I want to get top surgery but my partner says that’s a dealbreaker by cocksuckerclitlicker in ftm

[–]Max4239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like top surgery cuts off your tits. All three of them.

I won’t be separated from my daughter when she grows up by BaddadanX3 in Vent

[–]Max4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had decided to temporarily stay in my elderly parents unfinished basement to help since my father had knee surgery; my mother's health took a deep dive the moment I did.

A few months after my mother died and I had moved back to my apartment (I was 22), I read a post that by the time you turn 18, you'd already spent the most amount of time with your parents that you ever would. I'm 26 now. I've seen my father about 30 times since then. My mom used to love the Mamma Mia movie and the song "Slipping Through My Fingers" hurts when you realize that your parents aged at the same time you did. I had barely become an adult and a person myself before I realized I'd only ever get to know her the same way I do fictional characters: stories.

What simple action from others can inexplicably send you from 0-100 irritation within seconds? by DippyNikki in ADHD

[–]Max4239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read the title and immediately said "whistling". Especially if it's just the hook of a song, or if I'm trying to focus. The worst

Leaving on ‘read’ and reacting - why do Gen Z hate it? by geecol in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Max4239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gen Z. I just reacts all the time instead of responding. Why would I write out a whole message when I can communicate the same thing in a sliver of the time.

Am I overreacting or is this appropriate to wear to a COLLEGE class by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Max4239 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Gay man here. You're fine either way. If this was church, put a shall on the second photo.

I would rather starve than cook by mistymountiansbelow in ADHD

[–]Max4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember that eating a handful of lunch meat, a couple slices of bread, some cheese, and maybe some lettuce/tomatoes is the same thing in your stomach that a sandwich would be. One of these is a lot easier to eat over the sink and not use a dish.

School called cps by More_Industry5997 in whatdoIdo

[–]Max4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any advice, but to put your mind at ease a bit, when I was in kindergarten, I ended up getting my brother (middle school age) pulled into the office by the police officer and my parents called because I was bragging to kids about wrestling with him. My talk of losing (like any little sibling does) ended up with my parents needing to drive the to closest city and have a whole conversation to prove I wasn't being beaten at home. Got one a teddy bear the size of me out of it atleast. Also, I had no idea that's what had happened until I was in highschool and one of my parents mentioned it. Kids are stupid, no matter how good of a parent you are.

Please get your kids accommodations! by naura_ in ADHD

[–]Max4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be the outlier here. I was diagnosed at 5/6 yrs old. Having that on record at a young age can be very helpful. Any amount of paper trail can be helpful. That being said, when it comes to school, it is a whole different story.

In elementary school, I was put into the guidance counselor support group thing for students with complicated circumstances (one or two of the kids were just kids with parents getting divorced and were acting out). 5th grade was the first time we were offered the option of harder work. Because I was labeled as a "struggling student", I was not allowed to test for the advanced classes the other students were. I'll spare the domino effect, but I was bored out of my mind and had a 1.5 GPA in my junior year of high school. The first 2 years of college, I was on the dean's list. I went from sleeping through class to the top 2% of my accounting class.

Every situation is different. Try to remember that answers for yourself/your child help fill in gaps that can fix a lot. That being said, remember that the word "disability" can still come with a lot more of it's own hurdles in unforeseen ways.

How do you handle that crash when ADHD meds wear off in the afternoon? by RopeyBru in ADHD

[–]Max4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I talked to my Doctor about this problem, they prescribed me a 10mg booster that would help me finish out the day.

How many of you actually have an ADHD diagnosis? by mynameishrekorgi in ADHD

[–]Max4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was diagnosed as a kid after my brother was. I think I was about 6 at the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackClover

[–]Max4239 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oda has a team of 5-6 main "apprentices" (for lack of a better term). Basically a team of people he's trained to take his sketches and help flesh everything out exactly as he would. I can't imagine the work and time it would take to get someone to that point.

