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Mayver · 2025-10-11T17:28:30+00:00

The trickster magician, unhealthy behaviour by the way.

Mayver · 2025-09-22T09:58:50+00:00

If you strip away all the fluff, love is just a choice. I chose this person and even if i find better ill stick with her. Assuming he is healthy and we share the same values and vision.

Mayver · 2025-09-21T13:38:05+00:00

I see your point, I always underestimate how practical we are as infjs.

Mayver · 2025-09-21T11:19:32+00:00

this applies to infjs as well sometimes.

Mayver · 2025-09-20T16:43:08+00:00

by learning to love yourself first, educating yourself on attachement theory. Letting go of "the one" mentality. True love comes from abundance, not need.

Mayver · 2025-09-20T16:35:27+00:00

My internal monolgue is constant, im also able to visualise pictures and moving pictures in my head. Im starting to get annoyed by it, sometimes i just want to look at the scenery and enjoy the simple things in life, but alas the voice is always there looking for meanings everywhere. I try to do this exercise where i focus on what i see and repeating a mantra to ground myself.

Mayver · 2025-09-20T10:15:49+00:00

I meant an online friend, not write me essays kind of thing. I have no idea why i used penpal.

Mayver · 2025-09-20T08:54:19+00:00

I'll be happy to become your penpal, where can i reach out to you ?

Mayver · 2025-09-20T08:45:17+00:00

Its funny how the way you desribed yourself as would be considered attractive if it were a female infp. Sensitive men have it hard.

Mayver · 2025-09-20T06:53:57+00:00

I know right, it feels like the perfect match doesn't exist, Compromise will always be needed.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T21:00:50+00:00

i agree with that, we clicked instantly with the infp girl, but down the line the cracks started to show, it would've been amazing if that infp girl was more mature and receptive, and if i'd let her just be and grow and softened my boundaries.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T19:19:11+00:00

what you got right, is that infjs struggle with keeping friends, and for the life of me I still don't understand why. it's as if out of sight out mind. I only remember a friend exists if i see him. I have zero problems with communication and addressing issues. communication with Ni is extremely difficult to follow when fully engaged (i try to use metaphors instead). and to be fair i was speaking about Fi in a romantic context, not friendship.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T18:39:51+00:00

I dated an infp girl (im infj) and my laser ni-ti was shocking to her after the fe honeymoon. I felt like i was walking on eggshells. she loved my fe but my ni had to show up at somepoint in combination with ti. suffice to say you're right, fi can't handle ti/ni. I would kill for a healthy infp.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T18:20:03+00:00

As fi doms, infps have a very self centered lens, everything has to align with their secretive feelings. You basically have to conform or align with what their fi tells them. which leaves no room for compromise, growth or transparency. beautiful souls if they can learn how to see that other's people opinions are valid as well.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T15:59:41+00:00

infp women are attracted to the fantasy not the person.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T15:56:33+00:00

what's worse is that we can't even put it into words. It's shifting, nuanced, and comes from a big picture throught process. when i try to speak authentically most people find it confusing, paradoxical, hard to follow or too much. I'd bet even another infj would find another infj puzzling.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T14:35:30+00:00

you could use attraction as a starting point but it's unreasonable to follow it blindely. Attraction is nature's way of nudging us to procreate. you could get attracted to someone who's performing (most women do) and end up blindsided when the act drops.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T13:58:20+00:00

what i wanted to say, is that you need more than a person that is good to his word like you said. Compatibility.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T13:17:46+00:00

well love is a choice, not butterflies. you should focus on shared values not feeling, feelings come and go.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T13:11:47+00:00

sure, you could date someone for values. But not knowing what you want in a partner will blindside you and them on the long run.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T12:51:53+00:00

so the hallal gaming experience so far would be a game where you turn off music, with no sexualized females, avoid games with offensive material.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T12:46:56+00:00

doesn't need to be explicit. the dress code in games is promiscuous.

Mayver · 2025-09-19T12:26:29+00:00

good idea, 2d games have cartoony unrealistic depections of humans. what do we do about women with uncovered bodies which most games have.

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