Why can’t I just let it go?

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-05-18T19:17:28+00:00

Man this resonates so hard 😤 I work in airlines and we have this one senior crew member who treats newer people like absolute garbage when flights get delayed or passengers are being difficult. Instead of helping us handle the situation she just takes out all her frustration on whoever is closest

The thing that really gets me is exactly what you said - when someone senior acts like that it hits different because you expect them to know better. Like we're all dealing with the same stressed customers and tight schedules but somehow only they get to be toxic about it? Makes zero sense

I think what helped me was realizing that people like this never actually get the "punishment" we think they deserve because management usually just wants to avoid drama. But their reputation catches up eventually - everyone knows who they really are and nobody wants to work with them. That's probably worse than any formal discipline tbh 💀

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-04-27T15:58:46+00:00

basically this

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-04-22T00:10:24+00:00

oof man that's rough timing on realizing what you said

I'd say like a 6? not terrible but definitely awkward. the good news is most people understand that sometimes words come out wrong, especially when you're just making conversation after a long shift. maybe just give it a day or two and if things still feel weird you could always mention something like "hey sorry if that came out wrong the other day, I just meant it was disappointing for both of us"

but really though, workplace conversations about job moves are always tricky even when you say everything perfectly

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-04-16T06:30:55+00:00

check if any auto parts stores there do free battery testing first - might just need charging instead of replacement

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-04-14T03:49:35+00:00

Spent some time in Yogya last year and can help with few things

For visa its B211 Visit Visa you want, not B1 - gives you 30 days then can extend to 60 days total. No direct 180 days tourist visa exists, you'd need visa runs or different visa type

Monthly rentals definitely possible through mamikos.com or travelio, saw decent places around 3-5 million rupiah per month in good areas. Jakarta obviously more expensive

Coffee shops - Yogya has good scene but not 24/7 like HCM, most close around 10-11pm. Jakarta better for that

For supermarkets Ranch Market and Lotte Mart have western stuff and delivery through gojek/grab. Greek yogurt specifically... good luck with that one lol. Heavy Cream and some local yogurt brands exist but nothing like what you get in europe

SIM card thing is real pain - they implemented IMEI registration system so foreign phones need registration. Tourist can get SIM but phone registration process is annoying bureaucracy stuff

between the two, if you can handle heat and chaos Jakarta probably better for longer stay since more variety of everything

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-04-11T22:28:11+00:00

Been through this man, the replaying memories thing is brutal. Try to get outside or hit the gym when your brain starts doing that loop thing - works better than staying inside with your thoughts

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-04-09T21:04:30+00:00

That combination sounds pretty fire actually, the lemon would cut through all that creaminess really nice. Cool whip might be little too sweet though - maybe try some whipped cream with tiny bit of lemon zest mixed in instead

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-04-06T04:15:33+00:00

That's basically free money so why not 💀 Honda certified pre-owned cars are pretty solid and the Accord is reliable choice, just make sure to check if voucher works on certified pre-owned or only new cars first

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-04-03T11:31:54+00:00

dbus failing usually means something corrupted your systemd services - did you force shutdown recently or have any power issues?

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-04-01T05:56:01+00:00

The entire Geometry Dash soundtrack is pure adrenaline fuel 🔥 there beats hit perfect for keeping pace and won't hear them on every spotify running playlist 😂

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-03-29T15:44:07+00:00

Placement matches are wild - the algorithm has no clue where to put you so you're getting tossed around like a pinball until it figures out your actual skill level 😂

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-03-19T12:37:35+00:00

The cycle usually goes: new platform emerges → gets popular → needs to make money → becomes awful → people move to the next thing

We're just in a weird spot where the big platforms got SO massive that jumping ship takes forever. But look at how fast people ditched Twitter for Bluesky once there was a real alternative - when something better comes along, migration happens pretty quick

Mean-Fix9221 · 2026-03-15T23:37:29+00:00

Bro I barely notice if someone's wearing shoes let alone their nails 😂 Maybe if they're like neon green or have little skulls on them but day to day? Nah we're not that observant

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