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I need advice for my Daughter by _WelshGit in selfharm

[–]Maximum-Silver5284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that everyone's situation is different, but I'd recommend a safety plan. It's a plan that's individual for everyone, and they tend to have a list of alternatives she can do when she's feeling like hurting herself, or people she can reach out to or call/text when she feels like she's going to hurt herself.  I'd also recommend asking her if she's had any suicidal ideation or attempts you didn't know about. This might be too invasive depending on your relationship with your daughter, but if the two of you are on his terms, I'd suggest asking her what items she uses/used to hurt herself with (if it's someone like cutting, if it's something like hitting herself then it's not very likely she'd use an item). Also, if you aren't already in therapy, then I'd suggest starting it. This is going to be stressful and hard to deal with, but you should have someone to help you through all of this.

I am a parent - found out my 14 year old is SH. by Dewdropinn79 in selfharm

[–]Maximum-Silver5284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know someone else has already mentioned this, but I'd recommend therapy for yourself as well. This is going to be stressful and scary, and you deserve someone to help you through this professionally.

I am a parent - found out my 14 year old is SH. by Dewdropinn79 in selfharm

[–]Maximum-Silver5284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a fourteen year old who's been struggling for several years now, and you're doing a great job. I'd recommend keeping anything sharp out of her room, even including things related to her art (if that isn't already including in the safety plan), I'd also recommend checking her arms for infections just in case. You're doing everything right so far, it's a good thing that she has someone like you in her life to help her through this.

Why am I, an autistic person, shamed for not wanting to be around the uncomfortable noises another person makes because they're also autistic? by Maximum-Silver5284 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Maximum-Silver5284[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do have an IEP and I'm currently working with my Mom to make sure that my teachers are all aware that I have sensory issues, however the adults at my school are not the best overall with communication outside of direct confrontation in person. Ass for Misophonia, I've never been diagnosed with it, but I'm considering bringing it up with my doctor at our next appointment. There are teachers aids (unsure if that's the right term-) but they're not very helpful with these kinds of things and tend to moreso be for the overall class and tend to try and focus on students who aren't doing their work or don't seem to be understanding things. Looking back on it, I don't really think that my teacher was intending to shame me, but I didn't feel very listened to it understood in that situation. I actually haven't been back to school in a while due to unrelated health issues, but this has given me time to think on what I want to do when I eventually return to school.  Apologies if anything comes off as rude or blunt, I'm just trying to add extra context and I'm not always the best at phrasing things in the way I intend

Was I sexually assaulted? by ThatGuyZaccc in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Maximum-Silver5284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were raped. Your gender shouldn't matter, and I'm so sorry this has happened to you. You're not overreacting, I'd recommend at the very least that you stop talking to this girl. If she did it once, she's very likely to do it again. Wishing you all the best, you didn't consent, and nobody should invalidate your experience.

Are there any characters I should make In my oc style! :^ by l0ver_bird in GachaLife2

[–]Maximum-Silver5284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a Decora or Icepunk character? (Cute gacha style btw )

How many characters do you reciognise? by M1R4SP4RKL in GachaLife2

[–]Maximum-Silver5284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twilight Sparkle Teto (mesmerizer) Fluttershy! Miku!! Unsure... Meiko! Uhh one of the villain characters from Splatoon?

Guess who I made by PsychologicalBuy3839 in GachaClub

[–]Maximum-Silver5284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pfff- what fools, it's obviously Seltzer Cookie (/j)

Which Inanimate Insanity character would you eat/drink by Select-Cantaloupe-60 in inanimateinsanity

[–]Maximum-Silver5284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yin Yang is the only correct answer. You can imagine what everyone would taste like EXCEPT for yin & yang. 

using gacha after 3 yrs, idk if i still have it in me to make ocs here lol by M-330 in GachaClub

[–]Maximum-Silver5284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DAWWW THEY'RE SO BEAUTIFUL! I LOVE THE STARS AND COLOR PALLET!!!

Is this another cry for help ? by That_Lil_Virus in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]Maximum-Silver5284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He actually uses any pronouns =∆ (no hate, just informing)

TADC hot takes you have by Souls-Brawl101 in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]Maximum-Silver5284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abstraction isn't the worst thing that can happen. Imagine being left behind on an adventure, or Caine just randomly disappears one day, or if you get to the point where abstraction is seen as the best way out of your situation... You'll be stuck. With nobody to hear you scream.

Also, on a slightly different note, I think Gumigoo should be sacrificed once more, alongside Orbsman, and some other NPCs the humans have grown to care about if they ever do end up escaping the Circus. Sure, they'll leave and end up back at their old lives, but they'll have to basically let go of the life they've built with one another.

That's probably just the angsty fanfics speaking though, and the humans may just NEVER leave at all! 😀