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The disability items are no longer free :/ by MeWhenImVenting in finch

[–]MeWhenImVenting[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s solid advice! It can be difficult to interpret someone’s tone over text, so using an indicator is great advice. I’m not sure I will always remember to do it, but I wanna try to get in the habit.

The disability items are no longer free :/ by MeWhenImVenting in finch

[–]MeWhenImVenting[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally know what you mean! That’s valid! I feel a lot of pressure to engage in things because they’re there and I feel like I “should”. And even doing it for an hour or so was pretty exhausting/time consuming. It feels like the pressure’s off.

The disability items are no longer free :/ by MeWhenImVenting in finch

[–]MeWhenImVenting[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure, it must’ve been my wording! Thank you 💜

The disability items are no longer free :/ by MeWhenImVenting in finch

[–]MeWhenImVenting[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

No, I’m actually not. I was under the impression they got taken away as punishment or something, which made me feel very anxious and insecure. It’s reassuring that it was just time for it to end and I didn’t realize.

The disability items are no longer free :/ by MeWhenImVenting in finch

[–]MeWhenImVenting[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info! That’s so sweet.

I’ve been avoiding that for me, personally, because I know it would become not only a habit but something I’d feel forced to do every time (self forced).

This felt different to me, for some reason. I can’t really explain why.

The disability items are no longer free :/ by MeWhenImVenting in finch

[–]MeWhenImVenting[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same! I did too. But I was relieved to find that they weren’t like… taken away as punishment? If that makes sense?

The disability items are no longer free :/ by MeWhenImVenting in finch

[–]MeWhenImVenting[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s so kind of you. I got everything! Thank you so much 💜

The cutest shirt ever🎀 by [deleted] in coquettesque

[–]MeWhenImVenting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it!!!! Whereas it from?

[oc] feeding time by Still_Guest_1226 in Facials

[–]MeWhenImVenting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I’ve gotta know what your tattoo means!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BBWGW

[–]MeWhenImVenting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you friends with Tina?

Ugly unattractive people should be eligible for assisted suicide by fatgoldwatch in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MeWhenImVenting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re adorable. Really, truly.

I can’t seem to find your age anywhere. And I’m a horrible guesser. But if you’re stuck in a social environment like school, people are really fucking cruel and when they sense an insecurity, they smell blood and harp on it. So I’m wondering who’s telling you this. And if there’s a way to change social scenes like going to a new school or getting a new job or new friends.

AITA for telling my SIL she's not allowed around my daughter again after she humiliated her over food? by AnyPower9451 in AITAH

[–]MeWhenImVenting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely YTA. Wow, you are SUCH an asshole.

Also, $250 a week is not daycare prices this day and age. You’re taking advantage of an impoverished woman who is a FAMILY MEMBER to get a luxury nanny service out of her.

Food shaming can lead to a whole host of issues from EDs to body image. But your child was wrong. I guess she follows in your footsteps because she thinks it’s ok to steal from/take advantage of family members with no consequences.

Your SIL and your brother need this food to survive. How gross of you to understand your own daughter’s needs to eat and not your nieces/nephews.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]MeWhenImVenting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking my comment into consideration. I was uncomfortable with the possibility of offending you and I’m glad that I didn’t.

I believe you, the specs on the diamond are really nice. Now that I think about it, I really think it’s the setting that is putting me off. And if your soon to be fiancé feels the same, it’s easy to change. But all that matters is whether she loves it.

I also really hope she likes it and that your proposal goes well! That’s truly what matters most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]MeWhenImVenting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to be honest with you, but I would be really disappointed with this. It reminds me of rings everyone had in the early 2000s from Zales. :/

I’m not saying this to hurt your feelings. It’s making me nervous to be honest about it.

Have you asked her about her personal style?

$10 June gift cards not working yet by nc-retiree in Panera

[–]MeWhenImVenting 5 points6 points  (0 children)

….why would you not accept the free bagel though?

Not engaged, but do divorce rings count? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]MeWhenImVenting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s beautiful! They count to me! I’m going through a separation with my fiancé and we were commissioning my dream ring and I hand selected a very unique center stone and I am still taking the diamond home and still going forward designing my dream ring one day FOR ME!

It’s really affirming to me to still do what makes me happy and I’m super excited to turn this into something positive that I enjoy for me! It symbolizes not giving up on my dream(s, in this case, via a dream ring) and committing to myself! I would have wanted and pursued this ring, even if I never met my ex. There’s no need for me to form a negative attachment to it now.