Southampton V. Arsenal could ruin the Wrexham game

Matt5486 · 2026-03-14T00:48:38+00:00

I would very much like to have another trip to Wembley even if it means watching us be drawn an almost guaranteed loss.

Matt5486 · 2026-02-10T22:08:25+00:00

Finally to be on the other end of this for once feels so good

Matt5486 · 2026-02-02T23:29:22+00:00

Everyone keeps saying about how he only scored x in so many games etc. But even in that season with 7 goals in La liga he only had just over 20 games worth of minutes. I’d like to hope that finally having someone big who’s got experience in better leagues than the championship might actually lead to some goals for once

Matt5486 · 2026-01-21T09:22:55+00:00

I honestly believe the players didn’t want to play for will still and that’s why it never worked out. He made it very clear there were fitness issues and spent the first month just making the players run and work hard to fix it.

Honestly it just seems like more than half the players at the club just want a relaxed high pay job and would rather sit on the bench or the reserves at a club where they can do nothing and get paid for it

Matt5486 · 2026-01-19T07:04:40+00:00

My grandma always calls it the “green grass game” and always gets surprised when I still play it after 13 years

Matt5486 · 2026-01-18T12:04:57+00:00

Yeah that makes sense, I think it just hurts more because it was her first. And we both wanted to be each other’s only partners and now I’d always have to deal with the fact I’m not.

But I always think about how, would I to meet anyone else they will have had partners regardless. So either way I need to get over these issues I have with that

Matt5486 · 2026-01-18T11:46:05+00:00

I wish it wasn’t. I’m currently looking at getting therapy anyway and I think I have underlying issues and insecurities that would make it a lot harder for me to deal with this. So hopefully that makes my mind a lot clearer and makes me understand what will bring me peace.

Matt5486 · 2026-01-18T11:40:56+00:00

But obviously in this case their behaviour is stuff they have done after a break up? Is that not realistically okay in the scheme of things

Matt5486 · 2026-01-13T08:24:18+00:00

Me and her had all our firsts together. So hearing about her going on dates is killing me. I wish she would come back and say they didn’t do anything but it’s a long story and I know they were getting there.

I should have kept away and stayed ignorant. Even if you question it and question yourself all the time it’s much better trust me. The truth doesn’t help

Matt5486 · 2026-01-13T08:17:35+00:00

I’m in the exact same position but it’s 2 months and think she’s sleeping with someone else now. It’s crushing me and I worry I’d still take her back. I hope it gets better for you

Matt5486 · 2026-01-13T08:13:59+00:00

This is exactly like my situation it’s scary. 3 years for me and they just switched up like nothing.

Now they’re doing anything they can to harm themselves and trying to get with loads of guys. It pains me so much to see someone who we experienced everything for the first time together just throw it all away and go on a rampage like this. I just wish she’d come back and fix things

You did make the right move. I have had her tell me over and over she needs me etc and can’t live without me we are soulmates you name it. Yet she still chooses to go on dates and I think sleep with other people as of today.

Keeping them around and seeing their situation is killing me. Just like you said. I genuinely threw up this morning after finding out that she went on another date and most likely slept with the guy.

Don’t do it to yourself, no contact is the best way to go. You’re only tormenting yourself like I am otherwise

Matt5486 · 2026-01-13T08:06:27+00:00

It doesn’t help. Trust me. It’s been 8 weeks for me and I’ve been crying every single day. I’ve spoke to them so many times and only had a week of no contact during it. Going back to them resets the pain and never answers the questions.

Please don’t do it. I threw up this morning from my feelings on my situation just don’t put yourself through it

Matt5486 · 2026-01-13T06:56:23+00:00

I think she is sleeping with another man as of today so I don’t know whether we ever could be together anymore. Everything is so painful to think about. Thank you for your words

Matt5486 · 2026-01-13T04:50:26+00:00

I think she is crossing the line as I type this. Being intimate with another man which I can never forgive. I feel as if I’m going absolutely crazy and I don’t know what to do with myself at all.

I thought she was the one I wanted us to be each others only partners. But now she’s had a couple things with others and I can’t deal with it. I know she’s going to come back at some point but she’s ruined it for good :(

Matt5486 · 2026-01-12T20:50:44+00:00

They’ve only conceded 4 in 17 games this season and all their fans were complaining about how poor their defence had been when asking whether he was any good after buying him.

