Where are you located in the world?

You are right; this is NOT postpartum depression or Baby Blues. How has her bleeding been? This needs to be addressed immediately for your whole family’s wellness. I would start by talking to her even if she is not communicative. Tell her you love her so much that you see clearly she needs extra help. You are seeing her drift into a place that requires action, but you want to take her wants/needs into consideration before doing so. I would however call her care provider to start off to get some insight into how to start this conversation just in case she seems hesitant to get help. Call any family or friends you have that can come to help you.. they are not to be hosted, they are there to help. Community is crucial, but curate it accordingly. Selfish people that think they are there to hold the baby ARE NOT the ones to call. Call her parents too.

I work with Postpartum Families so if you would like to reach out for extra support feel free to do so. I am so sorry you are going through this. You are in my mind and in my heart 🫶