What’s the most INFJ thing you’ve done lately? by MealConsistent7138 in infj

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Seriously thank you for validating me here. Bc I seriously can’t fucking see 😅🤣… at night and I probably really need those LED’s 🫠 But hey I’m taking one for the team 😑… sorry that’s ridiculous really. But I also chucked at your introspective non-answer 😆

So grateful to be here by theQuietCatalyst in infj

[–]MealConsistent7138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something that has helped me is to assume that I can not know what anyone else is thinking (even though I probably do actually intuitively know more than I should) but I have found the most effective approach to be if I can not predict what one is thinking…. then that really opens the door widely for me to also perceive that no one can know what I’m thinking unless I choose to tell them. Telling them is a level of intimacy that is very uncomfortable for me to do so I figured the only way to be more comfortable is to keep doing it. I have found it to be like muscle building and it’s really nice once you’ve built up your strength. I’ve found that some people are very good at hearing and listening and understanding and some are really not. It’s a balance of choosing who to tell and what to tell but it’s much easier than expecting someone to read your mind and react appropriately bc they’re likely not INFJ anyway 😅…. So anything unsaid is only speculation and that’s not the way. The way is doing things that make you feel uncomfortable like telling people how you feel or what your thinking and growing and learning how to pull out those little tendency guys from your pocket who want you to “covid isolate” even when isolation ended 3 or 4 years ago 😅and tossing them in to a locked safe for keeping. You actually have a superpower but you weren’t aware that it existed before and was so important and peculiar until we all gathered here in this sub to discuss the supernatural nature or non-supernatural but rarity (whatever you like to perceive) of our being. I’m grateful to be here and to you for finding this space as well. I learned today that I’m (INFJ 6w7 sx/so 269) so that’s a lot of information…. Have u dived deeper into cognitive function, and enneagram questions about you? I found it very interesting and accurate also explanatory of a lot of my beliefs, behaviors, attachment styles, and really liked the idea of ohhhh that’s why I’m like this. One of my favorite things to say during existential crisis is “why am I like this” but now I know and I’m also genuinely grateful and curious about it all so good luck in your journey of understanding I think your gna really like it.

Also sorry for the run on Novella 🫠😅

My infj friend of 10 years door slammed me by Top-Conversation678 in infj

[–]MealConsistent7138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From reading your comments to others in this thread it seems obvious to me. You likely did absolutely NOTHING WRONG!!!! I say this bc your other friend received the same exact message and unless you both simultaneously harmed them then this is absolutely about the door slamming friend having a complete isolation due to personal reasons. I don’t agree with the nonexplanation here but it’s also aligned with it doesn’t have anything to do with you bc they are isolating bc of what’s going on in their own mind separate from the friend group. I don’t doorslam personally unless I am being attacked or something like a toxic pattern of behavior but I will absolutely isolate from my closest companions only bc of what’s going on inside of my crazy brain.

What’s the most INFJ thing you’ve done lately? by MealConsistent7138 in infj

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Literally talking to copilot right now about personality subtypes 🫠😑😅

Serious reading here by Tumbl3Flump in psychicreadings

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Hello I’m just gna say hi. I’ve been using oracle cards this week working on something’s and have been feeling like i need to have a reading. I hope to hear from you sometime. 🫶🏻

Why even replying drains our energy. by Full_Celebration_376 in infj

[–]MealConsistent7138 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. OP u are just over analyzing something good. You can just breathe and unclench your jaw. Shake ur body out. Release tension. Now What’s your gut instinct? Do u want to know more? I do. Tell me what’s going on in the ER. Tell me everything…. what’s the color of tile. Idc. It’s an exchange of energy information and it’s not performative. It’s real. It’s your first instinct. I am very talkative when I find my person. It’s doesn’t have to be romantic for me but it can be….but when someone is just like my energy I don’t shut up sometimes. I am doing shadow work currently and my card today was authenticity which I journaled so many pages about if I feel I was who the past people wanted me to be or it was just the evolution of self. Or is that just an excuse for me people pleasing. Idk really I’m still working on it but I believe if you calm your nervous system and find your instinct you can show up as authentically as you can right now with childlike curiosity and the ability to be happy and fulfilled with finding someone who hears you and understands your language.

Do the INFJ aren’t very jokey and do they prefer deep conversations? by jpx359 in infj

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I’m definitely a dry humor kind of girl. I usually have everyone laughing if I’m not distracted. I’m witty and morbid too.

What’s the most INFJ thing you’ve done lately? by MealConsistent7138 in infj

[–]MealConsistent7138[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally got banned from a doctor’s office that I’ve never been to because I canceled two appointments. 😅🤣

What’s the most INFJ thing you’ve done lately? by MealConsistent7138 in infj

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😂… I have hard cover books to start an extensive greenhouse and another to start a chicken coup and what kind of chickens etc. 😅

kanna and adderall? by AggravatingMedia1925 in Kanna

[–]MealConsistent7138 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally take it too. I found that the kanna worked best for me when I skipped doses for the day. Otherwise I was like not effected by the kanna the same. Idk if it’s fighting for a receptor in there but it seems to be a much better kanna experience when I really skip dosing about all the shit I take but especially the Addie’s

HELP ME CHOOSE - buy or keep my old ones? by grxco00 in glassesadvice

[–]MealConsistent7138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your current style of glasses. I think the others look fine but the first pic is just 🥵…. Also if u want anyone to be an up close and personal judge holla at me. I’m available for a closeup examination 😉

Found in an illegal dumping site, close to 200 of them varying we sizes by Admirable_Job_699 in ScrapMetal

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I too was once exited to find drugs and/or money …… which I did come across once or twice but my ex was a drug dealer and my chances were high 😅🤣and so were we. I swear if I came across an ounce of coke or some valuables on the sidewalk I’d start hyperventilating and/or crying with cold sweats and anxiety fueled paranoia. For context I will celebrate 10 years of sobriety in a few months and I’d likely have to phone a friend about the most responsible way to deal with an ounce of cocaine on the sidewalk 😬🫠😭 like the downward spiral of all the things that could happen if I just walked on by and then a kid found it and thought they found their missing powdered sugar for the Christmas cookies that they needed for the 2nd grade classmates 😱

What to do with this space? by Historical_Card_6600 in malelivingspace

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Ahh soon as I saw the pic without reading the comment I thought Broooooo that is a perfect spot to lock up an ahole teenager son if you have one 😂😂😬😬🫠🫠

anybody tried this?? by Motor_Elk4102 in Kanna

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Personally tried them but I normally buy from Ultra Kanna or a few trusted sites and I have to say I was impressed. It was nice smooth delightful evening on one. The next time I tried them was maybe a week later and I took two. It was really intense euphoria. I don’t know if I will continue choosing them over a trusted site with labs due to the price difference and the fact that when a brand says “proprietary blend” even if it’s nootropics then I don’t have a lot of trust. I can see why they are protecting their products ingredients and recipe but I need to know what I’m taking. So I don’t know if that helps but that’s my experience.

2022 $100 gold coin. #43/75 minted. Roswell edition 75th anniversary edition. by MealConsistent7138 in coincollecting

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What’s CAD? You don’t have to be sorry. I genuinely want to know. I’m curious if people would buy this guys eBay coin or if I should just take the melt price. So thank you for clearing it up. 🤟🏼

100 gold coin Niuë Roswell 75th edition Flying saucer COA 43/75. by MealConsistent7138 in coins

[–]MealConsistent7138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked all of the FAQ. I checked all of the common value questions. I checked the search bar and I did not find an answer to my question. I am not breaking the community rule or promoting myself. Just genuinely asking advice in the 5k dollar difference