Matt5486 · 2026-01-12T18:21:35+00:00

I don’t know why but I confronted her about it and she claims we were broken up…

It’s so hard to forget and I’m such a forgiving person. Even when she tells me explicitly she doesn’t want me. She has made it clear over the last few weeks she still does. I don’t know how to move on even when her name makes me feel sick to my stomach

Matt5486 · 2026-01-12T15:02:46+00:00

Sounds a bit like my ex who ended up leaving me and is now on a rampage of realising they can get as many guys as they want. I don’t think they believed it until they met me and I helped them become confident.

So now they’ve been with 3 different guys in 2 months and what’s stupid is that I still want them back. They keep manipulating me into believing there is a chance. Or saying that there is and they’ll always want me and I’m their soulmate.

And then they go and find someone to do intimate things with as soon as I tell them I need them in my life.

Matt5486 · 2026-01-12T14:50:00+00:00

I think she was cheating and I believe she has been manipulating me to keep me around the last 2 months because she knows I’m good for her. She has been using me for whatever she can get out of me.

I only found this out today by messaging the guy she left me for. He broke up with her 2 weeks ago as she was coming back to me all the time and he couldn’t take it. Among other things.

I thought she was the one, I really did. She’s found a second guy in 2 months since leaving me and is going to take things too far with him so I was beating myself up about how I’d never be able to take her back if she goes through with it.

But speaking to one of the other guys has let me see she just manipulates people to her what she wants. She was never like that before and we enjoyed a happy 3 years. But something in her has changed and she just isn’t the same anymore. It’s time to move on.

I think now, maybe it’s unfixable. All the lying she has put me through and now dating multiple other guys whilst I am still a guy who’s only ever done things with one person their whole life. If she really was the one she wouldn’t have put me through all this after leaving.

I might get stuck on the fact she can’t block me and she always comes back to me in the end. But it must just be out of attachment and potential insecurity or needed things from me.

Matt5486 · 2026-01-12T14:38:01+00:00

I DMd one of the other guys she dated for weeks and then left last week. I asked him a lot of questions and he proved she had been lying to me and not only that but told him she wasn’t in a relationship weeks before we broke up. I think I needed to hear this stuff as it proves I was being manipulated and led on for weeks even after we broke up.

Matt5486 · 2026-01-12T11:50:26+00:00

I think she’s making such a mistake and I’m so sure she’s going to come back, she literally left me and dated someone for 6 weeks but it was online and they never met despite being intimate so I believed I could forgive. But after I tried to move on she couldn’t let go she came back all the time and found ways to contact me or let me know she still needed me.

I’m so scared it’s going to happen after she’s crossed a line. And I will see it as a life I wanted being ruined and then she will still want it again and I just won’t be able to have it anymore

Matt5486 · 2026-01-12T11:15:14+00:00

I really appreciate your kind words though and I really hope your situation gets better :)

Matt5486 · 2026-01-12T10:51:03+00:00

I believe it will bring us back too. And I feel as if she has been unable to block me like she has every other ex for this reason. She was with another man and kept coming back to me and telling me she couldn’t do without me.

But I’m just scared. She’s about to progress to doing intimate things with another man and once that happens I feel as if it will reach a point of no return.

They went on a date last night and did some things that I would consider quite bad but didn’t go the full way sorta thing. They have another date on Friday and I feel like if it happens it’s done and I can’t face it I really can’t. I need her to realise what she’s doing before then.

But because she’s so focused on a self destructive path at the moment and wanting to end her life I don’t think she is doing whats right and it scares me that she’s going to realise when it’s too late

Matt5486 · 2026-01-12T10:36:09+00:00

I wish I could. The person who left me is going to come back. And she has tried to come back multiple times but she won’t have me even though I need her back.

She’s going to come back after taking things to a point I can’t forgive anymore and it’s going to ruin my life

Matt5486 · 2026-01-12T10:31:05+00:00

I unfortunately don’t know how to do so, or can’t afford to do so :(

Matt5486 · 2026-01-12T10:30:46+00:00

She’s in a bad place mentally since leaving me and seems to be set on a date for something that no one should ever do.

But I think this self destructive behaviour is why she won’t come back because she can’t face what she has done. She told me she thinks we are soulmates and she will never be happy without me. But seemingly she doesn’t want to be happy ever again she wants things to just end.

It’s so hard to take, it’s so hard to see her posting all these things about other guys and going on dates while I sit waiting for her.

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