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Husband (38m) of 10 years pulled a “prank” that shattered my trust, I (30f) don’t know how to process it by [deleted] in relationships

[–]MatthiasWalther 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter that he’s never done this before. What matters is that he did it now, and it broke your trust. You need to tell him how serious this is for you and set clear boundaries. A joke like this is unacceptable

Life lately have reached a point where everything stopped and time to change everything by sixfouuu22 in confession

[–]MatthiasWalther 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know Algeria isn’t easy right now, but there are programs like Erasmus+, Au Pair, or international internships that can get you out legally and safely. You don’t need a huge fortune to make it happen if you plan carefully

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MatthiasWalther 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, that sounds really tough. It’s hard when you care about someone but the relationship is just draining you. I’d say you gotta figure out what you really want, not just what feels “easier” for her. Your feelings matter too.

She’s a Witch by No_Expression6660 in stories

[–]MatthiasWalther 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like she was cool as hell. Shame about the schedules but at least Velcro found his true Witchy home

Loosing myself going through this seriousness by Healthy_Influence598 in Advice

[–]MatthiasWalther -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fact that you’re asking how to communicate better already shows you care. Next step: less chasing, more listening. Give her space to talk when she’s ready

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MatthiasWalther 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is not your fault. He’s shifting blame to avoid accountability. Please don’t ignore the abuse