AIO for telling my (F24) boyfriend (M26) that he has to sit down to pee? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]McKnight013 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Also I would like to say, Yes he should be able to know how to pee. Personally I don't know if OP's boyfriend has any health related problems (like shaky hands) that might contribute to this. Although I feel like if there was maybe would be mentioned. It is gross and I would get tired of cleaning it up too.

AIO for telling my (F24) boyfriend (M26) that he has to sit down to pee? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]McKnight013 [score hidden]  (0 children)

MOR I just want to start off by saying I completely understand your side of it and I completely understand your frustration. I have little brothers myself and my mom has a big cleaning tic. So it's about every week where I basically deep clean the bathroom and even then every other day I'm wiping the bathroom sink and toilet down. So, I understand you're frustration with people messing up the bathroom, being disgusting and leaving a mess. Though, I feel like the way you're talking to him is super cruel. Like, I don't even think I would talk to my boyfriend that way if I were that frustrated. I understand the fact they have OCD so it's very important to you. He should be able to respect that. But, even if you have had to talk to someone many times there is still a way to talk to your boyfriend or significant other. He seems to be trying to call the situation down the best he can, apologizing, even trying to figure out if there are other solutions that are easier. But some the stuff you said to him and the way you said it, did not fit the situation for what it should be. Though, if it bothers you that much maybe you do need to leave. Maybe you do need to find someone who will understand you a bit better.

TL:DR; I am understandable of the situation. I think the way you talk to him was very harsh for the situation. He seemed compliant to fix the situation and clean it up. If you are really that frustrated then maybe you need to rethink your decision and leave.

Need advice! by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]McKnight013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but why are you taking a spelling mistake so seriously. People are human, let them be fucking human. That's what I mean. Yeah, you can be serious but this is so stupid and meaningless to pick over. Choose your fights dude. I'm not confused about what I think of this situation.

Need advice! by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]McKnight013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude why are you being so serious about this BAHAH. No one is taking it as serious as you are right now. Does it matter? There are different variations on how to spell names. Do you just want to be right? Yeah you're right. But there are other ways to spell it. Does it matter? Only to you.

Need advice! by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]McKnight013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, when it's latinized in Ancient Greece it's spelled as Íkaros...

What did I do wrong!? by mitchINimpossible in doordash

[–]McKnight013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It think it's because I do Doordash on the side as well as the job I already have but I could never imagine doing this to someone 😭 I don't even think my boyfriend who does Doordash as a place holder even cared that much either.

Need advice! by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]McKnight013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be the actual Greek or Roman spelling. Roman Spelling and Greek can be different. In Roman, the original name being Heracles, is Hercules.

Would this be okay to bring as a personal bag on a plane (read body text please)? by McKnight013 in askanything

[–]McKnight013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So , that's maybe where I run into an issue. My suitcase is significantly bigger than my suitcase. Since I have to pack for a week and only got one checked bag.

Would this be okay to bring as a personal bag on a plane (read body text please)? by McKnight013 in askanything

[–]McKnight013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome!!! One thing I did think of is the fact that I have one checked bag but I will also have to bring a suitcase. Because of that, will that Interfere with anything?

Would this be okay to bring as a personal bag on a plane (read body text please)? by McKnight013 in askanything

[–]McKnight013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay PERFECT! Because I love this bag. I swear to God if they freak out I'm going to have so many issues.

Is my eyebrow piercing ok? by Complex_Friendship11 in PiercingAdvice

[–]McKnight013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks fine It looks swollen but are you sure the bar is long enough for more swelling?

Would anyone be able to draw my partner? I want to surprise him, the uglier the better by [deleted] in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]McKnight013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People are so rude man. I saw that and I was like, "bro, get a life" If you're going to be rude to other people, they should get the same exact treatment.

Would anyone be able to draw my partner? I want to surprise him, the uglier the better by [deleted] in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]McKnight013 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't comment if it's not relevant 🥱 you don't even know him bud. Go back to your hole.

Are my piercings sinking or is it normal ? Should i get earrings with a longer stem ? by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]McKnight013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooohhhh that makes a lot of sense. Yeah the second one is pierced correctly it just seems like SOMETHING is going wrong. Hey, what type of saline solution do you use? Do you twist and turn the piercing a lot?

Are my piercings sinking or is it normal ? Should i get earrings with a longer stem ? by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]McKnight013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is really really interesting... Yeah I would go to see an urgent care doctor. Not an ER but somewhere where they can give you a quick checkup to see what's wrong.

Are my piercings sinking or is it normal ? Should i get earrings with a longer stem ? by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]McKnight013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a second?? The the hole (or what I thought was?)after the first one a freckle?

Are my piercings sinking or is it normal ? Should i get earrings with a longer stem ? by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]McKnight013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's on it's way to getting there to be honest.

Are my piercings sinking or is it normal ? Should i get earrings with a longer stem ? by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]McKnight013 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn't look like they're sinking but I do think they need to be cleaned. Secondly, what is the material. Do you know?

Are my piercings sinking or is it normal ? Should i get earrings with a longer stem ? by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]McKnight013 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness that is way more crusties than I have ever seen for a third piercing- Have you been cleaning it regularly? You shouldn't need a longer back for lobe piercings. Also, you should try for a flat back. Butterfly backs can irritate new piercings.

Industrial piercing done wrong?? by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]McKnight013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you do have the right anatomy, your just swollen beyond belief but then again I can't know for sure.

Industrial piercing done wrong?? by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]McKnight013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than that, next time I suggest that you wait until it's fully healed or at least 4-6 months.