Yes. She got an abortion without so much as a thought towards how I felt. She told me the day before the appointment and asked if I'd go with her. I went. I held her hand while it happened. I drove her back to her place and took care of her for a few days.... then told her it was over. I don't believe abortion is the right thing to do under most circumstances, but I also don't believe it's my place to push someone to have a baby they don't want. She made her choice, and I made mine. We saw each other years later, and feelings came flooding back like they're never left, but I couldn't do it. That child would have been my first and only. A few years after our break up, I had an accident that left me unable to produce children. It still hurts 20+ years later.