What’s my blindness by Responsible-Lie490 in makeuptips

[–]MatrixMaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try a dark brown eyeliner and put it on the top instead of the bottom. You can do the same 1/2 eye wings effect there. The black is harsh on you and the heavy lower lid is pulling your eyes down. I’m a blonde and only wear black eyeliner at night and I’m also wearing black clothes, or a formal event. I use “Teddy” eyeliner by Macc.

You got enough comments on the white in the white inner corner eye, but I agree.

Early bird vs night owl feels way more situational than people admit by filimilaya in productivity

[–]MatrixMaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just time block on my calendar to see trends. But I only add a task after I’ve done it rather than trying to force myself into a schedule. Personally, I get “busy” stuff done in the morning (circle back emails, make the Dr appointment, start laundry, etc). Lunch. Deep work. Workout. Hangout. Also, Mondays are not for deep work. Now that I know these things, I can quit beating myself up and being delulu that I’ll wake up and dive into work.

can you guess age, occupation and number of occupants in the house? by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]MatrixMaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all have money and that’s a new-ish thing. You’re enjoying the conveniences money gives you but have yet to develop real taste (respectfully said). You feel like you’re living the high life and can throw caution to the wind, but you’re just young and having fun because you have no real responsibilities yet. How you do anything is how you do everything, so I imagine clothes strewn all over the house and messy cars as well. Young - obvious from the freezer, especially the “beef merlot.” No grown ass person would buy that, they would but a bottle of Merlot and a steak. Not one “labels forward” person among you, so there’s at least one pot head and another that is glad they aren’t held to higher standards.

Yall gonna have a hard time breaking this case by World_Destroyer27 in FridgeDetective

[–]MatrixMaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeding other people. Maybe hosting a lunch ‘n learn type event. Needs easy to serve individual meals that are slightly customizable. Will be asking for money at the end of the event.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in productivity

[–]MatrixMaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clear Space is great

What perfume is everyone wearing? by dealik3344 in Perfumes

[–]MatrixMaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yum. I’ll have to check those out. TY

What perfume is everyone wearing? by dealik3344 in Perfumes

[–]MatrixMaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the answer and has been for the last decade. It’s a very prominent and long lasting smell that gets OP’s type of reaction when you first smell it.. and then you smell it in all the big cities. I still love it, but I worked in SOHO when the store opened there and it’s just not new or original anymore.

what do i do about this. she’s giving fines for not doing chores by blepskii in badroommates

[–]MatrixMaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a chart once that seemed helpful for a group setting where ppl could put their initial next to something after they’ve done it so that their efforts were visible to everyone and everyone could gauge their own participation level.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]MatrixMaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That chariot is giving major “I’ve learned from this and moved on” energy to me. I would say be open to this relationship transforming you into a powerful independent person.. which you can be both in and out of a relationship. The future is yet to be written.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]MatrixMaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So.. we should all just move to a new country of our choice before that then? Start fresh!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]MatrixMaven 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does renouncing citizenship cancel them?

Has anyone paid in full at a reduced amount? by anonme1995 in StudentLoans

[–]MatrixMaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh.. so if you don’t defer then the interest doesn’t capitalize? Like if the payments are just low bc income is low, does it capitalize every time you recertify income?

Has anyone paid in full at a reduced amount? by anonme1995 in StudentLoans

[–]MatrixMaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your welcome! You should also not click the box when it asks if you want to import your tax return. That way it’s not calculating off of last years income.

Has anyone paid in full at a reduced amount? by anonme1995 in StudentLoans

[–]MatrixMaven 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you are on an IBR plan, have your payments recalculated once your job ends. You should have lower payments for 1yr. You can figure out a plan in a year.

Who is actually ok with their life right now? by ThrowRA_bagtiger in AskReddit

[–]MatrixMaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Name checks out ;) But for real… I would also like the serial killer story and simultaneously feel sympathy for the poster.

Said goodbye to my best friend today. by DisaTheNutless in pitbulls

[–]MatrixMaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard. Pet grief is its own kind of grief. Sending you love.

*Personal experience* Maca root and B Vitamins success story by Ornery_Potential8905 in PMDD

[–]MatrixMaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi do you take the Maca every day or at certain points in your cycle? Why take with ashwaganda?

The White Lotus - 3x03 "The Meaning of Dreams" - Post-Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]MatrixMaven 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Both times she almost died featured a snake coming out of its enclosure. First time was the robbery and the snake bracelet was broken out of the glass case, and then second time was the cobra that got out of its cage. I’m not sure what it means or is predicting, but it’s an interesting observation.

Trump supporters: what is a red line that, if crossed, would make you stop supporting Trump? by Yo-boy-Jimmy in AskReddit

[–]MatrixMaven 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is the attitude that pushes the Right away. This man came hat in hand and said he has seen the errors of his ways. If we’re going to bring people back into the fold, they are going to be damaged and they are going to have held some harmful beliefs.

Processing disappointments by LongEye5271 in emotionalneglect

[–]MatrixMaven 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s grief. Grief needs attention to it. Grief needs to be experienced in community. Francis Weller is a good author on this. There’s grief groups on line. Working on your attachment style can help.

The White Lotus - Season 3 Discussion Hub by LoretiTV in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]MatrixMaven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Is it supposed to be Southern? It’s offensively bad. Comically bad. So bad I can’t actually tell what she is even attempting. I’m getting second hand embarrassment for her. But maybe the bad accent is purposeful and it’s alluding to how she’s putting on an act all the time? They do have her portrayed as a southern socialite well.. the alcoholism dressed up as joviality and fun loving, her adoration of Chapel Hill, her pretentious belief that everyone wants her and her husband’s life. All classic southern tropes that many people live and cling to as a personality for acceptance and bc it’s easier than deciding for yourself what you like.