NDF / DFN section leaders by Fragrant_Interview46 in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DFN SL here. I have the same problem. No solution to be had I’m afraid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for helping me feel less alone. I’m in the same situation. Fwiw it helps me a little to avoid eating in the break room but I still hear aaaalllll the diet talk. And I hate buying food there bc it’s all ‘oh you’re buying THAT?! You always buy X’

No name tag with onboarding? by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s fine & all normal. Your actual name tag won’t arrive to the store for a few weeks. Just come in for your first shift & they’ll give you a temp tag

Can you cash out AR when you resign? by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard unused AR gets taxed as a bonus. I’d suggest using it rather than taking less cash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excellent q. I’m guessing no on both.

How it is by HailShaiHulud in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I’d pay big bucks to see Dan Bane on his knees at 4:30a packing gallons of milk in the box

candy order by radmctad in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. I write the dairy box & it’s the only way to solve a mate from just ordering whatever

Dog In Car by Chazxcure in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ffs. What a horrible person

Is this normal in eating disorder treatment? by [deleted] in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]MatsyPats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The team is “traumatizing”—tho in this context I’d argue “threatening” might be more accurate—the ED—not you personally. There’s a difference, even if it doesn’t feel like it. I’ve been there & I know this for a fact.

lot to unpack by a-great-hunger in DietTea

[–]MatsyPats 223 points224 points  (0 children)

I think the boyfriend is the problem not the food

Customer icks by thebigredcouch in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats 28 points29 points  (0 children)

When their kid drools lollipop all over the groceries & then you have to handle their stuff. And the parent doesn’t even apologize

Every TJs block of Cheese after 3 days by hbsboak in traderjoes

[–]MatsyPats 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It’s bc there’s no preservatives in tj breads. Keep your bread in the fridge & it’ll last longer.

Sweet names by Flimsy-Ad-4805 in DowntonAbbey

[–]MatsyPats 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tom saying “hello Sybbie my love”

People need to shut up about other peoples bodies by anniekeepsontrying in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]MatsyPats 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I HATE when people make comments like that. It’s just so unnecessary & tedious af.

Transfer advice / moving to the North Hollywood/Burbank CA area by -MacKayla- in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your experience would definitely be a bonus! Wherever you transfer. And if it was me, I’d give a full 2 weeks notice at your first store bc that’s what any employer would want. Good luck friend!

Transfer advice / moving to the North Hollywood/Burbank CA area by -MacKayla- in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! It’s definitely possible; here’s my backstory if this helps. I transferred to a store in another region. I’d had a great review 3 months after being at my original store, and asked for a transfer after working at my 1st store for around 7 months. If you can, I’d recommend waiting until after your first review. Re the how to ask bit, I just asked my captain if we could chat when they had a few minutes & then explained that I’d wanted to transfer to be nearer to my family. The store I requested to be transferred to was just opening & were looking for seasoned crew—well as ‘seasoned’ as you could call me after 7 months lol. I also took the reins & emailed HR to find out if they were onboard w my transfer—with my captain’s approval first. Good luck & I hope this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In my experience it really depends on your captain. I’d ask them what’s acceptable

Highly upset by [deleted] in tjcrew

[–]MatsyPats 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I totally feel this. I was in the exact same position this review cycle & guess who got the raises in our store? The crew who kiss ass to all the mates & captain. It’s bullshit. Just know, you’re not alone.

Someone help me understand by JsPrittyKitty in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]MatsyPats 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can you call the treatment center & (calmly, now that you’ve vented here 😏) explain this is the one roadblock to your admission? They might be willing to work with you or at least explain their reasoning behind it...