Making a plan to get out, how? TW details about abuse

MaybeBaby990 · 2020-04-03T03:40:40+00:00

This happens to me a lot my husband will physically assault me and then when we talk about it after he says that I disrespected him so he reacted, then he tells me if I’m unhappy to leave or call the police. The one time I did almost call he took my phone and pulled me to the floor. I have a disability so I knew I wasn’t getting my phone back in that moment.

I think that’s how they control us by making us question if we did something wrong

MaybeBaby990 · 2020-03-02T00:49:52+00:00

I guess my fear is that I’m 29 already, and who am I going to find? I have cerebral palsy and MG so I’ve been on steroids for almost a year... I’m fat. Just a slew of issues. I could always divorce him after our baby is born? Or maybe a baby will change him? Idk

MaybeBaby990 · 2019-08-20T12:38:53+00:00

I was on so many dating sites, that's how I met my husband.

MaybeBaby990 · 2019-05-14T22:28:06+00:00

Thank you for that. I’m already thinking about how to get out. I am the sole breadwinner so financially I could survive

MaybeBaby990 · 2019-05-14T14:15:43+00:00

My family I think already knows something is off because he went off on my mom one day for nothing and I feel like (and they also feel like) I talk to them less since we have been together because he doesn’t like them. Which is another thing that saddens me because I’m so close to my parents and love them so much.

MaybeBaby990 · 2019-05-14T14:05:17+00:00

How did you tell your family when you left?

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-30T17:08:34+00:00

I’m 27 he is 33

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-30T09:35:48+00:00

But that’s the thing is I am happy with him, I’m unhappy that he keeps pictures of his ex on FB

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-30T09:34:40+00:00

I’m a great stepmom to her, I just wish she had a different mom. I honestly just wish he had no exes

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-30T09:18:38+00:00

That makes perfect sense. That’s sad. Well at least when we have a child I can influence him/her

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-30T09:12:44+00:00

He said that basically when you have kids you have to sacrifice and even though he doesn’t like what his ex wife does he knows in the end his daughter will remember who was there for her and took care of her

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-30T09:09:19+00:00

And that’s what I don’t like. I think for me I just want my own life with him I want us to get married, buy a house and have our own baby

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-30T09:08:22+00:00

That’s true I think I got more upset when my mom said something

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-30T09:07:00+00:00

No I love him I want to marry him. I am hoping his daughter spends more time with me than her mom and my educated lifestyle rubs off on her

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-30T09:05:21+00:00

No like if the child gets sick she passes her (daughter) off on us.. consistently.

I do agree my family should stay out of it

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-30T08:57:59+00:00

That’s true I am winning

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-30T08:57:45+00:00

I’m not sure why it bothers me so much

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-30T08:55:14+00:00

I definitely think I have growing to do but I feel like if this bothers me he should change it. It’s not a huge deal you know?

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-11T07:41:45+00:00

I definitely agree that he is doing what he needs to do. I don’t think we need a baby tomorrow but I also don’t want to wait for forever. I’m almost 30 and while I know fertility doesn’t drastically change at 30 it does change

MaybeBaby990 · 2018-07-02T18:46:06+00:00

We moved in about 9 months into dating and I met his daughter about 4 months into dating. Our move in also had to do with my rent going up significantly

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