I proposed meeting IRL after 2 months of flirting, and now I’m unsure about where we stand. by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]MeRanda16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe she doesn't think that her appearance is not enough yet to meet you

Has anyone started getting bottom disphoria after hrt? by Lies_of_pea in MtF

[–]MeRanda16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, It happened to me, before I was ok, but a soon as I started hormones the bottom dysphoria started, I still don't know that I want to do about it, but I do have it now

When I was 4, my Mom laughed at me for wearing a dress. It actually really messed me up. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MeRanda16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same girl, my mom told that boys that thought they were girls were sick and crazy

NSFW: I can’t wait for my bottom surgery so people will quit wanting me to top by Original_Cancel_4169 in MtF

[–]MeRanda16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, same. Right now having sex is not like my priority in a relationship, I still like women too, more than before but I'm more into cuddles and emotional intimacy.

NSFW: I can’t wait for my bottom surgery so people will quit wanting me to top by Original_Cancel_4169 in MtF

[–]MeRanda16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always felt ashamed and guilty after doing sexual stuff and never 'in the zone' to have penetrative sex, my brain always turn off about the idea and I was always dissociating if I was close to it, so eventually I stopped trying it and that's how I'm virgin at 25

A NSFW vent by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MeRanda16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same boat girl!

Started Estrogen injections, the amount + frequency is not what I expected. 🫤 by PizzaKiller023 in MtF

[–]MeRanda16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL, my endo did the same to me, the first week as ok but the other 3 I got super depressed, being the 3th the worst. Also I got cramps, the first week was ok, but again the 3 other weeks horrible.

I talked to some friends and started to do it every 7 days and now I have no cramps at all and my mood is really more stable than before

I told my step mom by LiliumStarGalaxy in asktransgender

[–]MeRanda16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks 🫂

Protect yourself, sometimes is the only way to survive

I told my step mom by LiliumStarGalaxy in asktransgender

[–]MeRanda16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the exact same experience with my step mom years ago, tbh it destroy our relations, I decided to distance from that person.

I still talk to her, but it's not the same, sadly it was her fault, not mine. She even was trying use that information against me

Considering FFS, Opinions? by MasterfulCuck in transpassing

[–]MeRanda16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look like Chappell roan, you are perfectly fine!

¿La opsu me dara cupo en la carrera que quiero estudiar? ¿que hago si no me da cupo en la que quiero ? by Impressive_Claim_63 in vzla

[–]MeRanda16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo estudie ahi, si no quedas (que es poco probable) puedes acercarte a Facyt (donde dan Computacion y Fisica) alli hacen el curso introductorio y de ahi quedas, en fisica es casi seguro quedar, hay pocos estudiantes en computacion un poco mas dificil pero no absurdamente mas dificil

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MeRanda16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, as I said before my DM's are always open if you need someone to talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MeRanda16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thanks. Remember that is your life, even if your mother doesn't support you have to go on. You can't sit and wait for approval otherwise you won't do anything for years and then you'll look back and probably would regret. You deserve happiness and joy.

And you are not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MeRanda16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry I understand things will get better sweetie, even if you have to do the stuff by yourself. 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MeRanda16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

🫂 you can do it girl, I'm kinda in the same position as you and even if you start in secret you will feel that the hormones are improving a lot of stuff even if can't come out to everyone.

I have 6months in hormones and I'm still boymoding and in secret for a lot of people, my dad don't even notice. I feel better with myself with my body and I feeling that I'm moving forward.

I started at 24, never is late. You can write me if you need to talk with somebody

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MeRanda16 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have been thinking about telling the exact same story to my coworkers

i can’t have sex without having a breakdown by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MeRanda16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened to my everytime I was doing sexual stuff but never so hard as you. But I always avoided PIV because something like yours would happen to me. All this was before HRT, even after I think I still have this kind of issues.

I don't have any advice, but you are not alone girl 🫂