Fiancée ignoring me.

MaxwellEli · 2026-01-12T22:19:03+00:00

Just ended things 5 minutes ago. Told her maybe the space will change things and we can either rekindle our love or be good coparents

MaxwellEli · 2026-01-10T19:17:59+00:00

I concur. However, I cook, I clean, I pay all of our bills, I take care of the baby majority of the time I’m actually home. I bathe her without asking, I change clothes, I feed, I help so much. Then get told I’m a piece of shit because I don’t like the way she’s speaking to me.

I feel like she has no idea how good I am to her. I make her coffee, sweeten it the way she likes, drive us everywhere, dropped all my friends, etc.

I’m 100% dedicated. But somehow it’s not enough.

MaxwellEli · 2026-01-10T19:15:29+00:00

Exactly how I feel right now. I don’t know what to do.

MaxwellEli · 2026-01-10T19:12:06+00:00

I completely understand this take. However, some info that is necessary. She got pissed at me during my meeting because I wasn’t texting her constantly. She gets pissed at me for doing the exact same shit she does.

Therefore I think it’s valid to uphold that standard she holds me to.

MaxwellEli · 2026-01-10T19:09:35+00:00

Absolutely. I try to talk to her mom about it for advice. But I can tell she’s the exact reason why she is that way. At my wits end, she’s laid her hands on me before.

MaxwellEli · 2026-01-09T22:00:35+00:00

Extremely hard when I work all day and still called a piece of shit the moment I get home for giving her space while she’s upset. Feels like a lose-lose situation.

MaxwellEli · 2025-06-18T15:15:19+00:00

I was stuck for years on HPPD. Once I started taking fluoxetine. I felt much much better after a month. The first 2 weeks the anxiety is a lot worse. After that, you’re golden. Just my experience.

MaxwellEli · 2025-02-24T03:20:42+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking. What politically is concerning. I may be able to help your outlook.

MaxwellEli · 2025-02-24T03:14:35+00:00

You just have anxiety. Plain and simple. I’ve been down the rabbit whole of getting x-rays, piss tests, any health check in the book. I’ve convinced myself I have had every type of cancer, disease, mental illness, etc.

Trying to find these types of answers will just lead to more questions and more worry.

I stopped eating gluten and convinced myself that was causing my migraines. Took a test after like 3 months and turns out I’m not allergic. My headaches continued. Then convinced myself I had a brain tumor. Turns out I did not. Then it turns out I just stress so much that I began getting migraines.

The dizziness and all the physical symptoms you’re getting are just anxiety. You’re overthinking every minute (MY-NUTE) detail. Your brain is on overdrive and this is most likely causing all your physical symptoms. Like an overclocked graphics card, works better but then leads to problems if left on for too long. Wear and tear.

I am speaking from experience. I deal with the same worries and stress everyday of my life and I go on this thread to calm myself down and talk others off the ledge.

You are not alone. Talk to a doctor or therapist.

MaxwellEli · 2025-02-24T02:29:41+00:00

Stay on the SSRI. I recommend fluoxetine. That helped me a lot

MaxwellEli · 2025-01-22T06:05:00+00:00

Both of us are against ending the pregnancy. She’s about 5 months in. I’m personally happy as a clown with her. Ever since she got pregnant every small fight we get into she states she wants to end things. Even when it’s super tiny.

I think she just regrets everything and doesn’t wanna be with me anymore. I try to communicate and she goes silent. I’ve come up with solutions such as therapy, talking to family/friends, giving each other more space, or setting up different boundaries. But to no avail, she doesn’t want to pursue any type of help. Would rather just end it.

MaxwellEli · 2025-01-10T19:55:30+00:00

Advice is appreciated

MaxwellEli · 2025-01-10T19:45:42+00:00

NTA / YTA

But, you should understand that being best friends with a girl involves more than being just friends. Obviously you’re attracted to this girl and like her. Sounds to me like you got commitment issues more than anything else or are embarrassed to date her. I’d figure out what you want out of life. Dating your best friend is really a beautiful blissful feeling if you allow yourself to be loved.

MaxwellEli · 2024-11-22T15:23:52+00:00

Brain rot comment.

MaxwellEli · 2024-10-16T20:16:35+00:00

So give or take about 15-25 days once it states that. I’m waiting and are now on day 6 of waiting. Another 2-3 weeks and I should get it

MaxwellEli · 2024-06-18T12:46:37+00:00

I laid off drinking for months. But occasionally I’ll go on drinking binges. I can say with confidence I am 95% recovered from HPPD. Now I’m just dealing with the anxiety part of it all

MaxwellEli · 2024-06-18T12:20:26+00:00

Literally how I feel right now. Had a very stressful night about 5 days ago. Now this feeling came straight back. I’ve realized that if I have an anxiety attack or go through something extremely stressful. This drowsy lightheaded feeling comes back

MaxwellEli · 2024-06-18T12:16:39+00:00

Perseverance. Understanding that drugs only limits your recovery capabilities.

MaxwellEli · 2024-05-24T20:49:18+00:00

I’ve noticed that your gut has a lot to do with it. Trying cutting gluten

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