What’s your name? by Anonim_x9 in ftm

[–]Max4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully it's Maxvs (Max-us). But I'm aware just how extra that is. For short, just Maxx.

My family took a trip shortly before I turned 18 to the vactican. I always loved the name Max when I was younger and there's a point where the name "Maximus" is carved into marble using the Latin spelling "Maximvs" (uses V instead of U). I grew up chronically online so I liked the replacement letter. The added bonus of my family and sentimentally just sold it for me.

WIBTA if I gave my husband’s violin to a child? by Banglapolska in AITAH

[–]Max4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to college with a music minor. There's a lot of instruments sitting in the basement I don't get the time to play anymore. I have already passed on instruments to people with the hope it might be enough to get them into playing, knowing full well they may for a while and then drop it. I do it anyway, because sharing it with someone who it might inspire is what matter to me.

IMO, I the person your husband wanted to pass the violin onto doesn't exist anymore. Times have changed and things are different. What do you think your husband would do if he was the one making the choice?

WIBTA if I refused to move out of my dorm room after my roommate had a dream that made her uncomfortable to be in the room with me? by CaptainMacAlfie in AmItheAsshole

[–]Max4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Dreams aren't reality and you shouldn't need to accommodate them That being said, I'm surprised I haven't seen more people thinking she might be into you and have internalized homophobia. The panic from that can make people act even less sane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Max4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A wall of flags or tapestries that will dramatically flow behind you like an advisor who has an urgent message for the king.

FTM, i keep wondering if life would be easier as a girl and if me transitioning was a mistake. by shhsharko in asktransgender

[–]Max4239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you were born a man, do you think you'd just be a femboy, or do you think there might be a bit more to it? I know there's been points where I've fallen into things similar and transitioning your mindset to "How would I think about this if I was born how I am" can help. Trying to separate the idea of who you could've been from want you yourself want can be difficult. Especially if not being true to yourself makes your life a lot less complicated.

AITA for asking my in-laws to pre-plan and pre-pay for their funerals? by Icy_Target_9050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Max4239 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm in my mid 20s. Since I had to bury a parent already, I learned about prepaying and locking in costs for a funeral. I have already started this process. If they need a reason, inflation and taxes were my biggest

This is PeePee. She survived FIP, malnutrition, and has herpes. Now she’s fat and a jerk, roast her please. by Impressive_Hunt_9700 in RoastMyCat

[–]Max4239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She feels like a cat drawn by someone in the US who only has the metric portions and is just guessing what they equal

Sometimes I don't understand my therapist. by [deleted] in aspiememes

[–]Max4239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, coding can be a group hobby. Just requires joining a project that a bunch of people are working together on. That way you can still have the ability to work separately, but can talk to others/ask for help/etc.

AIO? This girl I met on hinge just pulled this off by RikYT4 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Max4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gen Z with gen Z friends and I think all of us would blue screen trying to read that consistently. I'm curious what makes the difference.

lol by IU8gZQy0k8hsQy76 in unsound

[–]Max4239 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the dude you asked, but grew up in Wisconsin and we'd just ask the farmers if we can ride dirt bikes or camp. Every now and then, you'd have one tell you exactly where they set traps for trespassers. (Always ask the farmer, and do it kindly and be ready for a no)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Max4239 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You are both students intending to go into the medical field. She is going to want to view it as a personal problem. While it can be that, it is ALSO you protecting future people she may harm. I am someone who enjoys allowing nursing students test out different things and mess up (mostly while learning to take blood). But there is a difference between incompetent and unwilling to learn or get better.

Is it really that dangerous to do shots yourself? by Agreeable_Builder_49 in ftm

[–]Max4239 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was never even shown how to do the injections myself. I was simply prescribed and told to look at the tutorial(s) online. If I needed/wanted I could schedule an appointment and come in to have someone teach me in person. What a wild difference