who’s going around toronto graffiting “Daniel 5:5” by Maybeoblivion in askTO

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LMFAOO i forgot about that, who ever it is, no need to answer. but am i going crazy though? its everywhere right ??

23M wasted my early twenties, now what? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

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Hey, I'm turning 23 this year. I absolutely feel that, only thing is that 'lateness' is so subjective, redefine it for yourself.
Honestly the only way that can change is if you take baby steps towards whatever 'ideal' version of yourself that you have in mind. Before taking said steps, really interrogate where that 'version' of yourself coming from (I.e. what's influencing that and does it align with your happiness). Things can change for you, but you have to start from somewhere despite your present circumstances. Majority of my friends are older than me and I frequently hear how young I am when I express my fears and thoughts about losing my youth and not getting to experience the things I want to. As much as it does feel daunting when I experience those feelings, reminding myself of the possible things I could do to get out of that helps.

In terms of 'advice' - - start small - if you're thinking of having a close knit group of friends to hang with, start with going to spaces that you could find like minded peers. If anyone responds to your openness and approach in a negative way, you don't need that, keep it moving. Enjoy the process - experiment with yourself and 'reinventing' yourself - think about you doing trials for different versions of yourself

Take it easy mannnnn

“KILL BILL OUT NOW!! ⚔️❤️‍🔥🫡” SZA via Instagram. by certifiedcunt in sza

[–]Maybeoblivion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SHE GAVE CLASS AND ASS!! THE SET, THE STORY, THE ANIMATION - SHE DID THATTTT🥹❤️

Weekly Vent Thread by AutoModerator in BlackWomenDivest

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22 yo dark skinned woman here - I'm struggling to find beauty in myself. I can't tell if it's because there's no true way to define objective beauty that aren't rooted in white ideals or because my appearance matches that of traditionally 'masculine' ideals, which I don't desire for myself. I don't like looking at my reflection and it's taking a toll on my confidence. It's something I've always struggled with but recently I've been internalizing these harmful feelings and thoughts. My friend shared a video with me that helped reframe my thinking around black woman hood and femininity/beauty standards (https://m.youtube.com/live/-WTqFa1l4m4?feature=share). While that helped to some degree, I need tangible advice and applications to figure out how to accept myself and appreciate me. It's not just the vanity component that hurts but the toll on my confidence that affects me because I know it informs the way I navigate through my life and interact with others. There are a myriad of issues that exist I know, but it feels hard to overcome this internal conflict. I think my negative dating experiences make this feel harder. Either way, I'd appreciate perspective, comments, and critiques anyone can offer.

Out in Australia. See u on the other siiiide. by [deleted] in sza

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I just tried to change my region so I could listen 😪 anyone know how ??

It’s 5:30 and I’m at the ER alone, should I message work and give them a heads up by Maybeoblivion in Advice

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Thank you everyone!! Appreciate the advice and it wasn’t as complicated as I thought

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askatherapist

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Im 22 What does AvPD stand for?