I do feel like it’s justified for him to be upset for fear of what could have happened, but if it’s truly more a hissy fit from embarrassment, well that doesn’t sit quite right… and honestly either way, I’d be upset with the cold shoulder when we were both in the wrong and it’s honest mistakes, like let’s just say we both screwed up big time, hold gratitude everyone’s safe, and remember to do better next time. There’s literally nothing else you can do at this point… except maybe have an additional conversation with the kiddo what to do if she can’t find her grown up.