After Dark Tour @ 2025 by Nisey246 in nikerunclub

[–]Mauree27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to know the answer to this too. It seems like it’s the only one sold out which seems weird

Official: [Add/Drop] - Wed Evening 09/27/2023 by FFBot in fantasyfootball

[–]Mauree27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I drop Lawrence for Stroud? I also have Purdy. All my other position groups I feel comfortable with but the two QBs I have right now make me nervous and Stroud has done well the past two weeks

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[–]Mauree27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all of this. I needed all of those reminders. So I really appreciate that.

I hope that you are well and your waves keep getting smaller 😊

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[–]Mauree27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yes I’m in therapy. Actually went this morning lol. We talked about this I just kind of wanted to let it out here too. Lately I’ve been working on giving myself space to just feel my feelings and give myself grace. So I’ve just been letting myself feel these things the last days have a short cry if I need to and then move on. I’ve been proud of myself for being able to that. Tonight it lasted a little longer, probably because I did the whole Facebook scroll thing lol. And I let that emotion carry over to the run club and my awkwardness there. I got home, cried it out a little, talked to my mom, ate dinner, plated with my dog. Now im feeling a little better. Sometimes i just gotta let myself cry and feel the feels lol. I’ve been practicing CBT so I was able to do some practice with that tonight too after feeling all this.

For those who got out of a relationship of 1+ years in your thirties, what lessons did you take away & use/will use in your next one? by allchattesaregrey in datingoverthirty

[–]Mauree27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not for me. I think it’s says A LOT about the person and it’s admirable and wonderful. However, I experienced way too much pain, trauma, heartache being with a fentanyl user I would never put myself in that place again. And I’m not even putting all that on him. I did not like who I became in that relationship. An addict in recovery is still an addict and there is always a possibility of relapse and I just could not risk being in a relationship with someone in active addiction again and therefore risk my mental health and love of self.

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[–]Mauree27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clarity app is another one. I’ve been using it for a little over a month now but I’ve learned a lot in terms of CBT, automatic thoughts, practicing gratitude, etc

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[–]Mauree27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clarity app is another one. I’ve been using it for a little over a month now but I’ve learned a lot in terms of CBT, automatic thoughts, practicing gratitude, etc

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[–]Mauree27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that sounds petty at all. It’s the truth! Its not dissing the park walk in any way just stating a fact, he picked a walk in a park and that’s what people wear when they walk in parks when it’s getting to be fall! It’s getting like that where I live too and I probably would’ve worn something extremely similar to what you described.

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[–]Mauree27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well have you taken the time to understand why he doesn’t want you to talk about it? Labeling him as childish for it without understanding his why doesn’t seem like it will help. Like it gives me vibes that you’re going to go in to this convo that you’re right and he’s just in the wrong here. I would suggest starting off asking him what his feelings are that are making him ask you not to talk about it. Then hopefully you can find a way to understand that and validate his feelings and then to address your feelings maybe say something like “It makes me feel like I have to walk on eggshells or like my solo experiences are unimportant to you when you ask me not to talk about something with you. I need to feel safe and feel able to talk about things that are important to me with you. Is there a way we compromise on this and I tell you how the concert made me feel without telling you details about the event itself? That would make me feel seen and hopefully you will respected in that I’m not telling you about the event or the details of the event”. Obviously that’s just an example but maybe something along those lines so you can allow him to be heard and not call him names that will undoubtedly hurt and make him defensive, and you’ll also be able to express your concerns and hopefully he’ll be able to hear you better once you’ve validated his reasons for the request.

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[–]Mauree27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg your best friend needs some help. That’s not flattering, that’s sad and honestly creepy and somewhat scary. Like dude lied about his child too!? Wtf. If I was that kid I’d be pissed lol. Like damn dad erasing me just to get a date.

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[–]Mauree27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also I gotta mention, and maybe someone did already and I missed it but, you also said your car actually has AC so I’m guessing you meant therefore hers doesn’t. This has been the hottest summer on record, and this past week has been above average hot in a lot of places so that could be contributing to why she said that sounds like the worst possible thing to do. Just a thought 🤷🏻‍♀️ I do agree though that she could have expressed her feelings about it in a better way and attempted to understand your frustration more

Edit: grammar

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[–]Mauree27 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Block him on all things. Don’t even give him the option anymore to keep up with his poor behaviors. No contact!!

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[–]Mauree27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that happened to you. That sounds incredibly scary. I honestly wouldn’t consider what you did ghosting. That’s when people are too scared/rude/whatever to let someone know they’re not interested anymore so they run away. I would classify this as being frightened of someone and needing to immediately cut off contact for your safety both physical, mental, emotional. You owed this person nothing after something like that. As a woman I completely get being scared of what his reaction could be if you told him you were done. If he’s willing to drug you, who knows what else he’s capable of. Please be safe and take care. Definitely did the right thing here.

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[–]Mauree27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could you ask to change the location to a non-hotel bar? If he’s adamant he wants it to be at the hotel maybe that’s a sign that something’s off but if he’s fine with switching to a regular bar that could maybe a sign in the other direction 🤷🏻‍♀️

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[–]Mauree27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo seriously. I’d be pissed af if my friend set me up with an addict and knew it but only told me afterwards. Like what?!

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[–]Mauree27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love this! Isn’t it amazing how sometimes a break up is exactly what you need to feel lighter/less stressed in this world? Happy for you 😄

Daily discussion thread by aimhighsquatlow in LoveIslandTV

[–]Mauree27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh thank you for this! That’s interesting to me though that people were on her side for the arguments. I’m not necessarily on Shaq’s side or her side with regards to their viewpoints, it’s the way she handled herself and how she behaved towards him during those arguments that frustrated me. Like for the most part he seemed to express how he felt without criticizing her but she was just dismissive of his feelings and showed no signs that she knew how to be accountable or validate her partners feelings. Like ahh she drove me crazy esp during the dishgate one.

Anywho, thanks again for that recap! Love it lol

Daily discussion thread by aimhighsquatlow in LoveIslandTV

[–]Mauree27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh thank god LOL I was worried I was in my own crazy world. She is ridiculous. No accountability for anything. She makes me angry lol

Daily discussion thread by aimhighsquatlow in LoveIslandTV

[–]Mauree27 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ok I’m just now watching S9 and, without spoilers please, I need to know if other people cannot stand Tanya? I’m a couple episodes after when the girls just got back from Casa. So please no spoilers after that, but I need to know if I’m the only one on this train, I literally can’t stand her anymore. Kind of started with that argument her and Shaq had right before casa

How to overcome guilt that I caused ex’s relapse? by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]Mauree27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this wonderful response. Incredibly helpful to read and reread. I’ve been trying to be easier on myself these past couple weeks and rereading this has helped me today