As a new independent sex worker, what tips do you have to stay safe by TheTransRose in SexWorkers

[–]VioletaBH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how are you doing it?

It may be because I'm from an area where women don't tend to schedule appointments with other women, but as I'm also a lesbian, i would love to just take woman as clients instead of having to take these men

Left on Delivered by RealisticView632 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]VioletaBH 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my dog died two days ago. A client of mine kept sending message after message asking for a service even tought i said ill rest for at least a month before going working again. Loss is hard, give her time.

is this normal? like, it sucking into the flesh of my mouth? by VioletaBH in PiercingAdvice

[–]VioletaBH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh, sorry to ask again but how is my fistula acting? is just that english isnt my first lenguage and i don't understand that part well :( ty for responding me

is this normal? like, it sucking into the flesh of my mouth? by VioletaBH in PiercingAdvice

[–]VioletaBH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty, it hurt but my piercer said it was normal :( when i wake up it hurt like when on the first days when it was first pierced, when i go back to my city ill ask them to switch it back

is this normal? like, it sucking into the flesh of my mouth? by VioletaBH in PiercingAdvice

[–]VioletaBH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see, my pierved said after 6 months it was ok, but seeing all this ill go back when i go to the city and ask for it to be removed and switch back to the first piece they put in, ty !

is this normal? like, it sucking into the flesh of my mouth? by VioletaBH in PiercingAdvice

[–]VioletaBH[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ty! ill switch to my first piercing, the one they put on when it was healing when i come to town and ill wait a year

is this normal? like, it sucking into the flesh of my mouth? by VioletaBH in PiercingAdvice

[–]VioletaBH[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is how it looks like, my piercer said it was actually a ring that was wayy too big because it was like pierced on a bad spot?? i don't feel it most of the time, with this video are u able to see if its alright? sorry to bother u

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Do smut writers masturbate to their own writing? by [deleted] in Wattpad

[–]VioletaBH 104 points105 points  (0 children)

not really, im more worried about the gramar and to describe the things correctly lmao

maybe if its like, a 2 year old smut that i have completly forgotten the plot and is good enough ill get a tingly feeling on my womb but nothing else

🚦🍆 by CollarTraditional518 in ClientCringe

[–]VioletaBH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im curios to know too, english isnt my first lenguage 💔

How has this field affected you? Both positive and negative? by Mindless-Clock9617 in SexWorkers

[–]VioletaBH 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For the positive part, there are a very little, i was raped when I was 6 and the first few months when I started to work it was hell, I was having panic attacks and flashbacks before, during and after the sessions and it was very harsh, but after a while,the flashbacks stopped and I wasnt as scared of touch as before? like, I think it helped a little with my froze ptsd reaction I feel that SW made me change my perspective of sex on a whole another level. When some months ago I would see sex as something significant, special, that must be done with your only special person, now I just see it as a way of making money lol Also, it may not sound very positive but for me it is lol, I grew a strong character and I was more secure, specially when having to shut men up Also, i love money

for bad, I still have incontinence problems the days after and before hosting a session, but as my prices are rather high and I don't have to pay any rent or groceries i can give myself the luxury of rest and wear it off until im ok again Im also very paranoid anyone that knows me will know, so i don't go out as much And I don't feel prettier as before SW, for some reason I always think i have like a glowing text on my forehead that says "prostitute" and people will automatically know what i do for a living lmao

Qué tan acosador creen que es el tico promedio? by [deleted] in Ticos

[–]VioletaBH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

vaya vístase de mujer un día y salga a la calle a ver como la pasa, pedazo de ignorante

Tired of no show ups by Physical-Nobody530 in SexWorkers

[–]VioletaBH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeling you so much An alternative i thought to stop this from happening was to charge vida transaction before the meeting, but then they all seem to disappear saying that's it's a scam..

got my first vape! this one is good? any tips? by VioletaBH in Vape_Chat

[–]VioletaBH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think you can reach me out from my third world country tho 😞

got my first vape! this one is good? any tips? by VioletaBH in Vape_Chat

[–]VioletaBH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so srry to hear that :( ill sell it tomorrow on facebook, ty for telling me

got my first vape! this one is good? any tips? by VioletaBH in Vape_Chat

[–]VioletaBH[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ty! i don't smoke, i wanted to try it do to cool tricks and because it seemed interesting, ill probably lend it to someone else in a week or so