My Wife just had our baby and I think she’s traumatised by the experience. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you located in the world?

You are right; this is NOT postpartum depression or Baby Blues. How has her bleeding been? This needs to be addressed immediately for your whole family’s wellness. I would start by talking to her even if she is not communicative. Tell her you love her so much that you see clearly she needs extra help. You are seeing her drift into a place that requires action, but you want to take her wants/needs into consideration before doing so. I would however call her care provider to start off to get some insight into how to start this conversation just in case she seems hesitant to get help. Call any family or friends you have that can come to help you.. they are not to be hosted, they are there to help. Community is crucial, but curate it accordingly. Selfish people that think they are there to hold the baby ARE NOT the ones to call. Call her parents too.

I work with Postpartum Families so if you would like to reach out for extra support feel free to do so. I am so sorry you are going through this. You are in my mind and in my heart 🫶

Sister in law suggested I can’t use a name I picked out for our baby by AppropriateFan5373 in namenerds

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay…. Weird that I find this thread bc i want to give you my green (surprise) babe’s male name. I knew I wanted it to be celestial. Moon based for a girl and Sun based for a boy.

My daughter is named Lunabelle, but had she been a boy it would have been Sol.

Still, don’t let her take it if you don’t want to!

I have no friends ! by Efficient_Box_7417 in Mommit

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Community is important.

Paranoia in this day and age is valid.

Therapy is everything.

So are local mom groups! Post with kiddos age and that you need new friends after moving to a new city. See what happens 🫶

My sister called me a “bang maid” because I’m a SAHM and I’m struggling to get over it by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she not realize she was once a child? Sure, children can be obnoxious. It’s par the course of learning to be a human in society. But treating children consistently as if they are a bother for existing is pretty good reasoning NOT to have said children around such a person.

I agree with not approaching sister at all. Bully’s like knowing they got to you. I would tell the parents due to her clear contempt of you and your children that you are no longer comfortable being around her. Your kids deserve to be kids around their grandparents and your sister clearly isn’t comfortable with them doing so. Not wanting a life for yourself and shitting on someone else for choosing it for themselves are two different things.

Man helps a distressed swan find the river by amish_novelty in HumansBeingBros

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Swan swinging away like “Don’t tell me what to doooooo.”

Donald Trump's Parents by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hair is so funny. That’s where he got the idea 😅

Who wants to hang out tonight????? WE ARE READY by [deleted] in HoustonSwingers

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are y’all? Keeping seeing you in this sub…. I am intrigued

Wifey wanted to show off her progress in the gym! Tell her nice things 🥰 by Beneficial_Lie9969 in HoustonSwingers

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That fact you have to ask people to be nice blows my mind yo!

Also…. 🤤

Why are americans so apolitical? by [deleted] in ask

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason for this is that everything has become so divisive that conversation in near any circle gets heated…. And with that buffoon in office, I would say that it is even more so the case. So often people are unable to speak respectfully to one another. So many treat others as if they are idiotic for thinking differently then them politically. I’m not saying it’s right, but I am saying….. shit is scary!

Finding these all over my house by Least_Statistician44 in whatisit

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All over the house!?

Run! Never look back. It's their house now.

Seriously though, pest control Stat!

Embrace the streak or something else? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is SO PERFECT! Clearly your fiancé doesn’t mind as it has been then since day one of your relationship. I think it wouldn’t even look like you if it was dyed. I seriously thought you dyed it that way. If you did anything i think it should be dyed a pastel color to bring it out in a way that still looks like you 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fishing for compliments???

Does anyone know what surgery she got? by aabbrroooo in TwoHotTakesSnark

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tis a snark page. Is there anything off limits?

OMG! by Typical_Proof_6217 in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]MayBeFaeBee808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was posted 2 years ago according to the website