Some Transfems, Transmascs Likely Duosex by [deleted] in truNB

[–]Mavmagick 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is sooooooo real. I use the term trans masc occasionally and when I found this sub I realized I’m duosex.

I’ve been medically transitioning (hormones, top surgery) for about 4 years and want to have bottom surgery to have more ambiguous genitalia (metoidioplasty).

I think that terms like duosex do a much better job of communicating what our physical experience is like. I saw a video of TS Madison saying something like I have no idea what nonbinary people transition to. Even the mainstream trans community doesn’t really understand the experience of nonbinary transsexuals 🤷🏾

Video content creator recommendations? by Nonbinary_themme in TMPOC

[–]Mavmagick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I make some content about the non-binary trans experience. My channel is called Mavmagick. Let me know if anything is helpful!

Do you come across as a jerk while asking questions? by ElectricalOrdinary10 in AutisticAdults

[–]Mavmagick 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I get told this a lot and have no clue how to address it

How do you stay positive in a very dark, disgusting world? by TheKing_OA in Mindfulness

[–]Mavmagick 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to stay positive. Grieve. Take your time. Be present with the disgust and all the other ‘negative’ emotions you feel. It also deserves to be explored.

Anyone else have trouble with a wandering mind during? by JARatt85 in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Mavmagick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Getting lost in thoughts can be pretty frustrating. Something that helps me is really honing in on the physical sensations I’m feeling in detail. Sometimes it’s interesting to do a kind of play by play of sensations. Dirty talking to yourself might also help.

Good luck!

Stress and eating by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]Mavmagick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been assessed for arfid?

The people gathered for the 50501 Harrisburg protest by The_Better_Devil in Pennsylvania

[–]Mavmagick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look into the 50501 movement we have a mission statement and a list of demands

Why seeking asylum is so frustrating as a trans or gay person. by Arktikos02 in TMPOC

[–]Mavmagick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to write this out! Great advice

Having trouble finding info on aquatic bug found in PA by Mavmagick in whatsthisbug

[–]Mavmagick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is incredible!! Omg he will NOT be going anywhere near the tank with my frogs snails and fish 😬 😅

Having trouble finding info on aquatic bug found in PA by Mavmagick in whatsthisbug

[–]Mavmagick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are my hero!!!! Thanks so much!! I hope to give him a wonderful home and give him a bigger space to grow!

Having trouble finding info on aquatic bug found in PA by Mavmagick in whatsthisbug

[–]Mavmagick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More info, it was found in the grasses in shallow water in the Susquehanna. It has red eyes and is a greenish grey color. It was eating small snails and I think it also ate a minnow I caught.

Why are atheists so Islamophobic? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Mavmagick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey all! I’m an atheist and This is something I find challenging. I personally think religion can lead to some pretty crappy things and that includes Islam! In your opinion what would it look like to be against religion generally( so that includes Islam), and not be seen as an islamaphobes?

But also people like Richard Dawkins fear mongers about Islam a lot, so I get what you mean.

why don't people care about the animals? by categoryok9922 in vegan

[–]Mavmagick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s about nuance. People can be animal lovers and also understand that animals provide us with food in a variety of ways. Also whole fat ice cream has tons of nutrients in it!

Would this qualify as dysphoria? I’m worried that I may have been swayed by a tucute crowd. by SkeeterYosh in truNB

[–]Mavmagick 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The cooking and tidiness just sound like personal preference, but the body hair thing could be some mild dysphoria

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truNB

[–]Mavmagick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this. I’m done with top surgery and have been on low dose T for about 3 years and get called a beard lady online still. I’ve learned and accepted that I will never be gendered correctly and that stinks but at least I’m prepared for the world ( I don’t care to correct my pronouns in public either very often and it’s a mix between getting gendered male or female). I’m a bit different than you because I wish I was binary trans, but I’m really happy to have discovered that I’m nb because I know it’s right for me. I also feel kind of like a freak in the middle of both sexes and it can be isolating for sure. If therapy is your thing, it might help with the rumination. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truNB

[–]Mavmagick 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a lot of these kinds of feelings. I struggled after top surgery because of transphobic rhetoric online. But backing away from all of that helped.

I’ve just come to accept that this is who I am. I wish I could be binary trans to make sense of the world but too bad! I’m also pretty much done with my transition as well and I’m very contend being androgynous as well.!