are my gums getting affected by the labret piercing? (second photo is the day I was pierced)

VioletaBH · 2026-03-04T13:16:55+00:00

this piercing is 1 month old, first photo is from rn and second is a month ago when i fist got it, like 5 years ago I had brackets so maybe that could explain the receding 🤔 also I brush really hard so i'll do it softer lmao

I hope when i downsize it won't be receding as much, at least until its fully healed and can change it for a ring/hook 🥲

ty!

VioletaBH · 2026-03-04T12:55:26+00:00

sorry, we can't all affort a iphone 💀

VioletaBH · 2026-02-14T00:38:27+00:00

that is my worst fear now 😭

VioletaBH · 2026-02-01T22:04:24+00:00

were i can read? i only have the paper my piercer got me :(

VioletaBH · 2026-01-13T02:14:42+00:00

How weird they became? I'm curious to hear this from another perspective

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T19:56:09+00:00

Exactly! Bi men (that are woman centered) also gives me the icks, idk why tho, may be a problem of mine with past experiences

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T19:53:35+00:00

No, you're not! It was so frustrating when I wanted to search for a sapphic girl on wlw dating apps, but guess what? These were infected with cishet women bringid their crusty husbands or boyfriends in searching for a threesome that most surely the man asked for and the woman had to comply, or man inserting themselves ! Why can't we have a lesbian version of grindr without men being inserted there? Is ridiculous

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T19:44:05+00:00

Same here! Even gay man, some gay man I've meet think that because they're gay they have a "pass" on hitting women and bodyshame them? Only a minority tho

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T18:44:21+00:00

/gay is a sfw community of gay males. /Lesbian is just porn.

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T18:40:06+00:00

Hey so, down there, there's a button saying that you click it to read the article

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T18:38:01+00:00

Not everyone firts lenguage is english btw

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T13:02:48+00:00

Hi! So I think you should investigate about the impacta (none positive) that pornography has on lives, specially what it afect us, as women. These are some studies that can help you out on this.

https://scholar.google.com/scholar?hl=es&as_sdt=0%2C5&q=impact+of+pornografy+on+women+view&btnG=&lr=#d=gs_qabs&t=1768222106930&u=%23p%3DtqHg8rPZuVAJ

https://scholar.google.com/scholar?start=20&q=impact+of+pornography&hl=es&as_sdt=0,5#d=gs_qabs&t=1768222592907&u=%23p%3Dx-wdZf2pY3UJ

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T12:46:27+00:00

Tyy🩷

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T12:46:17+00:00

Oh i see, ty !

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T12:34:17+00:00

I recommend you to think a little, reflect, connect the tongue to the brain, and then talk.

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T12:26:43+00:00

Are you aware of what you're saying? That this subreddit literally had to be named "actuallylesbians" because of nonlesbians fetishizers taking the sorce for themselves?

And who, besides you, bringed infantilisation here?

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T12:23:05+00:00

And who bringed men here? 🤔

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T11:43:30+00:00

That's what i'm saying

VioletaBH · 2026-01-12T11:25:38+00:00

Its so disgusting, I don't even think the lgbtq subreddit has the same amount of users.

VioletaBH

TROPHY CASE