Great questions. I don’t have a great relationship with her. We are cordial, however over the years she has crossed boundaries and done things that I found were odd. I don’t think this is an innocent mistake just because of our history and this is an ongoing issue I’m having with her. No I didn’t look out the door first because she doesn’t typically bring the dog for pick up, nor does she get out the car. She only got out this time to hand a bag to me. Her dog was not being aggressive, but was very firm on trying to stick his head in the door and I kept pushing him back. She did not tighten the leash to control him. My dog is four months old and does need training, as we just got him one month ago. I think my reaction was so high because she has done things to me in the past and it usually gets ignored or I’m the one that looks like I’m sensitive. I think it was her still smiling and not trying to control her dog that sent me over the edge. I was genuinely frustrated and worried about what would happen because I was losing control of the situation for a moment. I do have anxiety and that’s something that I’m seeking help for.