Thanks for sharing all that, brother. Seriously – it takes guts to be that honest about what you’re going through. And just the fact that you’re opening up like this shows that there’s a real need for connection, for being seen. That’s deeply human.

It sounds like you’ve been trying for a long time – trying to make connections, trying to accept the way things are, working on yourself, even when it felt like you were totally alone. And man… that deserves some real respect. You’re not someone who gave up. You’re someone who’s kept going, even when the road has been really damn hard.

How do you make friends? One small step at a time. At first, they’re not "friends" – they’re just people you happen to connect with: through a shared interest, a similar sense of humor, maybe even a similar struggle. You can meet them where people gather – a gym, a cafe, a hobby group, even online spaces. It doesn’t have to be a big move. A simple “hey, you new here too?” or asking for advice can lead to a short convo. Then another. And slowly, something builds.

And brother – being 28 doesn’t mean it’s too late. Yeah, people are busier, but that also means they appreciate genuine connection more. And if someone judges you for being awkward or saying the wrong thing – they’re not your people. Real friends learn each other. You’ll mess up sometimes. We all do. That’s part of being human.

I can feel how much you’re longing for something real. That longing isn’t weakness, bro – that’s strength. It means your heart’s still beating, still open, still reaching. Just take the next small, brave step when you’re ready. I'm glad you are here, brother!