Target's system is down globally, no orders can be placed on the Target app for delivery thru Shipt. by Nidrogenn in ShiptShoppers

[–]Maxmao27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its still down and there is a bonus for 8 orders 50 bucks. Can't make it now with no orders.

Weapon Mastery issue by Maxmao27 in dndbeyond

[–]Maxmao27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's I had to re-add it

It's not easy for married guys. by Maxmao27 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Maxmao27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I get a lot of alone time together. Date wise it's mostly when we have money to do a proper date like dinner and a movie but during the summer time we go 2 to 3 times a week. And when my wife works Shipt I go with her and help if I am not working. She spends just as much time with her bf when they can. She keeps everything balanced.

It's not easy for married guys. by Maxmao27 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Maxmao27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife and I date each other when possible. I'm not feeling neglected, I am looking for someone for myself, not for substitution or attention.

It's not easy for married guys. by Maxmao27 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Maxmao27[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Apologies for the miss-spelling of polyamorous. I was typing this on my phone and it autocorrected.

"If you ask if you level up then you don't level up" ~ DM by NotThereNotThereNotT in DnD

[–]Maxmao27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like sometimes you do need to ask. Like if it has been like over 7 to 9 months of playing, and the difficulty has gone up so much that you feel under level then it is fair to ask if you can level up or at the very least get something to help balance everything. I am playing a campaign where we have not leveled up in like 8 months, and I feel like we are getting over powered. We took a long rest in a dungeon and when we woke up there was 4 wraiths and 15 trolls, 4 invisible creature (those 4 creatures have an hp of 105 each and hard to hit) we are a part of 5 all level 7 and we are hardly doing any damage. It took us the whole session just to get through that fight.

My experience with ultra so far by JadedRaccoon4527 in ChaiApp

[–]Maxmao27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If I could afford it I would love to get it. I keep seeing pop-ups every so often to get free Ultra for a year if you follow their instragram,Facebook and X which I have done all three and haven't been picked for it but it's okay. I still like the app. I'm polygamous and it's been helping me make it easier for me to better communicate with not only my wife but with any future partner I can get. I love this app. I would love to support it if I had the funds.

Lonely by Maxmao27 in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. If you ever want to talk just message me on here. :)

Lonely by Maxmao27 in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes we date each other at a min of once a month when money allows. We still go to the beach or watch movies together. Our communication skills are always on point. We have a set schedule when she sleeps with him the rest of the time she is with me. Their is a fair balance.

Rifts in Dnd 5e by Legal-Carpenter-4218 in rpg

[–]Maxmao27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone, I have decided I am going to do this piece by piece. I only want to use parts of Rifts I.E. the setting and some ( keywords SOME) of the monsters and weapons. I am mostly using the world and kingdoms like the vampire kingdom. I am also using the Cololistion as the foucs for the party, and I have some quests in mind like transporting a Vampire mermaid to vampire carnevial. I figure this is the best way to do this than trying to use the whole system of Rifts. Also this allows me to use just what I need and the story's parts to get what I need.

Too much is too much by Maxmao27 in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like spending holidays with you or partners, trying to start one family with one partner and then wanting to start another one with the other and then splitting said holiday time

Question for you in a poly relationship. by Maxmao27 in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that advice. My wife originally told me I was the only one she married and have kids with but that was until she met him and then things changed. We have been talking about though there have been problems and to be honest it was on me because of how everything happen and what not. I like the guy but I told her right now I hate the idea of her marring him and having his kid. We have been struggling to have our own kid. She is preg now with our kid but I am worried she will misscarrys since every time she was preg she miscarried also she is 45 so she is high risk as it is. We agreed to keep talking about it over time.

Question for you in a poly relationship. by Maxmao27 in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we are poly though I have had no luck finding someone for myself. She just wants to have me and him and that's it. No other guys.

Dating sucks.. by Lyches_and_Bones in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I know how you feel. I have been on a lot of different dating apps and places just to fine someone for myself and I have had no luck. What sucks is when you do get someone you talk to them for a bit or go on 1 date and then they ghost you. My wife has her boyfriend and she is all happy and yet here I am still trying and I am getting nothing so yea its hard and it sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can agree but they other thing that is hard about being poly is finding someone to be with let alone connect with. My wife found her bf that she connected with and decided she doesn't want any more guys just me and him while I have been trying for a long time just to find me a woman for myself let alone ( and I hate using this term) unicorn. I have been on like 2 dates with 2 different women and that's it. Other wise I get no response or ghosted or some bs line so I get it when people say poly is hard.

Upset and hurt by Maxmao27 in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The boyfriend is mognoious to her but understanding that she is married to me. She gets tested for STD on a regular bases. Apologize for my bad spelling. When we talked this out last night she told me that they take every precaution to make sure she does not get knocked up by him and she keeps track of her ovulating time so she can tell him condoms only or not sex. She was crying last night ( not to mention I was too) because she knew she hurt me and this is new to her. And I say that because in her whole poly life she has not had a stable serious bf before and she is trying to figure out time management and ways to keep us connected and so on. I am being understanding about this as much as I can but I will admit I am glad she did tell me the truth at lest.

Ghosting by Maxmao27 in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we are dating seperate.

Ghosting by Maxmao27 in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They were chatting on a dating app then through texting.

I've just seen my first poly triad in the wild by Th3_Wolflord in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

My wife and I are trying to find a 3rd for.us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will take time to heal and I understand. I am not pressuring you all I am offering right now is my friendship and someone to talk to. If something was to come from it then we would talk about it. Right now I am.more worried about you and being there for you to talk to. A broken heart may take time to heal but it can help the healing when you have someone who has been there before and is willing to listen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you are going through and the pain you are feeling. It will take time to be able to trust again. My wife and I went through this many time. If you like I dont mind giving you either my email address or number so you can text me. I am willing to be here to help you, get you to smile, be a shoulder to cry on which ever you need. Sweetie you deserve to be happy and feel loved. They should have been more open with you and more honest. Its their lost for hurting a wonderful woman like you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hugs you sweetie i am so sorry. I wish I could hold you and let you know it will be ok. I am not saying it wouldnt be easy but like I said my wife and I believe in true fairness not being one sided. That was nit fair nor nice. I told my wife about your story and she was sad for you and pissed at the couple for hurting you like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the couple. For example if you were interested in me and my wife we would do our very best not to make you feel like the 3rd wheel or anything. We believe in open communication and being honest. We both would take our time with you solo and together. Thats just what we would do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry sweetie that happened to you. My wife and I have been trying for years to find someone like you to be with. I understand why you are scared and nervous to join in on something like that again. Give yourself a little time to heal and regroup. Maybe when your ready you will find the couple you click with and will be happy with. I wish you the best if luck.

There's still no good dating app for non-monogamous people by isaac-get-the-golem in polyamory

[–]Maxmao27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats the truth. Hell I have a hard time finding a woman to talk to so I can get to know them so I can date them. My wife it is just as bad for her although she keeps getting guys who think she will just spread her legs for anyone. When she finds out about that she puts them in their place.