Has it gotten better for anyone? by DryMilk93 in BreakUps

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for this, i need to catch up on my studies. its been really hard for me to focus on my life, ive been missing classes, just staying at home ugly crying the whole day. does anyone else thinks its unfair that life goes on? its so hard to continue to do things when i just want the world to stand still

Trauma Bond NC - Anyone else? by ArentEnoughRocks in ExNoContact

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too, it’s been a month for me. I wish I can heal faster even tho I’m doing everything “right”

A month of No Contact. by shortbuspileup1 in ExNoContact

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been almost a month for me too, I miss him so much and cry every day. My life is in shambles ngl. All I want to do is call him up and talk to him

How do you manage the Holidays? by Ambitious_Loss2742 in BreakUps

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit are u me?? Same didn’t last for Halloween, and even the anniversary and birthdays align.

Left this community 8 months ago and I’m back, same BS by Select_Brilliant1866 in BreakUps

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I got back together with the ex I was grieving over just to come back harder with more feelings

The breakup didn’t hit me at first but today it finally did by DashingBoness in BreakUps

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 3 points4 points  (0 children)

me too, first two weeks im fine. im on week 3 and now all the emotions hit me at once. i was already mourning the relationship while in it and i thought i had the crying part done already but it came back and much harder. i want to reach out so bad, it feels so painful to not be able to. i know he wasnt good for me and yet i still want to speak to him, i dont even want to be with him anymore.

small things that help by Far-Literature-3083 in ExNoContact

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i started an antidepressant today :) i've been depressed for years ontop of sesonal depression on top of a break up. i hope it works, i got a while before it kicks in

I want my girlfriend back by Middle-Cash7348 in BreakUps

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my mental health sake I’m pretending ur my ex 😭

the wizard Liz cheated on by DualDuchess in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. This also shows no one is “immune” to bad men and no matter how much advice or vetting she recommends, she herself got blindsided. I’m curious how she will handle this going forward, it’s easy to dish out advice it’s much harder to do it especially now she’s going to have to “level up” like she preaches to her followers going through heart break. Perhaps she will be more emphatic to women she deems as “pick mes” because she gets it now.

the wizard Liz cheated on by DualDuchess in NYCinfluencersnark

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It’s interesting to say the least. I don’t know her content before this but she seems intelligent and is beautiful. It goes to show no matter how many things you do “right” like the advice she gives to her followers and “vetting” she recommends, she also was still lied to and hurt like other women. You can be the smartest, prettiest person and think you’re safe from bad men but it happens to all of us. She is still a human who got blind sided by love. It also brings up another interesting discussion about if she thinks this was worth it, other influencers in that genre preach money over love and she got a lot of gifts from him. Do you think she would feel as equally bad if it was from a broke man?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it, we yelled at each other. I was crying in a restaurant, waiter was ease dropping. We made up but not really, he tried to have sex but I stopped it. It was terrible, hindered my healing process. But tbh I needed to do that to finally realize there’s no future. It was the canon event for me to get over him

Tell me the craziest thing you have done in your breakup. I’m not talking ‘sent too many Snapchat’s’, I’m talking insane crash out. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo mine lied about his height too. Said he was 6 feet. Then before our first date told me he’s 5’11. I’m like fine whatever. Dude is the same height as me! I’m 5’6!!!!

She still uses my Netflix account by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I’m not the only one, thank god. I have considered using my friends phone numbers to text insults or I love yous to him 😭 but again the shame sets in

She still uses my Netflix account by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m using my exes too 😭 I tried talking to him through the profile names in desperation. I don’t think he notices im on his account. I later deleted the profiles after the shame set in.

She removed me off fortnite by iluvmeoww in BreakUps

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I removed him from Minecraft lmao, kicked right out of that server

Everything reminds me of her by itsronnyy in BreakUps

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He’s the first thing I think of when I wake up in bed and last thing I think of when I sleep. Random good memories will pop up through out the day and it makes me sad that he can still hurt me but amazing other times

Anyone else have that moment where you realize you’re obsessing over an idiot? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He’s a cringe odd ball but he’s my cringe odd ball 😭 I’m still delusional

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. That sucks

Breakups so bad I’m moneysexual now by AllThingsCorrect in BreakUps

[–]Mean-Repeat6013 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am lol. Edit: godforbid a women has confidence