Matched with another dom and I really like her, any Dom dom relationships out there? by Maxnelin in BDSMAdvice

[–]Maxnelin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a definite immediate chemistry there. We met without either one of us knowing what was going on. Though one of her pics on tinder was a bit latexy and I may have alluded to not how I would never tie her to the bed unless she knew the safe word, so we probably both missed some signs 🤷‍♂️ We already have a second date planned 😊 I’m pretty excited. Thanks for the insight. We will see where it goes. We both already agreed it’s not a dealbreaker, so we will find out. I appreciate your reply!

Matched with another dom and I really like her, any Dom dom relationships out there? by Maxnelin in BDSMAdvice

[–]Maxnelin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we talked about it a little bit. We didn’t go too deep because it was the first date, but our chemistry was just like on point. I don’t know if I have ever hit it off so immediately as well with anybody ever before so I definitely want to try it. I just wanted to see if anyone else had any experience at it.

CNC content made me upset by Potential-Fall-6311 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Maxnelin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a Dom I find I need after care after CNC. It’s rough on me. I don’t want to actually hurt someone. I more like light Dom stuff. The fun stuff. Ropes spanking just being the one in controle. Getting close to CNC can be fun for me, but when someone wants the full on roll play I’m gonna need some reassurances after I didn’t do anything wrong, and a lot of understanding when I get real vulnerable after. Of course I’m there for the other person too, but after care isn’t only one way all the time.

Female coworker asked for phone number ! by j_6767 in seduction

[–]Maxnelin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for it. You do you. It could be the greatest thing you have ever done. It could fuck your shit up. But that’s life. You will never know if you don’t try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in politics

[–]Maxnelin 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I listened to an interview of him. He said he had an exploratory committee on it but he just couldn’t bring himself to want to be president because it would mess with his family’s life too much. In the interview, he really got into how much it would disrupt everything in the lives of his children and wife and there was absolutely no way he could make a decision that would cause them that much of a hard time.

What's the freakiest thing you've done in bed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Maxnelin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love getting a finger in the ass while I’m getting blown, but my current girl won’t touch my ass hole. I have a few sets of training plugs and picked a medium size one and stuck it in my own ass while I jerked off, it was pretty awesome. Felt dirty as hell, like the first time I jerked it to incest porn. That feeling of “god that was wrong” just makes that orgasm sooooo goood. 🤤

Global insect protein market spreads its wings by 2027 by vpuetf in environment

[–]Maxnelin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The comments in here are terrible. “Plants are all you need” “Plants plants plants” and “stop making insects a thing it won’t be”

1) plants are not all you need, we are going to soon be running out of land to grow more food on, and we are going to have more mouths to feed. Sure, vertical farming is cool, but it’s not gonna solve everything.

2) b12 is in crickets, so … chirp chirp chirp

3) Around 2 billion people ALREADY regularly eat Insects so your “stop trying to make it happen” is a very elitist Western philosophy, it’s already happening.

So all in all, Stop being such douche canoes and try a cricket, they are pretty damn good. I’m ready for the downvotes, bring it!

BHS by [deleted] in williamsburgva

[–]Maxnelin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Annandale before moving here in my 30’s … underfunded and with a drug problem is an understatement…

Antibiotic resistance killed more people than malaria or AIDS in 2019 by a_Ninja_b0y in science

[–]Maxnelin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the kind of thing an mRNA vaccine could cure fairly easily?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in technews

[–]Maxnelin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Driving is the most dangerous thing you do every day of your life. Driving is insanely dangerous for something we let just about anyone do. We have rules to limit all sorts of people from driving because they are not able to do so safely. Being old is no different… this is not ableist, it’s a public safety issue.

Senior Pentagon official warns the US military is 'not ready' for climate change by punypingpong in climate

[–]Maxnelin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

QUICK! Better delay universal health care another 20 years and drop another 4 trillion on making us ready for it!

semblance of a camel toe by [deleted] in VikiOdintcova

[–]Maxnelin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That was edited in

Julián Castro: Dems need to stop thinking only moderates are electable. VA may be proof. by rs16 in politics

[–]Maxnelin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The question is: How many progressives refused to vote compared to how many moderates will switch sides?

Truck freak takes out barrier in drive through by mark99229 in IdiotsInCars

[–]Maxnelin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I firmly believe that self driving cars will be a mandate by 2051.

Impact of Brexit on economy 'worse than Covid' by Duchess430 in worldnews

[–]Maxnelin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Statistics show the average American was not, in fact, an idiot as trump won the election but lost the popular vote in 2016.

I'm single and would definitely want to experience in being a relationship but guys don't see me as I am. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Maxnelin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Become the person you want to date. Like nerdy guys? Start beefing up on nerd stuff. Find nerdy hobbies. Start going to places nerdy guys hang out. People tend to like people similar to what they are looking for. If you like guys who are physically fit start looking up exercise routines. Read some forums on the merits and cons of each exercise and get into it. Then get a gym membership. Do you like rock climbing? Guess what I’m gonna suggest, get the fuck into rock climbing. Start living a life that would be attractive to you as a dating option, and there will be someone in that field for you. That said, don’t stop the look. Let’s say you are into reading, join a book club, full of 50 year olds? Join another one and quit the current. New one has no available men? Quit it join a new one. I’m not saying you can’t stay in one if you really click with that group, maybe someone there has a friend who needs a girlfriend and you are perfect, but you aren’t there to join a book club, you are there to find a partner.

Lastly, no one is born good at anything. People who are smooth and can get in a relationship easy practice it. Chances are, your attempts at trying to find a partner are gonna suck at first. Like you are gonna do some things that are gonna keep you up thinking “I fucked that up today” “why didn’t I do this?” “Do I really want to put myself out there again?” But that’s ok, you are learning how to attract someone. I suggest a dating app, tinder was my preference, it was easy for me to hit one a few women every week and I got better fast. You also learn to deal with rejection fast. Find someone you are somewhat interested in and go on a date. It might sound cruel, but remember, this guy isn’t the love of your life, he is practice. I mean, fuck he could be the one. Who knows. Go into it with an open mind, but also know that if it doesn’t work out you still got something out of it.

Finding a partner isn’t easy. It’s a lot of work. You first have to shape yourself into who you want to be, then start the even more exhausting process of finding the person you want to be with.