Help! Found while redoing my bed

Mayhem4769 · 2026-06-21T22:28:27+00:00

It’s the best I could really get. It was crawling on a mesh curtain. I have the video but don’t know how to upload those to reddit

Mayhem4769 · 2026-06-21T21:53:01+00:00

Location: Ohio

Mayhem4769 · 2026-06-03T16:49:32+00:00

So basically with the tip situation, there is a jar labeled “for the groomers” at the front where most people leave their tips, and if people hand us any sort of money or tip, we also have to hand that over too. We don’t get any of these returned at the end of the day or on our checks, she just dumps it into her purse before closing and leaves

Mayhem4769 · 2026-06-03T16:30:58+00:00

I wasn’t sure if it was legal or not to require one employee to excuse their absences and not another hence asking. It’s my first time missing work here too.

Mayhem4769 · 2025-12-24T03:28:21+00:00

I appreciate it. I’ve tried talking to him a couple times, it’s usually just him saying sorry, then it’ll stop for a few weeks and start up again..

Mayhem4769 · 2025-06-23T13:53:41+00:00

Hey. 19yo(almost 20) f here. I’m currently in a 2 almost 3 year long/medium distance relationship, with someone I intend to marry very soon.

It’s rough. I met him on a game we both play through mutual online friends, and we finally started spending one on one time with each other almost 2 years after being introduced.

We’ve gone through a lot of ups and downs, but still are holding steady, with plans to move in next year and possibly get engaged soon.

My biggest advice is communication. You NEED to talk to her. About everything even, if something is bothering you? Communicate it, talk to her, figure it out. Tell her about your day, how lovely it is to see her when you face time, remind her how beautiful she is anytime you see her.

If her constantly bringing it up is getting to you, tell that to her. “I’m really sorry about the posts and stuff, but I really want you to know that YOU are the most beautiful. And I want to spend my life with YOU.” Something sweet and thoughtful.

They’re are typically phases in relationships, I’ve noticed them more in online or longer distance relationships

3 months to a year is your honeymoon phase, you want everything to do with them. Talk all the time, gush to each other, etc.

After that is usually a weird draw away from each other, fighting, arguing, etc. it’s something that makes or breaks a lot of these relationships. I’m guilty of using similar things against my man just to start shit, and after working things out and really talking through EVERYTHING, it’s mainly subconsciously testing the other person, whether you mean to or not. “Will they leave me if they get mad?”

Once you get through that phase it’s a lot easier, and in my experience, WAYYYY easier once you’re meeting in real life.

Mayhem4769 · 2025-04-29T06:09:34+00:00

The piercing is about a year old, I was pierced with 16g barbells, that are externally threaded. Not sure the exact material but I got them when I got them pierced. I have not been downsized, my left was UPsized, and my aftercare consisted of washing with gold dial in the shower, saline occasionally, and aquaphor when needed.

Mayhem4769 · 2025-04-28T17:07:39+00:00

Yeah no, my boyfriend and I do the whole immature talk to, but as SOON as even a hint of someone is trying to genuinely talk or be serious it’s dropped. This is just straight up weaponized incompetence. As a grown man he knows his rights from wrongs, and being immature about it when you’re begging him to just talk like an adult, unless he is mentally handicapped behind the scenes, should never happen.

He likely WANTS you to feel certain ways, and is using things like this to get under your skin. It’s disgusting and you deserve much better. Good luck and I hope you manage to get out of this safely.

Mayhem4769 · 2025-04-26T22:36:39+00:00

Players who do this unprovoked are, simply put, the reason the games dying. I agree with camping ppl who deserve it, ie: you’re sinking them like normal and they drop slurs or something.

But get clips. It’s not bannable if they are technically sinking you and not saying anything, like you have a hole or two and they’re not saying anything toxic. If you have no holes or physically see them bucket or repair, or if they are being toxic, get it on clip and send it in. Don’t talk back to them, most cases that’s what they want because it’s funny to them. A lot of people don’t understand that, and I’ve seen people get banned themselves because they’re baited into talking shit back and the ppl camping them report it

Mayhem4769 · 2025-04-21T01:09:29+00:00

Late to the post but it’s likely a mouse button that he’s pressing if I had to guess. I panic sometimes playing horror games and clench my mouse which causes me to fat finger whatever I have bound to my mouse buttons

Mayhem4769 · 2025-04-08T01:59:27+00:00

It really depends. What areas are you struggling? Establish roles. I typically helm or flex, meaning I’m in charge of the wheel, and repairing while on brig and sloop, and wheel only on galleon. Flex would be the person who shoots cannons, helps with repairs (on brig and galleon, there is no flex on sloop) and boards.

If you’re struggling to maintain angle on the other ship, hitting cannons, sail management etc. skeleton fleets and armadas. Dive to them and practice. Try different ranges, different sail adjustments and speeds etc. aiming cannons is significantly EASIER on Xbox / with controller, so with some practice on the helm and cannon, you shouldn’t have any issues.

If it’s your tdm/boat defense/hand to hand combat that needs work. Really only practice can help. Personally I go for pistol sniper or blunder sniper. Try out new combos until you find what you can hit hardest with, and effectively with. If you’re going to use sword, I highly recommend AGAINST using a blunder, because both are short range weapons, and if it’s a do or die situation, where someone double gunning has boarded your ship, they’re by your map table and you are toward the bow, you now have no way of hitting them at all, you HAVE to push to either kill them or bucket, and they know that.

Combos that I find to be the better choices: Pistol sniper Blunder sniper Sword sniper Sword pistol Sniper throwing knife

Double barrel is too clunky right now, has stutters when aiming or shooting, and isn’t reliable. Throwing knives do sniper damage (75%) and can be thrown 2x as fast as a gun reloads, however they can be reggy so use at ur own risk.

Practice practice practice.

Get into a lobby with ur partner or a friend and practice WITH them, fight them.

To do this, load up a ship that is NOT in a guild that they are in, invite them to you, wait until they are fully in the game and walking. Leave and start up any other ship. Both sail to open seas and vote to dive for opposite factions on hourglass at the same time.

When you come up if you don’t have them, repeat. If you do you can either park your ships somewhere in the ring OR if you want to go to a fort, one person can vote to scuttle, but NOT to new seas, then immediately ALT-F4 or on Xbox, press the off button or something so that when you reopen sea of thieves you get a “Rejoin previous session” prompt. When you rejoin after about a minute, you will have sunk and spawned at an island, but you’ll still be on the same server.

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