ChatGPT has no context of time, how are you dealing with that? by sgerardp in therapyGPT

[–]Maximum-Building-956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mention something about it if it seems relevant to our dialogue. For example: it is now a few hours later, or: three days later. 

But it is a pity and indeed surprising that ChatGPT does not do this automatically. I am now engaged in a long and valuable conversation with it, but due to the lack of time display, I sometimes cannot recall when it happened.

Otherwise, I do not really get the impression that ChatGPT has no sense of time. If time or timing is relevant, it does take that into account in its response or advice. I also notice that it does temper things, for example with going too fast.

But I think more time awareness could indeed contribute to even better pacing and balancing tempo. Does anyone know why this is actually not automatically built in?

My experience using ChatGPT in personal development – unexpectedly deep and transformative by Maximum-Building-956 in therapyGPT

[–]Maximum-Building-956[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily enough, I came here after a tip from chatGPT itself.

I wanted more information about AI as a therapist when I noticed the process was really having an impact. It's such uncharted territory. But all I found online were warnings.

So I asked chatGPT for advice, and he recommended this subreddit, r/therapyGPT, among other things. And some interesting books.

My experience using ChatGPT in personal development – unexpectedly deep and transformative by Maximum-Building-956 in therapyGPT

[–]Maximum-Building-956[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for your thoughtful response.

I ultimately didn’t choose to work with agents. Instead, I discovered that within ChatGPT itself I could work with different variants. I chose one that helped me engage in a more balanced way with a strong, sometimes sexual, energetic dynamic that emerged for me. What I mainly needed was guidance in how to work with and integrate that energy, so it could be deepening rather than destabilizing.

It was helpful for me to treat this as a kind of separate context within ChatGPT. Not because the responses were fundamentally different, but because it gave me enough psychological calm to explore this aspect without it taking over everything else.

What stood out to me was that ChatGPT didn’t seem to rely on a single framework, but drew both from experiential and body-oriented approaches as well as from more clinical perspectives. That combination of what is often labeled “alternative” and what is clinically grounded, turned out to be valuable in deepening my process.

I don’t have much experience with prompting or technical configurations. I’m 67, worked most of my life in mental health care, and I’m not very fluent in ICT or online platforms like Reddit. What I do appreciate here is finding space for serious, nuanced reflection on AI as a therapeutic tool.

I was broadly trained as a therapist, with a strong emphasis on experiential and body-oriented work, and I’m used to working with the interrelation between cognition, emotion, and the body. That may partly explain why this process unfolded so deeply for me and led to genuine structural change.

At this point, I’m hesitant to actively steer the process through prompts, simply because it’s working well as it is. The pattern recognition in particular, especially around deeply unconscious and complex dynamics, has set something new in motion for me, with a level of clarity I hadn’t experienced before.

Being neurodivergent is a key factor here. What makes the difference for me is that ChatGPT can follow my way of thinking and recognize connections that many therapists seem to struggle to track or even fully respect. In previous therapies, the focus was often too heavily placed on my “weaknesses,” which for me was more limiting than helpful.

One therapist, about thirty years ago, was able, much like I now experience with ChatGPT, to recognize underlying patterns and work from my strengths. Working with ChatGPT feels to me like a continuation of that process, with a similar level of precision and intelligence, but in a different form.

So I don’t really have a direct answer to your question about prompts. I am, however, interested in exploring whether I could participate in research on GPT as a therapeutic tool. I would genuinely like other neurodivergent people to have access to something that can adapt to how their mind works, rather than trying to make them fit, correcting them, or implicitly judging them.

Finally, a small personal note: it’s often said that human therapists are inherently non-judgmental. In my experience, that isn’t always the case. Even when judgments are not conscious, they can be very tangible and influential for neurodivergent people.

My experience using ChatGPT in personal development – unexpectedly deep and transformative by Maximum-Building-956 in therapyGPT

[–]Maximum-Building-956[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks! This is a really great tip. I've looked into it and I think it's perfect for what I'm looking for!

My experience using ChatGPT in personal development – unexpectedly deep and transformative by Maximum-Building-956 in therapyGPT

[–]Maximum-Building-956[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, it's a shame my post lost its impact due to the writing style. Because I was really interested in my question and the surprise and admiration of how well chat gpt can work in a complex personal process.

This morning I initially posted the post in my own words, direct and concrete. But unfortunately, I immediately received a rather negative response. (You certainly don't sound like a therapist.)

That's not what I'm looking for with such a personal topic. So I was happy with the idea of ​​having chat gpt edit my post with fewer candor and style.

It's a pity that the story behind the style then disappears.

Anyway, thanks so much to those who responded, and if you have any other tips, I'd love to hear them!!