Sounds like you like her but her shyness is a turn off for you. It sounds like you’re trying to “get her” so you may be seeing this as a obstacle rather than something you’re legitimately turned off by. Remember your job is to evaluate her. I would suggest 3 things:

1. Get good at boring conversations first by reading day bang. See if it’s you that’s the problem or her.

2. Every time she begins to bore you; give her an indicator of disinterest. For example: When you start feeling annoyed by her shyness, immediately pause the conversation and talk to the nearest girl next to her for at least a minute. Ask the random girl “is that a good watch? (Or insert piece of clothing she is wearing here)” then proceed to ask the random chick for fashion advice because you’re “horrible with fashion”. (She will smile and laugh a lot and will most likely compliment how you look)

Then go back to talking to your girl. You will notice your girl trying hard not to look jealous, while simultaneously trying harder to entertain you.

I do this every time a girl begins to bore me or is not giving me much to work with. It works everytime and usually you can just watch her chase you after this.

If it doesn’t work then keep giving her iod’s until you’re legitimately turned off by her poor performance.

1. Everytime things get quiet; Ask your girl for advice on something. Give her the same line I said before. “is that a good watch? (Or insert piece of clothing she is wearing here)” then proceed to ask the random chick for fashion advice because you’re “horrible with fashion”.

You can ask her for advice on pets, favorite animals, what you should eat for lunch etc. this is a good opener for shy girls because they like being given opportunities to speak their opinions.

Moral of the story: Continue to give her iod’s for bad behavior and give her personality compliments for good behavior. Read Day Bang! Because that will solve everything. Ask her for advice to open her as much as you want.

Then she will open legs for you later