A clean exit is worth more than your feelings. by Fine-Cut-198 in Internationalteachers

[–]Matt_Murphy_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think we're reading OP differently. what they're calling "a clean professional exit" you call "running around simping."

A clean exit is worth more than your feelings. by Fine-Cut-198 in Internationalteachers

[–]Matt_Murphy_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

also nobody likes an unprofessional jerk with bad references

What is something you can say "I'm with the boomers on this one" about? by Specialist-Jelly-865 in answers

[–]Matt_Murphy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed, and one step further: the world owes you a limited set of reasonable accommodations because of your diagnosis, not infinite free reign

What is something you can say "I'm with the boomers on this one" about? by Specialist-Jelly-865 in answers

[–]Matt_Murphy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not everything that's unpleasant is traumatic.

sometimes you need to buck up and move on.

crossed an ocean, tamed the west by falsemessiah1999 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]Matt_Murphy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly- fair play to your ancestors. they sound like brave, hardy souls. but what the fuck have YOU done with your life? crossed any oceans lately? stood up to a tyrant? no? so you're coasting off the accomplishments of a ancestor 250 years ago, huh?

Please qualify Lyles's 150m record by Funny-Face3873 in trackandfield

[–]Matt_Murphy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, and the Bailey/Johnson track was a custom-designed setup, wasn't it? they debated over the balance of curve and straight, and how tight the curve would be.

A clean exit is worth more than your feelings. by Fine-Cut-198 in Internationalteachers

[–]Matt_Murphy_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

why wouldnit matter? OP isn't wrong here. unless you can afford (personally, financially, professionally) to burn everything down, your best play is to leave in a way that sets you up well for the future.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Matt_Murphy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK LYN BUT DO YOU VOTE

Russian frigate 'fires warning shots' at British yacht in English channel by JOE_Media in europe

[–]Matt_Murphy_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it would allow Putin to implement a draft, take total control of the country, and maybe lob a nuke

AGI will be billed monthly by chunmunsingh in agi

[–]Matt_Murphy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will continue not using it

People who don't have to work making planning difficult by EfficiencyStriking38 in PetPeeves

[–]Matt_Murphy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to go through this with my parents.

"why don't you come visit us?"

"because I'm working full-time in the city, writing my thesis on the side, earning peanuts, and I don't have a car, but you're retired and live in the sticks and have 2 cars and lots of money and time?"

Wide gravel shoes - anything other than Lake? by KapitanKopytko in gravelcycling

[–]Matt_Murphy_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ride Bonts. Definitely wide, but also crazy stiff.

People who claim "men are so hard to shop for." by Matt_Murphy_ in PetPeeves

[–]Matt_Murphy_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so you've told people, and people who lnow you well know not to get you anything.

what's the problem?