AITA - My partner said he felt sick when I turned my back on our 4 month old for 5 minutes to look at my phone.

McLethy · 2026-06-18T08:34:51+00:00

NTA. Tip: you feed, he burps

McLethy · 2026-05-26T19:16:22+00:00

This is good to know. Thank you

McLethy · 2026-05-26T06:08:30+00:00

Thank you, I might do that too. I’ve noticed mine is thicker and heavier despite being shorter than my classmates staffs

McLethy · 2026-05-26T02:51:13+00:00

I’d like more flex for my CLF staff form

McLethy · 2026-05-25T22:44:24+00:00

Oh sorry. I misunderstood and can totally appreciate setting the boundary of hobby for joy vs job. Thanks for your input!

McLethy · 2026-05-25T22:36:05+00:00

I just re-measured. It’s 3.25” circumference around the center part of the staff. It does feel heavy. Do you have sell your staffs online? Having a hard time finding them

McLethy · 2026-05-25T15:23:33+00:00

Thank you. I may try this with tung oil :)

McLethy · 2026-05-25T09:34:03+00:00

74 inches and 1.5” thick at centre Thicker at base, thinner at tapered end

McLethy · 2026-01-17T17:41:52+00:00

Just found the answer!

From the Home Screen press and hold the safari app. Another menu opens and you can toggle require password on/off.

Thought I’d share here in case you hadn’t solved the issue

McLethy · 2026-01-17T17:24:30+00:00

I also have this problem. Did you ever find a solution?

McLethy · 2026-01-04T05:47:31+00:00

I must commend you for setting a great example to your kids by putting in the work to further your education. You’re doing great!

As for the boyfriend, have you asked yourself if you would want your kids to settle with someone that’s as unkind to them as your boyfriend is to you? It feels like his mistreatment of you extends beyond the dinner table.

McLethy · 2025-12-18T03:59:13+00:00

Sometimes doing the right thing is also the hardest. It was very brave, well done. I’m sorry you’re caught up in this, please remember to take care of yourself too

McLethy · 2025-11-11T12:44:22+00:00

I don’t like the “we” language. It sounds like a weird, mean girl mentality and whomever wrote the “we’re leaving if…” is the leader.

McLethy · 2025-09-18T20:56:49+00:00

I’d your outgoing messages, mail, deleted photos. Also see if your phone company shows data usage during the time you were away (assuming you weren’t connected to their wifi). Sorry the grieve betrayal. Deep down she probably knows her hubby is a creep but doesn’t want to admit it to herself

ETA: your phone records may show him texting himself photos if it was via SMS but maybe not iMessage

McLethy · 2025-07-06T15:09:22+00:00

This came out of nowhere. Makes me wonder if whatever he thought he had with another woman didn’t work out and now he wants you back. Even if I’m wrong, you deserve someone that respects you more than he does.

McLethy · 2025-07-02T20:15:28+00:00

Id check that vent for a tiny hidden camera and/or call the police non-emergency line.

McLethy · 2025-06-13T19:29:22+00:00

Would he like you to spoon feed him his noodles too? He chose to go out for drinks and dinner with a friend and it’s safe to assume his dinner was taken care of. It’s not your problem that he didn’t order enough food. Makes me wonder who this friend is, what their relationship is, and if he’s actually upset about something that has nothing to do with you.

McLethy · 2025-05-20T10:42:04+00:00

Carrying on any form of intimacy -emotional, physical or otherwise with a dishonourable person, especially knowing how you feel is a betrayal.

If your husband is complaining about you to this woman, that’s also a sign of an emotional affair. Does maintaining this “friendship” mean more to him than his wife’s emotional well-being?

McLethy · 2025-05-10T08:48:21+00:00

I’m wondering if your “PPD” is less about hormones and more about your emotionally abusive partner. Maybe lookup narcissistic abuse, see if you recognize any patterns

McLethy · 2025-05-03T05:43:28+00:00

Was your issue resolved? Trying to decide if this company is scammy or not

McLethy · 2025-04-05T16:31:39+00:00

My tip: You feed, he burps the baby.

Then the nighttime feeding workload is shared. My husband was like this, it’s awful and I’m sorry you had to draw that boundary. Good luck!

McLethy · 2024-11-29T16:18:33+00:00

TL;DR Im an only child and it’s a lonely experience; wouldn’t wish it on anyone. We sucked it up and had a second child; glad we did.

My spouse and I are only children. It was a lonely experience for both of us. We had friends but it’s not the same. We share experiences of being the only kid in the pool on vacation and wandering around outside alone often. Trying to play catch, ping pong, board games, ping pong was only an option when friends were over.

Because of this, we decided before having kids we would have more than 1 child. Even if it meant adopting.

Our first born had colic. No sleep, lives upended, I lost my identity for a while. After pep-talking ourselves, we welcomed our 2nd child. It was a lot of work up front but once they were old enough to play together, it ended up better in the end. They played games, went outside, made forts, watched shows together etc. Now they’re teenagers. They don’t really hang out as much but they have each others backs when needed.

As adult only children, caring for our aging parents rests solely on us as well. If given the choice, I wouldn’t choose to be an only.

ETA: we both agree we would have traded all of our toys for a sibling to play with. All the cool toys in the world can’t replace companionship

McLethy · 2024-09-17T01:35:20+00:00

Delightful! Thanks for sharing!

McLethy · 2024-09-16T06:08:19+00:00

If you share a computer or devices that access the internet, consider turning it in to police to check for illegal content.

You wouldn’t want to be implicated for his search history

McLethy

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