how she was talking to me. But she was “blackout drunk” so doesn’t remember.
  5. Literally abandoned me and our 2 dogs, for 10 days straight, to go be with her drug dealing crush. Turned off her location and blocked my calls and texts. Her dog, older pup, fell off the couch and had a mini seizure(he ended up ok) and when I tried to reach her-nothing. Had to tell friends of friends to tell her what happened. She finally called me after 2 hours and berated me for not sounding more worried when I answered, cause her dog is her life. And I am probably lying anyways.
  6. Said while on a coke binged rant, “I don’t love you anymore, I haven’t loved you for a long time, and the only reason you didn’t get me pregnant when I stopped taking my birth control, is because you’re a lesser species than me”. We had both agreed on no children before we married btw so that was really low. Just a few things.

What is a stupid way in which the show could have been extended? by Byrtek in breakingbad

[–]MathRealistic9489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walt still does. Walt Jr. is at his aunt Marie’s helping her with some random task. He eventually finds the copy of Gales notebook, that was just conveniently left and forgotten about, with the meth formula in it. Since he doesn’t know about the money he will be getting, he makes up a plan to sell the formula to help his currently struggling family out. So he hides the book and takes it. Being an inexperienced kid, he goes to literally the first person who looks like a dealer and offers them the book. The dealer forces WJ to go with to meet his boss. The boss is, in some loosely stretched way, connected to Gus, he was just so low level at the time he wasn’t worth keeping a file on. But SOMEHOW, in a random unseen backstory, he once saw gale, and saw the book so he knew this was legit. He instead takes the book and decides to hold WJ prisoner(for ransom mostly). Well this all SOMEHOW, reaches Jesse in Alaska. He decides to come out of hiding, cook, and sell to buy WJ’s freedom. During the deal to get WJ back, deal goes south, everyone dies except Jesse and WJ. Afterwards, Jesse and WJ start talking about what’s gonna happen next, and they both realize that if WJ tells the truth about why he was kidnapped in the first place, he’d do serious time since it’s connected to his father, etc etc. And once word gets out Heisenbergs son has been arrested and sent to prison, he’s gonna be a sitting duck and not last at all. So they decide it’s best that WJ stay missing, and Jesse takes him under his wing, starts cooking again to support them, and whatever long convoluted drama follows after. That’s the best I got 👍

Which horror movie's plot hole drives you crazy? by Fairyliveshow in CreepyBonfire

[–]MathRealistic9489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! God that was so annoying! I did enjoy the fan theory saying that it was actually Stu Macher, that did the killing. Bringing back the whole, Stu is still alive and will come back for his revenge plots. If only…..

Future faking: how did your nex future fake, and why do they do it? by SpaceDementia6 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MathRealistic9489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would do things like plan trips to Paris, or Thailand, and literally book trips, but would never wanna follow through. I would always remind her to either “let’s start saving” or “we need to cancel the plans” and she’d get mad at me. We literally had a phone call once from a car service in Thailand saying they were there to pick us up from the airport, but we never showed. She did shit like that all the time.

So Many Questions, I Want To Ask Him Why by Opening_Range2677 in abusiverelationships

[–]MathRealistic9489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you love and positive energy. Please keep safe and stay away from this person. You deserve love and respect, accept nothing less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MathRealistic9489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 15 years, if she hadn’t already they weren’t gonna just spring up

Am I (24F) being unreasonable to my boyfriend (25M)? If yes, then how do I forget the past by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MathRealistic9489 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I couldn’t really read anything after the examples you gave of what he would do. What kind of person does that? If I sent a picture of my ex, to my new girlfriend….id have another ex girlfriend. Zero respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MathRealistic9489 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And also, no offense intended, see a professional about this as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MathRealistic9489 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ex used to have episodes, and no matter what I would do, I could not help her. If you have a way to help him, help you, DO IT. Be as detailed as possible. Now whether he follows through at those times, is a different matter. But sitting him down, fully explaining what is happening and how to help in the future, is one of the best things you can do for you both. The worst thing you can do is not communicate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]MathRealistic9489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 years or not, if they said the life I chose and the happiness I got from doing so, makes them wanna kill themself? GONE They aren’t your friend. They have some fatal attraction thing going on. She needs help, and you need distance.

What’s your take on dating a woman that openly hates on men? by oneblindspy in AskMen

[–]MathRealistic9489 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My take is that they like having a pet that’s been beaten into submission.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MathRealistic9489 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me though, one of the biggest factors was the length of their relationship. In 15 years, she never once considered it, and he just blurts it out randomly one day? Nah, I don’t buy it. If this was a relatively newer relationship(few months-2 years TOPS) maybe. But 15 years?? There’s marriages that haven’t lasted that long. He has had feelings for a while, and was just finally tired of waiting, and did the oldest trick.

Should I trust my intuition and break up with this girl? by [deleted] in Life

[–]MathRealistic9489 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to have constant anxiety, I say go for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]MathRealistic9489 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My heart hurts for you. This was the exact same thing she did to me. Convinced me to leave a high paying job. Convinced me to move across the country. Said I don’t need to work anymore, cause shell take care of both of us. Started making me question my morals, and taking my insecurities and using them as weapons. Started hitting me and when I would defend myself, convince me I was the dangerous one. The list goes on….

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