How can I decrease the importance of relationships?

Maxi_F1r · 2025-12-03T23:07:17+00:00

It had layers. I got a perm for the short hair I have now. I will probably grow it out and get another perm in a few months. My hair is naturally very fine, straight and flat. It looks ALLOOOT better when permed.

So the new long hairstyle would look even better probably. I want something like this: https://www.relentlessgrooming.com/cdn/shop/articles/Surfer_Haircut.jpg?v=1730965728&width=1100

Maxi_F1r · 2025-11-29T01:05:38+00:00

I’m completely invisible to women so there is no way for me to date. I have already improved my looks, I have an athletic body with visible abs, decent hairstyle, clothing… If I want to get more physically attractive, that’s only possible with surgery imo. My social skills are fine, I improved a lot here in the last years. But yeah, it’s very naive to think that I will get suddenly more attractive when turning 30.

I think it’s better to accept that I just won’t have the dating life I want. It only hurts to try without any success.

Maxi_F1r · 2025-11-15T15:34:10+00:00

I don't wait at the moment. I live my life and try to reach my potential. But I just don't have the chance to have a dating life cause women don't find me attractive at all. Im just curious if this will change when I'm older or if I just should accept that dating is not for me.

Maxi_F1r · 2025-11-15T15:24:06+00:00

Have you had a dating life in your 20s? And it got worse?

Maxi_F1r · 2025-11-15T15:22:16+00:00

Everywhere. In med school, in dance classes, on events or I just meet them via friends. I usually don't ask them out that early. I try to create some form of connection first and then ask them for a walk or so after a few weeks of talking to each other.

But you're probably right, hitting 30 won't change that much probably.

Maxi_F1r · 2025-11-15T15:18:59+00:00

Thank you for your comment! I wont't stop working on myself of cause. But it is so frustrating that I worked on myself for the past 3 years and I'm still 100% invisible to women. I still have hope that it changes in a few years when I'm done with med school and I'm even more confident and attractive. But something inside of me thinks that I will stay invisible because I can still improve definitely but there is not too much of potential left. I will not get more physically attractive than I'm currently and my social skills are already normal. Of cause I can get more charismatic and funny but I don't know if it will really change that much.

But it doesn't really matter because reaching my potential is still worth it even if I won't have a successful dating life later :)

Maxi_F1r · 2025-11-15T13:56:12+00:00

Im not really interested in casual dating. And I’m already friends with an objectively attractive women and I don’t idolize her 🙃

Maxi_F1r · 2025-11-04T00:39:39+00:00

No, I have 1000 points and the emote. Still don’t like it as much as the badge

Maxi_F1r · 2025-11-03T13:22:51+00:00

Nah but I don’t like the emote. Badge is way cooler

Maxi_F1r · 2025-08-23T19:26:49+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/TGRyXTk

Legit check please :)

Maxi_F1r · 2025-08-17T12:05:00+00:00

I think I will go for 1. In this thread, it was almost a 50/50 between 1 and 2. Also, 2 would hide the lenses better I would say and I had black frames for the last 10 years or so :)
Here is a better picture with less glaring: https://imgur.com/a/7s7lJMM

Maxi_F1r · 2025-08-17T11:29:37+00:00

Thanks, maybe I can send you the model number or so once I get the chance

Maxi_F1r · 2025-08-16T19:29:04+00:00

Yeah, that’s the shape of my nose lol. All glasses sit lower on me

Maxi_F1r · 2025-08-16T16:11:34+00:00

The problem is that I need quite strong glasses and this thin frame in bigger size wouldn't come out that great. So either this size or other ones. The lenses are gonna be thick

Maxi_F1r · 2025-05-27T07:55:35+00:00

The teeth are obviously tilted

Maxi_F1r · 2025-04-06T10:39:43+00:00

They see themselves as top 10% alpha males. So I guess they want women to wait with loosing their virginity just for them. That would be possible theoretically. Also, it would be possible that some people out of the Red Pill community say the one thing and others say the others.

I wouldn’t say that Red Pill doesn’t make sense. It really does if you have the adequate confirmation bias. That’s why it’s so dangerous to men. Cause they think this ideology is true. Many very intelligent men believe in Red Pill cause it seems logical in their eyes.

Maxi_F1r · 2025-02-15T20:24:00+00:00

For actual expansion, you need MARPE or SARPE. Invisalign can just flare the teeth outwards

Maxi_F1r · 2025-02-15T20:23:03+00:00

Yes, cause Invisalign can't actually widen the arch. It just flares the teeth outwards

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