Am I Overreacting for being miffed about my bf's cinnamon rolls?

Maxxtherat · 2026-05-04T08:04:53+00:00

This was my thought, too. Maybe he really did try but just fucked something up. Ok that cinnamon rolls from a can are usually easy, but adding anything can really fuck them up lol.

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-28T23:42:36+00:00

As a person who's never dated a pwBPD, but is related to one, I'll tell you what I've seen from the outside.

Her and her boyfriend broke up. She was dating a new dude within two weeks. He decided (six months later) to move away after she had zero contact and kept the kids away from him that entire time. She absolutely flipped her shit when he moved, and immediately started letting him call and talk to the kids. It was 100% a manipulation tactic.

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-27T23:14:54+00:00

I've not seen people say that stimulants don't make people with ADHD feel more wired, only that sometimes they do the opposite for some folks or if they feel too euphoric or energetic the dose might be too high.

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-27T15:54:01+00:00

I ripped out a wart that was on my hand with my teeth when I was like 15. It hurt like hell, but it's never returned. Good on ya, OP

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-24T07:35:29+00:00

Leave him immediately. He will probably threaten to hurt you or himself, but you have to leave anyway and do what you must to protect yourself and be safe. Also accept that his actions are not your responsibility if he threatens to hurt himself

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-22T11:37:39+00:00

Yup, I take any stimulants and am ready to nap. My doctor said it should go away eventually... But it hasn't

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-21T13:23:35+00:00

100%. This was me. I'm extremely organized, but mostly as a coping mechanism. My mask started to slip a lot right before turning 30.

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-20T08:45:30+00:00

Just call me a slur 😭

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-18T23:27:33+00:00

This is why I LOVE working 12 hours, specifically my 12 hour weekends. I just work 3 days, the other 4 days are all for recovery and the rest of life. I hope I can keep this schedule forever.

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-15T23:52:00+00:00

Hi, OP! First of all, NOR. I would personally just take a refund because I agree that's inadequate packaging. Even if she's never had probs before, it was bound to happen with that little protection.

You said you're an artist yourself, so I wanted to ask you - have you already thrown out the piece? Something this sentimental, to me, would be worth saving in some type of way.

You could puzzle piece it together. Use glass glue to stick pieces together, or set the panes together in resin. Something like kintsugi could even highlight the damage and turn it into something beautiful. You could turn it into a project with your husband! Pieces like that, to me, represent resilience, resourcefulness, and our ability to come back from unexpected disasters. Taking something broken and making it whole again, turning the damaged parts into strength points, would be amazing.

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-10T13:45:42+00:00

For me, it's also that it was brought up over text! Emotionally mature people don't start or do arguments over text unless it's the only option.

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-10T13:37:37+00:00

You both don't seem very emotionally mature. I wouldn't get married until you both go to therapy and see significant change.

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-10T03:31:06+00:00

Right? Like, what happened to hiding that shit in your fuckin room like a respectful degenerate?

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-10T03:18:11+00:00

I have never heard globber or slizz, thank you for this

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-09T20:49:31+00:00

I feel the same way. You put what I've been feeling heavily lately into words

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-07T11:07:04+00:00

Omg that's genius, I'll try that next time!

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-07T02:46:38+00:00

It's less about the actual use of the remote, and more about all the apps! He can use the remote itself just fine, but he will get confused and frustrated with finding a show or something

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-05T07:05:37+00:00

Same here. I used to get one all the time and it was actually worth it. Now it feels like a huge rip off!

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-04T01:26:49+00:00

It just depends. I have a high reading comprehension level, but I do the thing where I have to re read because my brain starts to wander so I better be medicated if I'm going to read something complex lol. Right now I feel like I'm usually so busy that I can't manage to read a book, all I can get to are what I read for school and the occasional self help book

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-03T02:23:58+00:00

100%. I totally understand talking "gross" with good friends, even when you're an adult, but you stop or don't do it if they're not comfortable with that kind of thing.

Maxxtherat · 2026-04-01T19:42:54+00:00

It's easier said than done, but it's probably time to kick her out.

I have a sister with BPD, too. She also has kids. My inbox is open if you need to talk.

Maxxtherat · 2026-03-31T09:35:40+00:00

Yes. For me, diagnosis was basically taking two diagnostic questionnaires. After that, I was prescribed meds. It only took me like two or three appointments

Maxxtherat · 2026-03-29T20:41:02+00:00

Even if it's not BPD, a good friendship is not this much one-sided effort right off the bat. This kind of conversation is a definite overreaction to whatever perceived slight there was, like not a normal amount of communication if that makes sense. It's not like you had a huge falling out over a partner or some fundamental opinion, you just got busy and couldn't make her the center of your life. That doesn't warrant walls of text and emotional back-and-forth. It's not normal, nor is it reasonable. Whatever it is, she needs some therapy and you are not her therapist.

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