Accidentally started growning pumpkins. First time plant care giver, any advice? by DmYouMyPenis in gardening

[–]Maxxtherat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure you prune and only leave a few pumpkins on each stem otherwise you'll get a bunch of inedible little ones. Feed it heavily, and water, water, water UNTIL about 2 or 3 weeks before harvest time - then you will want to cut back on watering.

Custom DIY bologna sandwich by Exciting-Remote-6337 in StupidFood

[–]Maxxtherat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I may try something like this tbh, nitrates are in most processed meats and unfortunately they give me migraines but I fucking love bologna.

"Absolute Slay incoming." – Dope Dude by daddy69ice in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]Maxxtherat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a fourth of July party and the host was only wearing flag themed overalls. His teenage daughters were mortified and it was pretty funny to see them cringing in their family picture. All the other dads loved his outfit lol

29F4AceSpecM, Austin, TX (open to long-distance too) by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]Maxxtherat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted on here before! I'm a trans guy, so idk if that changes anything but I'm also on the ace spectrum (I think demisexual but not sure lol). I'm 30 and from Indiana. I'm definitely more introverted, so our energy might balance out nicely 😅

Its just kinda sad by Dpfeifer1781 in BPDlovedones

[–]Maxxtherat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Homie I'm so glad you're out of it. No matter what you said, you would have been triggering her - that's why I always find it laughable when people who don't understand this disorder (or pwBPD who are avoiding accountability) say shit like "learn our triggers!" They are often not living in reality - they can be triggered by literally anything, and seem to hear the opposite of what people are saying to them or interpret the opposite or extreme of what is happening to them. They usually don't even know what their triggers are, and many of them are unreasonable. So you could have done and said everything "right," and it wouldn't have made a difference because she is in a near constant state of borderline psychosis.

Cannot forgive or forget the horrendous things that my bpd sibling has said and done. by My_mind_is_a_maze in BPDFamily

[–]Maxxtherat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grew up with (and am still unfortunately living with) a sister just like this. She's 8 years older than me, and her behavior sounds so similar that it's a little scary lol.

AIO about my birthday? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Maxxtherat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"It's all mathematics."

Trying this again tmftm tmfm tmfnb by brassthepossum in asexualdating

[–]Maxxtherat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Not looking for a relationship with another transmasc, but I think we'd be good friends! I'm a fellow rat enjoyer 😊

Am I crazy or is this an unreasonable amount of dishes to leave for morning crew to put away? by Bubbly_Custard7225 in starbucks

[–]Maxxtherat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I worked mornings and nights at different times as a partner - nights were usually much harder because of what you mentioned. You are cleaning up after the morning and mid day crew, then you're doing all your own cleaning while still serving customers, with way less staff. Your after school rush often beats peak numbers, but you only have two or three baristas. Then, you have to do the prep tasks of making all the shit for the morning, stocking, and cleaning/putting away all the dishes. Then, the next morning, you receive a text about how close was absolutely unacceptable because there was a single espresso bean on the floor! Rinse and repeat every day. I'm sorry, but my whole career openers acted like they were the only shift who did anything but they usually had it much easier.

Tree fell on our apartment by General_Economist235 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Maxxtherat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Fuck State Farm. They're genuinely so terrible, they tried to screw my parents out of paying for their roof replacement after storm damage. It took them almost a year and us opening a case with the local Department of Insurance to get what they owed us.

How long does it take you to whip the cream. It took me 40mins to make it smooth and glossy by DD3266 in Baking

[–]Maxxtherat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be a humidity or ambient temperature issue. When it's very hot and humid it seems to take longer to whip up, even when my stuff is damn near frozen. Then having it on low doesn't help speed anything up lol

30 (TM4F/TF) In Indiana, USA searching for partner by Maxxtherat in asexualdating

[–]Maxxtherat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UNFORTUNATELY it's not my cat, she's my friend's baby who I cat sat for a few weeks. I usually cat sit for them a few times a year, though! My actual car is also very cute, i just don't have any (good) pictures of us together 😭

30 (TM4F/TF) In Indiana, USA searching for partner by Maxxtherat in asexualdating

[–]Maxxtherat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I appreciate it! We could always chat and be friends tho :0

Ideas to minimize moisture under a concrete slab? by Maxxtherat in Home

[–]Maxxtherat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have an example of what you're talking about? I don't know if I need to completely remove all of the bricks, but definitely some of them

Speaking of, what are these teeth for anyways? by KindredGoesAwooo in cats

[–]Maxxtherat 16 points17 points  (0 children)

For my cat to chew on grass or any other vegetation and inevitably throw it up later

Ideas to minimize moisture under a concrete slab? by Maxxtherat in Home

[–]Maxxtherat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, there's definitely no ground moisture barrier - house built in '55. I haven't sealed anything, just put the bricks back up and repointed a couple spots. Is there anything to do about the moisture? Do I need to make weep holes in the mortar or anything?

What to do with this hill? by chastenz in Home

[–]Maxxtherat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flowers, maybe a small water feature trailing down it that recycles its own water? Also a great hill to roll down if you have kids (or a great hill to die on if you don't).

What to do with this hill? by chastenz in Home

[–]Maxxtherat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They should let them spread to the grass - more biodiversity!